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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?
November 23, 2010 at
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It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?
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if not....totally wrong!
It's said that it's one kind of wrong to do something you know is wrong, and it's another entirely to do something you know is wrong and lead others along with you. You are not only dating a married woman, you're allowing and inviting her to have an affair with you by your tacit compliance.
No amount of grammatical gymnastics you attempt to perform can escape that singular fact.
1) I am not 'allowing' her cheat. Don't know how you even got there. I'm not committing adultery or cheating on someone else.
2) If her husband ever finds out I think that will be less of a surprise for him than you think. I've known people in similar circumstances and it's very rare that the other spouse is surprised. So I don't see where he would react with your scenario.
3) I am not 'tearing apart' their marriage. Their problems are their problems. So I;ll ask you too....doesn't she deserve the right to some happiness and someone that cares about her?
4) No I am NOT leading her along. I am not 'allowing' her to cheat. That is her choice and we just happened to find each other. It's not like what you are trying to portray.
Wait a minute...
That basically sums it up...
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That basically sums it up...
One of the many things wrong with America's youth, ladies and gentlemen!
I love how you say that like it's totally crazy or outlandish somehow.
Okay, but if you really want opinions, I say - Yes, it's wrong to date a married woman, for a few reasons:
1. There are tons of hot women who are not married, so there isn't a need to date women whose husbands do not know they are screwing around. It's selfish. He has the right to know with whom he is sleeping, by default.
2. Just because she tells you they are estranged does not make it so.
3. If she's sleeping with you, she could easily be sleeping with other people, including her husband. You could bring home something vicious. Gross.
4. If they're so estranged, why can't she just tell him she's sleeping with you?
5. You're asking for your wife (when/if you get one) to sleep around on you.
6. When she gets pregnant and you get hauled into court, will there be anything wrong with that?
7. If he sues you for alienation of affection, will there be anything wrong with that?
I wouldn't trust her. She's sleeping around on her husband. I wouldn't believe a word she says. I'd find one that's free and clear of all obligations and all potential for murder.
But, that's me. And though I'm not a horny guy, I can think like one. There's really nothing that would make me sleep with a married woman if I were a guy. Nope. Women are already too complicated. I wouldn't get into that mess.
That basically sums it up...
One of the many things wrong with America's youth, ladies and gentlemen!
I love how you say that like it's totally crazy or outlandish somehow.
Oh and yes it is like totally 'outlandish' and 'crazy.' I'm not hurting anyone and I am making her happy.
Come on....why doesn't she have the right to have some happiness?
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I told you so. In most cases, ppl always frown upon the lover/mistress. So, that's all you're going to get here......ppl griping about how you're the jerk. Forget the fact that you're not the one who's married. But, that's the society we live in!