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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?
November 23, 2010 at
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It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?
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And you don't have to take the vows, SHE did, and you should respect them, if nothing else, out of human decency.
Good to know!
She cant be trusted. You are a nice shade of grey. If you're just in it for the sex then expect her to stay only until she finds someone with a better quality. If you want to have a real relationship with her...put the breaks on this relationship until her marriage is ended. Also be careful of what state you are in. If the hubby finds out he could sue YOU.
"Only a few states in the United States still allow alienation of affection lawsuits. These states, as of 12/2009, are: Hawaii, Illinois, Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah."
People that stay in bad relationships usually have issues of their own.
Hey...you said I am trolling.....I should mod alert that!
You are having sex with another man's wife. Do you have any morals? Any religion? Upbringing? Family values?
This woman is committed to that man and you are helping her break that commitment. Accessory. You are forcing her to cheat, but you are an accessory.
Yes I have morals. Just that you don't approve of this decision I made does not mean I am void of morals. Religion? No I don't believe in god. Yes I had an upbringing. (
I'm not helping her break her commitment as she has already done that by making her choice. And in no way am I forcing her to do anything.
Ok you can all go back to your math problems. I have tried to explain myself and that isn't getting through. A couple of people think I am not doing anything wrong.
Let's just say you're at a bar, obviously together, another dude comes on to her. Ignores you and the fact that he can see you're together. Is that dude wrong?
I meant the question as you and her, literally ... so let me dumb it down a little more for you:
What if you find out she's bangin some other dude that knows you're bangin her?
No hard feelings towards him right? He's still a stand up guy right?
Actually this thread is just done anyways. We all agree except for 2 or 3 posters out of many of us that it is incredibly wrong and what you are doing is helping to break up a marriage, whether it is "headed to towards an end" anyways. If you truly want to be with this women and are really there to "protect her" then tell her husband what you have been doing and help her out of the marriage. Then immediately marry her and post a thread when she cheats on you because of your "emotional abuse".
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Hey...you said I am trolling.....I should mod alert that!
Got it. You think I am a douche.
Yes I have morals. Just that you don't approve of this decision I made does not mean I am void of morals. Religion? No I don't believe in god. Yes I had an upbringing. (
I'm not helping her break her commitment as she has already done that by making her choice. And in no way am I forcing her to do anything.
Ok you can all go back to your math problems. I have tried to explain myself and that isn't getting through. A couple of people think I am not doing anything wrong.
Hey...you said I am trolling.....I should mod alert that!
I meant the question as you and her, literally ... so let me dumb it down a little more for you:
What if you find out she's bangin some other dude that knows you're bangin her?
No hard feelings towards him right? He's still a stand up guy right?
I can hear it now 'But you are an accessory to that person breaking the rules and that makes you an accessory!!!'
Do you hold marriage in high regard? Do you hold monogamy in high regard? I ask because our society tells us we're supposed to be monogamous and, as this thread shows, a great deal of people at least pretend to agree with that. I'm not suggesting anyone is lying, but what we say publicly and what we actually do or have done are not always one in the same. Of course, some really dig monogamy and more power to them if that makes them happy.
Basically, if you don't hold the belief that monogamy is really important I figure your own conscience can be fairly clear. I think it's rather unrealistic to expect that one can fulfill all the needs of their mate, and monogamy is clearly contrary to the way many of us would prefer to act, so I understand where cheaters are coming from.
I don't think anyone here is going to say what you're doing is perfectly fine, as the husband probably would care if he knew, but not everyone's ethics are the same.
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Carry on old chap!