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666 346 September 23, 2011 at 12:34 PM in Help
OK, okay, I won't post any more threads in the lounge for a while after this, I promise. Embarrassment

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Between my dad's recent hospitalization and other things, I have had a lot of stressful situations going on in my life lately.

Recently, I went over to a friend's (Friend2) house for a little get together and left my DS lite with a few games and other things (totaling approximately $150) because my friend (Friend1) requested that I do so. This friend (Friend1) then left the house, forgetting the DS Lite and all along with a backpack full of my sleep-over necessities (toothbrush, shampoo, etc.) at my other friend's (Friend2) house.

After two weeks of texting Friend2, so many excuses have been made as to why I can't go over and get the DS. I wouldn't doubt by now he sold it to some crack head for $5.

What can I do in this situation? Friend1 is like a brother to me.

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w3kn
09-25-2011 at 03:09 PM.
09-25-2011 at 03:09 PM.
Quote from SabrinaC :
Two people at the house that night are willing to "testify" the item was left in his possession. There were only five people there that night.
Still don't have your DS, eh?
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SabrinaC
09-25-2011 at 08:51 PM.
09-25-2011 at 08:51 PM.
Quote from w3kn :
Still don't have your DS, eh?
Unfortunately, no.

The most depressing part about this is that the DS was an old birthday gift from my dad. He's in the hospital right now and it's not looking good at all... so if I go missing a few days y'all will know why.

Hope to be back with good news..
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w3kn
09-26-2011 at 04:44 AM.
09-26-2011 at 04:44 AM.
Quote from SabrinaC :
Unfortunately, no.

The most depressing part about this is that the DS was an old birthday gift from my dad. He's in the hospital right now and it's not looking good at all... so if I go missing a few days y'all will know why.

Hope to be back with good news..
Hoping for the best for you my friend.
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ashcampbell
09-26-2011 at 06:08 AM.
09-26-2011 at 06:08 AM.
Quote from dzap :
Your friends...are dicks. Anytime I forget or leave something at a friend's house they will either tell me that I left it, personally return it to me (not often this happens..but sometimes), or if I ask, they'll say they just left it by their other stuff and to pick it up the next time I'm over.
Or at least have the decency to send you pictures of the item either tea bagged or held for ransom with a current newspaper.

Quote from dzap :
Throw a window through the window with a note saying "you know what you did. You know what I want. You have a week for this to mysteriously show up on my doorstep...or....bad things..WILL HAPPEN."
How big of a window?

Quote from PaintTheSkyGrey :
Uh, what?

If you leave something at someone's house, it means it's legally theirs for the taking/selling/sodomizing?
That was one time and I fell over you. And no I did not have the decency to give him a reach around.

Quote from SabrinaC :
Hope to be back with good news..
Document that he said he'd bring it by when you confronted him at work about it. If you know other dates and times that you contacted him and spoke about it write those down as well. Did you happen to have a friend or was anyone around when he said he'd bring it by?
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09-26-2011 at 07:44 AM.
09-26-2011 at 07:44 AM.
Quote from ashcampbell :

Document that he said he'd bring it by when you confronted him at work about it. If you know other dates and times that you contacted him and spoke about it write those down as well. Did you happen to have a friend or was anyone around when he said he'd bring it by?
I know dates and can estimate times. A friend of mine is the manager where he works, but whether or not she was "eavesdropping," I am unaware. Doesn't hurt to ask.
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SabrinaC
09-30-2011 at 09:45 AM.
09-30-2011 at 09:45 AM.
Decided to email an officer the other day and received several replies, this being the most interesting:

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Sabrina;

I could have an officer accompany you over to the residence to attempt to retrieve the property. The officer cannot get involved in any forceful situation, i.e. "making" the other party return your property.

However, the mere presence of an officer can prompt most individuals into doing the right thing. If it is not successful, the officer can take a theft report and submit to City Court or County Court, depending upon the dollar amount of the property.

Let me know your schedule, what day and time would be best, and I will try and make arrangements to assist you.
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w3kn
09-30-2011 at 10:18 AM.
09-30-2011 at 10:18 AM.
Quote from SabrinaC :
Decided to email an officer the other day and received several replies, this being the most interesting:
That would probably wake him up a bit. Hopefully it doesn't need to come to that.
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09-30-2011 at 10:24 AM.
09-30-2011 at 10:24 AM.
Quote from w3kn :
That would probably wake him up a bit. Hopefully it doesn't need to come to that.
Unfortunately it does. He refuses to reply to my texts now.
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w3kn
09-30-2011 at 10:25 AM.
09-30-2011 at 10:25 AM.
Quote from SabrinaC :
Unfortunately it does. He refuses to reply to my texts now.
Yep, it's time to bring out the guns (literally!)
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09-30-2011 at 10:27 AM.
09-30-2011 at 10:27 AM.
Quote from w3kn :
Yep, it's time to bring out the guns (literally!)
The only problem now is being there when he is home. He hasn't been there in days (I know this because he lives down the street from me and we go by his house on my way to college).
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09-30-2011 at 10:35 AM.
09-30-2011 at 10:35 AM.
Quote from SabrinaC :
The only problem now is being there when he is home. He hasn't been there in days (I know this because he lives down the street from me and we go by his house on my way to college).
He has to go home sometime.
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09-30-2011 at 10:45 AM.
09-30-2011 at 10:45 AM.
Quote from w3kn :
He has to go home sometime.
*shrugs* We will see.
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idkist
09-30-2011 at 11:00 AM.
09-30-2011 at 11:00 AM.
Tell the guy you'll give him OT's if he gives your DS back. Then setup the time you'll meet him at his place. Then show up there with the cop.
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09-30-2011 at 11:05 AM.
09-30-2011 at 11:05 AM.
Quote from idkMyBFFist :
Tell the guy you'll give him OT's if he gives your DS back. Then setup the time you'll meet him at his place. Then show up there with the cop.
OTs? what are those?
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09-30-2011 at 11:36 AM.
09-30-2011 at 11:36 AM.
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OTs? what are those?
Come to my house and I'll show you.
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