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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?
November 23, 2010 at
03:06 PM
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It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?
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I think this thread should be linked next to the definition for "self deluded" on dictionary.com.
Therefore, without your willingness to assist, she could not cheat.
Therefore, you are also cheating.
You may not like it, but that's the case. You don't have to take the vows to break the vows.
Therefore, without your willingness to assist, she could not cheat.
Therefore, you are also cheating.
You may not like it, but that's the case. You don't have to take the vows to break the vows.
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Do you hold marriage in high regard? Do you hold monogamy in high regard? I ask because our society tells us we're supposed to be monogamous and, as this thread shows, a great deal of people at least pretend to agree with that. I'm not suggesting anyone is lying, but what we say publicly and what we actually do or have done are not always one in the same. Of course, some really dig monogamy and more power to them if that makes them happy.
Basically, if you don't hold the belief that monogamy is really important I figure your own conscience can be fairly clear. I think it's rather unrealistic to expect that one can fulfill all the needs of their mate, and monogamy is clearly contrary to the way many of us would prefer to act, so I understand where cheaters are coming from.
I don't think anyone here is going to say what you're doing is perfectly fine, as the husband probably would care if he knew, but not everyone's ethics are the same.
If he knew what his own ethics are, why would he be here asking us what his ethics are?
Thank you.
wow i just noticed there's no wiki option in here... was looking for cliff notes.my answer would be yes to OP, well unless she's married to you.
ETA: nvm saw it's integrated into OP, but no one made one
Wow, you really are clueless
Wow, you really are clueless
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