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Missing 16 year old...please read! Update Post 133 - Found

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Hello, everyone. My daughter's friend is missing. From all reports, she ran away with her boyfriend on Monday, April 11. The last message that she left said that she was going to shut her phone off and throw it out the car window. That call was placed in Fond du Lac, WI.

I know this is a HUGE site and gets a lot of traffic, so I'm asking if everyone could keep an eye out for her car. It is a light green 2006 Ford Focus, Wisconsin plate 842 KDV.

Casey is 5'6, medium to thin build with shoulder length dark hair. Kris (her boyfriend) is 17 years old, a bit taller with shoulder length blonde shaggy hair. He is running away from legal trouble (I don't know what kind of trouble) but it should be noted that he stole a car 2 years ago and was found in New Mexico after 2 days. Because of that fact, they could be anywhere.

If you see them or their car, please call the police.

Here [facebook.com] is a link to a facebook page her mother created. It contains photos and more information.

Thank you for reading! I know her mother is frantic, and we are trying to get the message out so hopefully she can be brought home safely.

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HeyLookItsMe
04-18-2011 at 03:21 PM.
04-18-2011 at 03:21 PM.
Quote from rachael_9667 :
Also, I don't get the RIP pages - are you talking about 4chan the internet group/rickroll people? Why would they get involved with a missing girl?
someone pissed someone off Dontknow
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daniel32
04-18-2011 at 03:57 PM.
04-18-2011 at 03:57 PM.
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Thank you for the kind words. Still no update as of this post. Unfortunately, it does look like people from 4chan got ahold of the page and are posting away. It's horrible, just horrible. Frown
what's with the 4chan part?

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someone pissed someone off Dontknow
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Any word today?



Also, I don't get the RIP pages - are you talking about 4chan the internet group/rickroll people? Why would they get involved with a missing girl?
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04-18-2011 at 04:23 PM.
04-18-2011 at 04:23 PM.
Quote from Curtieson :
Wait....

Are you saying that the stuff they are doing (running away from home / hiding at his parents house) is going to get him Jail Time?

So...(for all we know) he thinks his GF and him are on a vacation...going to Florida for a couple months to spend some time together...he thinks the GF told her parents everything and didn't want to be bugged by the outside world so they got rid of their phones.

Ok, its a stretch, but in no way is running away from home considered doing something illegal that is going to get them jail time...that is like saying he STOLE the girl (as she is a possession of her parents) ...this is all on the understanding that they are both willingly hiding, even if one is pressuring the other.

There was the slight mention of the boy stealing the car (was that a past charge?)...if anything the GF is getting herself into jail time since she is knowingly aiding and abetting a criminal.

Not trying to say this isn't hell for her family...but she is the one doing it / put herself into the situation. Just trying to take a step back look at the situation.
OP said the BF is running from legal trouble. If he doesn't show up for court a bench warrant will be issued for his arrest. That's not a huge deal but when you add his previous grand theft auto charge and evasion along with him ending up in another country, a judge will absolutely take all of it into account during sentencing.

He takes a minor with him and depending on how things play out and how the prosecutor is feeling - the BF could be charged with kidnapping, false imprisonment, endangering a minor. They're going to need money and so on... Will this get him more jail time? He wouldn't have gotten it in the first place but now, yes. It's hard to explain but sentencing is based on the charges, legal minimums, what the prosecutor feels is appropriate, what the judge feels is appropriate, AND math. Yeah. Sentencing is also decided by priors. You get a certain number of points.

At 16 she's full of hormones and errant irrational decision making is to be expected. I'm certain that at some point she will want and try to leave realizing that she's made a mistake. Again, I hope not just that she comes home safe but that he does also and that he gets his life together. heart

P.S. Please understand that at some point she will change her mind about being with him away from her friends and family. At that point if he refused to let her leave it would be kidnapping and false imprisonment. I suspect she'll change her mind when he tries to pimp her out to get money. Sorry to be blunt. Frown
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04-18-2011 at 04:39 PM.
04-18-2011 at 04:39 PM.
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OP said the BF is running from legal trouble. If he doesn't show up for court a bench warrant will be issued for his arrest. That's not a huge deal but when you add his previous grand theft auto charge and evasion along with him ending up in another country, a judge will absolutely take all of it into account during sentencing.

He takes a minor with him and depending on how things play out and how the prosecutor is feeling - the BF could be charged with kidnapping, false imprisonment, endangering a minor. They're going to need money and so on... Will this get him more jail time? He wouldn't have gotten it in the first place but now, yes. It's hard to explain but sentencing is based on the charges, legal minimums, what the prosecutor feels is appropriate, what the judge feels is appropriate, AND math. Yeah. Sentencing is also decided by priors. You get a certain number of points.

