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What's up with the N word? Keep it out of the Podium please.

12,738 11,124 July 20, 2012 at 06:48 PM in Question
It really bothers me when black people or for that matter anyone uses the N word.

I was walking into Wal-Mart today, when I passed a group of five young black kids. All I heard was N this and you F-ing N. More then once in the short time it took me to get out of ear shot of them.

My question is if it is an offensive word for a white person to say it, what makes it less offensive for a black person to use it?

If I would have been walking past them with some of my white friends and called one of them a N In front of them, I would more then likely would have had to defend myself.

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07-24-2012 at 12:31 PM.
07-24-2012 at 12:31 PM.
Quote from w3kn :
What she does when she's elsewhere is her business. But she will not be using it in my presence.
What if she does? Would you hit her? If so, and you do it around me, I will be the first to call CPS !!! Wink
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07-24-2012 at 12:33 PM.
07-24-2012 at 12:33 PM.
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What if she does? Would you hit her? If so, and you do it around me, I will be the first to call CPS !!! Wink
To avoid getting banned, I'm just going to keep my mouth shut.
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07-24-2012 at 12:34 PM.
07-24-2012 at 12:34 PM.
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What if she does? Would you hit her? If so, and you do it around me, I will be the first to call CPS !!! Wink
Fark off.
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07-24-2012 at 12:38 PM.
07-24-2012 at 12:38 PM.
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To avoid getting banned, I'm just going to keep my mouth shut.
PM it to me. I won't tell anyone. Smilie
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07-24-2012 at 12:40 PM.
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PM it to me. I won't tell anyone. Smilie
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07-24-2012 at 12:51 PM.
07-24-2012 at 12:51 PM.
Since we are all interested in slick deals, one thing we have in common is that we are all very Niggardly [wikipedia.org]
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07-24-2012 at 12:53 PM.
07-24-2012 at 12:53 PM.
Come on guys, I'm trying to give ashcampbell a hard time about being an avatarless noob.
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07-24-2012 at 01:02 PM.
07-24-2012 at 01:02 PM.
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Come on guys, I'm trying to give ashcampbell a hard time about being an avatarless noob.
I appreciate your attempt at changing the topic.

And I agree! Everyone needs avatars!!! Ranting He should change is ASAP! Maybe something related to whatever that movie is called... Is it Evil Dead? Confused3
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07-24-2012 at 01:07 PM.
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And I agree! Everyone needs avatars!!! Ranting He should change is ASAP! Maybe something related to whatever that movie is called... Is it Evil Dead? Confused3
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ashcampbell
07-24-2012 at 02:10 PM.
07-24-2012 at 02:10 PM.
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Isn't it past time you got an avatar?
They keep getting rejected..something about a nipple rule.
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Come on guys, I'm trying to give ashcampbell a hard time about being an avatarless noob.
Dont make me dig out a good one of me.
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I appreciate your attempt at changing the topic.

And I agree! Everyone needs avatars!!! Ranting He should change is ASAP! Maybe something related to whatever that movie is called... Is it Evil Dead? Confused3
Is that...zomg...you you rocky mnt bible thumping trumpet! Stick Out Tongue

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Hawk2007
07-24-2012 at 02:22 PM.
07-24-2012 at 02:22 PM.
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i didn't read the whole thread but here's what i know.

"nigga" is the slang for "censored" used in a friendly way amongst friends. kinda like "yo homie or hey bro"

whilst "censored" is the derogatory and offensive term op speaks of.

One still looks like an ignorant fool using either.
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serra | Staff
07-24-2012 at 03:17 PM.
07-24-2012 at 03:17 PM.
i disagree.

those who do not know the difference are the ignorant ones because they are the ones that get offended.

urbandictionary.com - it's in there like how bostongirl and i explained it, yo.
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Majide
07-24-2012 at 03:26 PM.
07-24-2012 at 03:26 PM.
I think that the two words sound so similar that if someone wanted to be offended by either word, they would be.
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Hawk2007
07-24-2012 at 03:48 PM.
07-24-2012 at 03:48 PM.
Quote from serra :
those who do not know the difference are the ignorant ones because they are the ones that get offended.

How do mods come down on the word "faggot" since it means a cigarette in some cultures?

Do you think if either were used by say.... a white person in a position of power.... the media would correctly point out the difference?

The really educated blacks I work with never use either. I generally hear this from the youth and little educated AAs. I'm no fan of Obama, but I'd be even more disappointed with him as a person, as a husband, and as a father if he uses either in private.

Quote from Majide :
I think that the two words sound so similar that if someone wanted to be offended by either word, they would be.

That is correct.

In a court of law, I think a judge and jury would see no difference. We can debate that all day long, but they're both racially charged words.
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07-24-2012 at 03:49 PM.
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next time mr. sd wants to ban you both, i'm not saying shit. Mad
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it's so cute that you think he listens to you.Comfort
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