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What's your opinion of sexual/non-physical infidelity ?

1,436 50 November 1, 2010 at 07:52 AM in Chat
What is your definition of "infidelity"?
If I ask you to rate from 1-10 on three scenarios:
a. Your SO have an "non-physical infidelity" with someone else. eg. texting, or calling with sexual language, or expressing love feelings.

b. Your SO kissed someone else and he/she was not forced to do so.

c. Your SO has a sexual relationship with someone else.


Rating scale:
1. Whatever,I don't care
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5. unacceptable, we need to have a serious talk.
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10. It is over, I am going to kill you.

Oh, please post your gender.


PS.
My answer:
Male
a. 5
b. 6
c. 8

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Titansfan1234
11-01-2010 at 09:50 AM.
11-01-2010 at 09:50 AM.
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Nice, well played! laugh out loud



Yep. There's the extra-funny factor that the dude looks like a pedophile in their wedding pictures.
Did you get with his ex?
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zyx321
11-01-2010 at 10:05 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:05 AM.
a.) 8
b.) 9
c.) 9.9-10

I'm a guy. Anyone lays a finger on my wife or even looks at her in a lustful manner, I'll punch their lights out.

Quote from jmegirl :
am i the only woman who thinks emotional infidelity is worse than physical infidelity? look around

1) 8
2) 2
3) 5

Had this convo with my wife a while back and she feels the same way about the emotional vs physical cheating. She could possibly forgive physically cheating but emotional cheating she couldn't handle.
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Titansfan1234
11-01-2010 at 10:06 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:06 AM.
Quote from svt_gEEk :
a.) 8
b.) 9
c.) 9.9-10

I'm a guy. Anyone lays a finger on my wife or even looks at her in a lustful manner, I'll punch their lights out.

Had this convo with my wife and she feels the same way about the emotional vs physical cheating. She could possibly forgive physically cheating but emotional cheating she couldn't handle.
Yikes, a little jealous are we?
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slutsky
11-01-2010 at 10:10 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:10 AM.
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slutsky.

you need a woman.

and badly
What did you mean? If you were talking about getting laid, I have no problem with that.
If you were talking about a comfortable relationship, I do need to find my Ms right as quick as possible. That's my next year's resolution.
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zyx321
11-01-2010 at 10:18 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:18 AM.
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Yikes, a little jealous are we?
nah, not at all shake head
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11-01-2010 at 10:23 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:23 AM.
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Did you size the ring yet? Is this for the chick in LA Scratchchin
Speaking of that divorce lawyer in LA, she's coming Jan 2011. She will visit her brother in NY and she asked whether I have time to see her in Boston. I told her I should be able to make some time for her but give me a call before she finalizes the schedule ( who the hell knows what happens between now and then? I might have someone by then.)
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OwenKealy
11-01-2010 at 10:26 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:26 AM.
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Did you get with his ex?
No, I wasn't really that attracted to her.

Also, I wanted to take some moral high ground in the whole messed up situation.
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Titansfan1234
11-01-2010 at 10:27 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:27 AM.
Quote from OwenKealy :
No, I wasn't really that attracted to her.

Also, I wanted to take some moral high ground in the whole messed up situation.
Hah, understandable. But it woulda been a good way to get them to say "WTF".
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11-01-2010 at 10:29 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:29 AM.
Quote from slutsky :
Speaking of that divorce lawyer in LA, she's coming Jan 2011. She will visit her brother in NY and she asked whether I have time to see her in Boston. I told her I should be able to make some time for her but give me a call before she finalizes the schedule ( who the hell knows what happens between now and then? I might have someone by then.)
Roll
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11-01-2010 at 10:30 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:30 AM.
Roll
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AbbyGabby
11-01-2010 at 10:32 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:32 AM.
Quote from svt_gEEk :
I'm a guy. Anyone lays a finger on my wife or even looks at her in a lustful manner, I'll punch their lights out.
I'm the exact opposite. If a woman is checking out my husband, it kinda turns me on. And if she's a total hottie...even better. Evil
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itxtwhlstdrvng
11-01-2010 at 10:35 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:35 AM.
Quote from slutsky :
What did you mean? If you were talking about getting laid, I have no problem with that.
If you were talking about a comfortable relationship, I do need to find my Ms right as quick as possible. That's my next year's resolution.
It will never come while you're looking for it. Better to focus on something else.
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11-01-2010 at 10:39 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:39 AM.
Quote from itxtwhlstdrvng :
It will never come while you're looking for it. Better to focus on something else.
You might be right. nod
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11-01-2010 at 10:41 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:41 AM.
Quote from jmegirl :
I'm the exact opposite. If a woman is checking out my husband, it kinda turns me on. And if she's a total hottie...even better. Evil
What do you mean "checking out". I know we (men) look at boobs, asses
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11-01-2010 at 10:42 AM.
11-01-2010 at 10:42 AM.
Quote from jmegirl :
I'm the exact opposite. If a woman is checking out my husband, it kinda turns me on. And if she's a total hottie...even better. Evil
I love the way you think. Seriously. heart
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