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Wife and I are going to be parents!

11,718 2,539 May 2, 2011 at 08:48 AM in News
While my wife isn't pregnant, we both strongly feel that adopting a newborn is the right choice for us(for atleast our first kid). We are in the process of getting our homestudy completed and getting all the paperwork in and getting a profile up for birthmothers to see.

We have considered the county foster to adopt, but as a first kid we really want a newborn and through the county it is rare to get newborns(from what they say). If we adopt a second or third kid later in life, we would probably go this route though. We just really want to get all the experiences of the stages of life.

Its exciting news...we are in the process of saving and raising money because adoptions through an agency cost a pretty penny... but we are feel its worth it... just wanted to share because i am excited Whee

we are very open on gender or race so the process should go quicker, we are also doing a domestic adoption as international adoptions require more legal work... now its time to set the room up for the homestudy and save save save... Whee

if anyone has adopted and have tips or good info...please share!

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KTMay
05-02-2011 at 10:48 AM.
05-02-2011 at 10:48 AM.
Awesome excitement abounds! Very cool. Wishing you a smooth ride!
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Sox.at.six
05-02-2011 at 11:30 AM.
05-02-2011 at 11:30 AM.
Don't know anything about adoptions, but I hope everything goes smoothly for you and the wife.

Sox
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DC
05-02-2011 at 11:33 AM.
05-02-2011 at 11:33 AM.
I hope the process goes easily and quickly for you guys!
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noungning
05-02-2011 at 11:37 AM.
05-02-2011 at 11:37 AM.
Cool! I hope your journey goes through smoothly. woot
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Schooby
05-02-2011 at 11:40 AM.
05-02-2011 at 11:40 AM.



Schwimpy approves this thread!

Congratulations to you and your DW. Smilie hug

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Zoe Moon
05-02-2011 at 11:45 AM.
05-02-2011 at 11:45 AM.
Good luck with the adoption!
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mattman688
05-02-2011 at 11:47 AM.
05-02-2011 at 11:47 AM.
Schwimpy! Whee
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veritablequandary
05-02-2011 at 11:49 AM.
05-02-2011 at 11:49 AM.
Wait so you didn't even buy the kid yet?
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05-02-2011 at 12:08 PM.
05-02-2011 at 12:08 PM.
Congrats hug

Adoption Credit(s) thru the IRS link:
http://www.irs.gov/newsroom/artic...83,00.html

That may help you out some after the fact Smilie
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SnakePlisken
05-02-2011 at 12:12 PM.
05-02-2011 at 12:12 PM.
I'm all for that & have been tryin to adopt a 16 year old korean girl. but my wife keeps sayin NO !!
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Thrifteh
05-02-2011 at 12:31 PM.
05-02-2011 at 12:31 PM.
Oh Matt, I just got a tear in my eye!!! Weeping I am so excited for you and K!!!!! Please give her a big ole hug from me! When you get further along in the process you will need to let Auntie Thrifteh know more details so I can send ya a box o' goodies!!! Whee

You and K and your baby to be will be in my prayers along this fabulous journey!!!
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05-02-2011 at 01:03 PM.
05-02-2011 at 01:03 PM.
no advice, just a congrats on making the decision woot
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05-03-2011 at 08:06 AM.
05-03-2011 at 08:06 AM.
Quote from Thrifteh :
Oh Matt, I just got a tear in my eye!!! Weeping I am so excited for you and K!!!!! Please give her a big ole hug from me! When you get further along in the process you will need to let Auntie Thrifteh know more details so I can send ya a box o' goodies!!! Whee

You and K and your baby to be will be in my prayers along this fabulous journey!!!
i will definitely keep you posted on this process...I hope it goes through, i just hope the birthmom doesn't play games with us. luckily the company we are going through offer assistance to the mothers but also weed out the bad moms in the aspect of a birthmom must fill out a 24 page questionaire before accepted into using the company's adoption process... We met someone who went through another agency and they got sucked into $10k worth of "living expenses" in a 3 month period to the birthmom. I couldn't imagine that, but our agency said we offer up whats comfortable with us, and they will stay firm with potential birthmoms. Its a lot to take in, but its an exciting moment!
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05-03-2011 at 08:09 AM.
05-03-2011 at 08:09 AM.
Congrats, Matteo!! Groupwave
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saint.
05-03-2011 at 08:41 AM.
05-03-2011 at 08:41 AM.
congrats sir! very interested in seeing how everything goes.
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