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So my wife is dating this guy...

8,512 793 July 5, 2007 at 07:19 AM in Finance (13)
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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stealth
07-05-2007 at 08:58 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:58 AM.
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laugh out loud High Five

Remember the Valentine's Day thread? It was the same sentiment. nod
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Dizzy Devil
07-05-2007 at 08:59 AM.
07-05-2007 at 08:59 AM.
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Just Peachy
07-05-2007 at 09:00 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:00 AM.
Stealth, is there a possibility that the guy is having some relationship problems of his own and is leaning on your wife for advice? She has five kids at home and a husband of only three years. I'd like to toss her the benefit of the doubt and think that she's just trying to help the guy through a problem that she's promised she won't regale with others. If she's messing around on you, she's got to be hopeful that the guy is going to take her with three kids in tow because I'm positive she's got to be thinking about the flip side of having an affair and being homeless if that, in fact, is what has transpired.
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*JeanGrey*
07-05-2007 at 09:00 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:00 AM.
OP, are you cute? Let's get together and drown our sorrows Cheers

In all seriousness, obviously you've been feeling unhappy for quite some time and this is just the straw that breaks the camel's back. Maybe you should talk to her, if you feel you can get anything out of it. If you're just completely unhappy then maybe that doesn't even matter. Follow your heart. Good luck. heart
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Caydensmom
07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
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laugh out loud High Five

Remember the Valentine's Day thread? It was the same sentiment. nod
wait a minute, was that the one where you didn't get her the right necklace and she threw a BF?
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07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
Quote from *JeanGrey* :
OP, are you cute? Let's get together and drown our sorrows Cheers

In all seriousness, obviously you've been feeling unhappy for quite some time and this is just the straw that breaks the camel's back. Maybe you should talk to her, if you feel you can get anything out of it. If you're just completely unhappy then maybe that doesn't even matter. Follow your heart. Good luck. heart
High Five Are you near KC? Beer
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Shucksgirl
07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
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Thanks! I think that's my issue with it, too. High Five

I felt like it was a slap in the face Slap
See...Girls aren't always from Venus and guys aren't always from Mars. Sometimes we live on the same planet Wink2
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07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:03 AM.
Quote from Caydensmom :
wait a minute, was that the one where you didn't get her the right necklace and she threw a BF?
nod The one and only.
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cav
07-05-2007 at 09:04 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:04 AM.
Quote from Caydensmom :
I don't think we have all the details. I know you just recently went through a divorce but it isn't always the answer to problems in a relationship. I see alot of folks jumping on the divorce bandwagon and just wanted to make sure he's considered everything before he takes the leap.
i guess he hasnt considered everything...

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Caydensmom
07-05-2007 at 09:05 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:05 AM.
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nod The one and only.
I recind my previous statements, fark her.
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WoodyWoodPecker
07-05-2007 at 09:08 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:08 AM.
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nod The one and only.
Move on to greener pastures , you don't need her crap ! nod
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Drio
07-05-2007 at 09:10 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:10 AM.
Quote from Peachyum :
Stealth, is there a possibility that the guy is having some relationship problems of his own and is leaning on your wife for advice? She has five kids at home and a husband of only three years. I'd like to toss her the benefit of the doubt and think that she's just trying to help the guy through a problem that she's promised she won't regale with others. If she's messing around on you, she's got to be hopeful that the guy is going to take her with three kids in tow because I'm positive she's got to be thinking about the flip side of having an affair and being homeless if that, in fact, is what has transpired.
Peachy... 1 am? No. 1 AM is "Well that was fun... but oh man I really need to get home! Do you have any wet wipes?!?!"

Again, I'm sorry Stealth. Been there with a GF before. Worst feeling in the world.
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Texazz
07-05-2007 at 09:10 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:10 AM.
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we had promised not to cheat to each other
I am guessing there is more to the story here....why would you two have to make this promise? Two people that love each other simply do not want to cheat. So.....??

Let me guess...you two were both married, and you had an affair together and fell in "love". You get divorces so that you can be together....and now here you are. Am I close??
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07-05-2007 at 09:11 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:11 AM.
Quote from Texazz :
I am guessing there is more to the story here....why would you two have to make this promise? Two people that love each other simply do not want to cheat. So.....??

Let me guess...you two were both married, and you had an affair together and fell in "love". You get divorces so that you can be together....and now here you are. Am I close??
We had both been cheated on in our previous marriages.

We met long after being divorced on both sides.
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*JeanGrey*
07-05-2007 at 09:12 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:12 AM.
Quote from stealth :
High Five Are you near KC? Beer
Not even close. Sadwalk We could meet in the middle though. How does somewhere in the middle of Ohio sound?

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Peachy... 1 am? No. 1 AM is "Well that was fun... but oh man I really need to get home! Do you have any wet wipes?!?!"

Again, I'm sorry Stealth. Been there with a GF before. Worst feeling in the world.
laugh out loud
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