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So my wife is dating this guy...
July 5, 2007 at
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..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?
She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her!
What would you do?
She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her!
What would you do?
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I don't like divorce at all, but in this case you need to protect yourself. If you feel like she's preparing to leave you, then make sure you are ready.
But 3 times in one week, staying out until 1am? I'm sorry, but that's extreme in our situation.
Stealth said he's been unhappy for awhile. This looks like a good excuse to get out if that's what he really wants. If she's straying, maybe she's been feeling his unhappiness too. I hope they can sit down and talk this out to get to the heart of it for all of their sakes.
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Again, I'm sorry Stealth. Been there with a GF before. Worst feeling in the world.
If it was a lunch meeting, there would be less stigma.
I think I have a prob with the 1am thing. Not that 2 people couldn't do whatever they wanted to do any time of the day or night. It more of a respect issue for me I think. To be out until 1am with a "friend" of the opposite sex, in a one on one situation...is very disrespectful to one's so imo.
Respect is high on my list of must haves for a healthy relationship.
IMO, one would be worried only if he/she knows in their right mind..that they are doing wrong.
I love platonic friendships
yes..3 times in a week 1 am is disrespectful, esp. when you are married with kids. Once in a month or less so..wouldnt bother me.
No amount of honest clean healthy fun will make you totally disregard your SO and kids like that.
I've found myself on all sides of this coin before. (while unmarried) Just a word of advise to those who haven't... it's never worth it.
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But you have to admit... there's not much to do at 1am besides you-know-what.
If it was a lunch meeting, there would be less stigma.
Someone mentioned above that maybe she is helping the guy though a rough patch in his life, but she could have simply said so. Since she didn't she more then likely had jumped on his pogo stick and hopped around the bed.
I'd be nice if she only was befriending this guy, but I doubt it.
I also wonder if she finally wants to be the cheater since she was previously cheated on.
You said that thinks have more or less sucked in your opinion, so is it reasonable to assume that its been sucking for her too???
The cards look like its been a bad deal, and I'd fold rather then going all in at this point.
Conserve assets as others have indicated above.
I hope its just a misunderstanding, but I don't think it is.