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Is Pornography Cheating?
June 20, 2007 at
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So I'm listening to my local radio station and an interesting point has been brought up by the hosts when a listener has called in. The point is that his girlfriend has really grilled him thoroughly about finding pornography on his computer.
One host says that pornography is cheating while the other feels that it is not cheating. The caller views this as not cheating. My personal opinion is that it is not cheating as long as there is no physical contact.
This same question can be posed in the form of whether an "online" relationship is considered "real" or not. However, that is for a much different topic and a much different thread.
So the question I pose to you: Is Pornography Cheating?
One host says that pornography is cheating while the other feels that it is not cheating. The caller views this as not cheating. My personal opinion is that it is not cheating as long as there is no physical contact.
This same question can be posed in the form of whether an "online" relationship is considered "real" or not. However, that is for a much different topic and a much different thread.
So the question I pose to you: Is Pornography Cheating?
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Yeah and it's so fun to get AIDS and be at risk for STDs
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/progra...135473
700 arrested for global child porn ring
http://www.cbc.ca/canada/edmonton...-ring.html
Violent killers and their relationship to porn
http://www.guardian.co
http://media.www.theba
If they get AIDS or HIV really it's there own fault...they are consenting to have to unprotected sex...
For that matter, how come only the women are victims in your reasoning shouldn't men be victims too...
You're not cheating on your partner if there is no communication, no physical contact, and no emotional contact. You're watching a video, or tv, or whatever...
What if your partner gets deployed to Iraq for 2 years and after year 1, you finally break down and wank it to Pamela after you just saw Baywatch on TV... you just cheated on your partner?
Masturbating is cheating too?
Honestly is the most important part of any relationship. Porn is no different than anything else, really.
Masturbating is cheating too?
I think it is selfish... and it doesn't create any type of bonding in a relationship. Every time a person has sex with their spouse, there is an intimacy that is created. That is the reason for sex (besides the whole baby-making thing). When someone is willing to take care of things themselves without bothering their spouse or when someone would rather have their spouse go away and do it by themselves without assisting them in any way by having sex with them, they are shortchanging their spouse and are throwing away an opportunity for intimacy.
That is why I believe it's wrong. We kind of talked about that in the other thread, though...
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I think it is selfish... and it doesn't create any type of bonding in a relationship. Every time a person has sex with their spouse, there is an intimacy that is created. That is the reason for sex (besides the whole baby-making thing). When someone is willing to take care of things themselves without bothering their spouse or when someone would rather have their spouse go away and do it by themselves without assisting them in any way by having sex with them, they are shortchanging their spouse and are throwing away an opportunity for intimacy.
That is why I believe it's wrong. We kind of talked about that in the other thread, though...
Also, in answer to someone elses question earlier.... It is possible for a man to have an orgasm w/o ejaculation. It requires use of a pressure point, and is not very comfortable, but can be done.
Masturbating is cheating too?
Why do you think it's called cheating in the first place? Because you're getting the rewards without all of the work of building an emotional relationship and making a commitment to somebody.
Oh, wait...that was just my dream about you
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