At 16 she's full of hormones and errant irrational decision making is to be expected. I'm certain that at some point she will want and try to leave realizing that she's made a mistake. Again, I hope not just that she comes home safe but that he does also and that he gets his life together. heart

P.S. Please understand that at some point she will change her mind about being with him away from her friends and family. At that point if he refused to let her leave it would be kidnapping and false imprisonment. I suspect she'll change her mind when he tries to pimp her out to get money. Sorry to be blunt. Frown

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she tricked him into having unprotected sex with her telling him she was on the pill, she is now preggers with his baby. she is telling him he has to raise the baby and her parents want to abort it so they have to run away from home….


why does he have to be the bad guy?


why are we making up stories as to what might be happening….
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04-18-2011 at 10:17 PM.
04-18-2011 at 10:17 PM.
Quote from MissyMooMoo :
Okay. To each his own.

IMO, any 16 year girl living on her own with no parental supervision, no money, and no where to live is in a dangerous situation.
Iagree

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she tricked him into having unprotected sex with her telling him she was on the pill, she is now preggers with his baby. she is telling him he has to raise the baby and her parents want to abort it so they have to run away from home….


why does he have to be the bad guy?


why are we making up stories as to what might be happening….
She said "if" and "could." She's not making up stories, she says "if he does this, such and such could happen to him." That didn't sound like making up stories to me. She was just sharing her knowledge on some hypothetical situations. Dontknow
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04-19-2011 at 06:11 AM.
04-19-2011 at 06:11 AM.
Quote from MissyMooMoo :
I don't understand what difference any of this makes. The girl is missing. The family wants to find her before something bad happens to her.
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It makes a difference because she made a conscious choice to leave her family. She called and said she was leaving and didn't want to talk to her mom again, that doesn't sound like someone forced...

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It's hard to just let them go. Especially when you know they are in a dangerous situation.
I do agree with that...I don't agree with the "Whatever, just let her go and forget about her" approach...

Quote from tigger_too_wooh :
If they cross state lines then he can be arrested for kidnapping and they should be able to put out an amber alert at that point...
Facepalm seriously...

Well, they are in HER car, which SHE used to drive HIM over statelines willingly...1) doesn't really sound like kidnapping...and 2) isn't she the one kidnapping a minor???

Quote from LinuxChick :
OP said the BF is running from legal trouble. If he doesn't show up for court a bench warrant will be issued for his arrest.

He takes a minor with him and depending on how things play out and how the prosecutor is feeling - the BF could be charged with kidnapping, false imprisonment, endangering a minor.

At 16 she's full of hormones and errant irrational decision making is to be expected
We have NO IDEA what the legal trouble is...the OP said the boy stole a car when he was 14-15 and drove from Wisconsin to New Mexico...if the girls mother couldn't see that he was trouble to start with...that is a whole separate issue...but the kid could be running from a detention sentence now or even murder for all we know. But everyone is assuming the worst.

Again...everyone is painting this as a completely one way situation...does the girl have a record? She is hanging out with "felons" so it wouldn't surprise me... And to add...the girl never mentioned she was running away with her BF, it is all admittedly her mothers assumption.

I guess it just bugs me that everyone's 1st assumption is that the boy is controlling the girl in this situation, and I believe that is solely just because the girls mom is the one freaking out and calling Internets-11, even though the girl is the one with the car and it is widely known girls are more mature at a younger age then boys so really she could be the one manipulating him.
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04-19-2011 at 06:14 AM.
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why does he have to be the bad guy?

why are we making up stories as to what might be happening….
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04-19-2011 at 07:28 AM.
04-19-2011 at 07:28 AM.
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Iagree



She said "if" and "could." She's not making up stories, she says "if he does this, such and such could happen to him." That didn't sound like making up stories to me. She was just sharing her knowledge on some hypothetical situations. Dontknow
but after the COULD came a STORY that she MADE UP
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04-19-2011 at 07:34 AM.
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she could be the one manipulating him.
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04-19-2011 at 07:34 AM.
04-19-2011 at 07:34 AM.
Facepalm some of you are just as bad as the people who made the RIP pages.
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04-19-2011 at 07:36 AM.
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04-19-2011 at 07:40 AM.
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Quote from Fallacy :
Facepalm some of you are just as bad as the people who made the RIP pages.

why are you comparing me to myself Whee


this story is soo much drama it just screams over-protective parent…. i have no doubts as to why that girl ran…. her parents were smothering her to death….
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04-19-2011 at 08:46 AM.
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why are you comparing me to myself Whee


this story is soo much drama it just screams over-protective parent…. i have no doubts as to why that girl ran…. her parents were smothering her to death….


Numchucks Those darn caring parents and their rules. Don't they realize she's 16 and she already knows everything? She is invincible. Strong

We need to start declaring kids as adults at 13 years old and kicking them to curb. Stop all this drama once and for all.
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04-19-2011 at 08:57 AM.
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Pirate



Numchucks Those darn caring parents and their rules. Don't they realize she's 16 and she already knows everything? She is invincible. Strong

We need to start declaring kids as adults at 13 years old and kicking them to curb. Stop all this drama once and for all.

theres a difference between parenting and helicoptering….
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