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Wife and I are going to be parents!

11,718 2,539 May 2, 2011 at 08:48 AM in News
While my wife isn't pregnant, we both strongly feel that adopting a newborn is the right choice for us(for atleast our first kid). We are in the process of getting our homestudy completed and getting all the paperwork in and getting a profile up for birthmothers to see.

We have considered the county foster to adopt, but as a first kid we really want a newborn and through the county it is rare to get newborns(from what they say). If we adopt a second or third kid later in life, we would probably go this route though. We just really want to get all the experiences of the stages of life.

Its exciting news...we are in the process of saving and raising money because adoptions through an agency cost a pretty penny... but we are feel its worth it... just wanted to share because i am excited Whee

we are very open on gender or race so the process should go quicker, we are also doing a domestic adoption as international adoptions require more legal work... now its time to set the room up for the homestudy and save save save... Whee

if anyone has adopted and have tips or good info...please share!

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SlickChik
06-25-2011 at 04:29 PM.
06-25-2011 at 04:29 PM.
Quote from mattman688 :
we've been unofficially matched, we have a match meeting with the birth parents next thursday! They looked at our profile(a letter explaining who we are and a picture collage) and they chose us. Its all moving quickly and if this gets finalized we should have a baby boy by late september early october... now the hard part is finding the rest of the money...yikes....
Awesome!!!

I heard adoption is super expensive...I'm sure you guys will figure something out though. hug
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AggieMom
06-25-2011 at 05:08 PM.
06-25-2011 at 05:08 PM.
Yahoo! Great news!!!

We used the Social Security name database to help select which names we wouldn't use. Anything in the top 50 was immediately off the table.

http://www.ssa.gov/oact/babynames/
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SlickChik
06-25-2011 at 05:35 PM.
06-25-2011 at 05:35 PM.
Boy names!

Benjamin
Evan
Owen
Luke
Finnian
Liam
Graham
Micah
Declan
Gage
Gavin
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jenni.
06-25-2011 at 05:38 PM.
06-25-2011 at 05:38 PM.
Congrats!! Whee
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Drio
06-25-2011 at 06:22 PM.
06-25-2011 at 06:22 PM.
V cool Matt. Good luck.
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Nikayla
06-25-2011 at 08:40 PM.
06-25-2011 at 08:40 PM.
Congrats, hope it is official soon. How exciting!
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Ms.arteest
06-25-2011 at 09:04 PM.
06-25-2011 at 09:04 PM.
I'm just coming in to this process, but the two of you must be super excited! What about family names? Do either of you have an ancestor with the same name?
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Majide
06-27-2011 at 11:23 AM.
06-27-2011 at 11:23 AM.
Here's a nice website to find names:
http://www.behindthename.com/

You can figure out what names mean, and find what names are popular. That way you can avoid the really popular names, or find names that are popular in different countries, too.

Congratulations!
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mattman688
07-02-2011 at 02:49 PM.
07-02-2011 at 02:49 PM.
We were officially matched yesterday, our baby boy will be due October 7th!
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AggieMom
07-02-2011 at 03:19 PM.
07-02-2011 at 03:19 PM.
Yahoo! Congratulations! That's great news. And double cool that your boy will be born after Sept 1st. That makes a huge difference come kindergarten. So glad I got to keep mine at home one more year to grow up a little more.
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Schooby
07-02-2011 at 04:43 PM.
07-02-2011 at 04:43 PM.
Congrats mattman! I am uber super duper happy for you and I know that the little boy who gets to become your son is the luckiest little dude ever. Smilie
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damsel.
07-02-2011 at 04:55 PM.
07-02-2011 at 04:55 PM.
Quote from mattman688 :
We were officially matched yesterday, our baby boy will be due October 7th!
Congrats, Matty!!! hug
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SlickChik
07-02-2011 at 05:58 PM.
07-02-2011 at 05:58 PM.
CONGRATS!!!!

Whee
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daisee
07-02-2011 at 06:11 PM.
07-02-2011 at 06:11 PM.
Congrats Matt!!! Whee

hug
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smiley333
07-02-2011 at 06:31 PM.
07-02-2011 at 06:31 PM.
woot Congrats!
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