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So my wife is dating this guy...

8,512 793 July 5, 2007 at 07:19 AM in Finance (13)
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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cav
07-05-2007 at 09:51 AM.
07-05-2007 at 09:51 AM.
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Dizzy Devil
07-05-2007 at 10:00 AM.
07-05-2007 at 10:00 AM.
Quote from Drio :
True... they can. But to me the 1am thing nails the coffin. You know that feeling of being swept up in 'something new' makes you do stupid things... like stay out til 1 am when you're married with kids at home. (only because stealth has confessed that this is not the norm for her)
No amount of honest clean healthy fun will make you totally disregard your SO and kids like that.

I've found myself on all sides of this coin before. (while unmarried) Just a word of advise to those who haven't... it's never worth it.
Dontknow For me, it's the "norm" that is the issue, not the time. If she doesn't have male friends, and suddenly does? Then yes, that's an issue. For me, my "norm" is to be out late with friends, male or female. It doesn't sound like her norm, so there's the problem. Something's up.

Even being married with kids... laugh out loud I didn't know us married parents had curfews? What's wrong with staying out late every now and then? (I only go out a few times a YEAR, so it's not like I'm abusing it)
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07-05-2007 at 10:09 AM.
07-05-2007 at 10:09 AM.
Quote from Caydensmom :
I recind my previous statements, fark her.

Yeah...no kidding. I was with you thinking "Well...there might be more to it than she's sharing" or something...but damn...I remember reading his posts about how she was pissed that he didn't get her the exact necklace she wanted..and I thought then "What a farking bitch!".

Plus the fact when he said "It's him or me"..she made the choice to call up her guy friend and go out. That's just wrong. I understand ultimatums suck but that was Not the time to go out with that guy. It's weird that she's telling him about the guy. Is she trying to make Stealth jealous? It's odd.

I'm sorry you're going through this, Stealth hug
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banananut
07-05-2007 at 11:10 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:10 AM.
So you allowed your wife to go with this guy?? That's kind of messed up. A lot.
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Drio
07-05-2007 at 11:12 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:12 AM.
Quote from banananut :
So you allowed your wife to go with this guy?? That's kind of messed up. A lot.
Nah, using phrases like "allowed your wife..." are a bit more messed up.
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07-05-2007 at 11:13 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:13 AM.
Quote from banananut :
So you allowed your wife to go with this guy?? That's kind of messed up. A lot.
What was he going to do to stop her?

I mean, she is an adult... you can't ground her like you would a child. And if you do anything else to stop her, you can get arrested.
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07-05-2007 at 11:23 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:23 AM.
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cav
07-05-2007 at 11:43 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:43 AM.
Quote from IVIax :
I'm surprised that you even said it -- you date only shallow bimbo's. And let me guess you're not married and proud to be single and get ass all the time? Most of us have grown out of the "I hate women" and/or "I want to be a bachelor forever" stage (unless they're gay).
or recently divorced.. this is where i stand in life... why would I want anything long term at this point after all that just failed for me. maybe again some day but I highly doubt it. unfortunately I agree with about 95% of what 'sally' said. its the mindgames us men can play that rope in alot of dumb/ditzy/hot ho's. Treat them like shit you win. now before you SD women pound me into the ground for my thoughts/theories/studies, not ALL woman are like this and I do not think that they are.
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07-05-2007 at 11:45 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:45 AM.
Quote from cav :
or recently divorced.. this is where i stand in life... why would I want anything long term at this point after all that just failed for me. maybe again some day but I highly doubt it. unfortunately I agree with about 95% of what 'sally' said. its the mindgames us men can play that rope in alot of dumb/ditzy/hot ho's. Treat them like shit you win. now before you SD women pound me into the ground for my thoughts/theories/studies, not ALL woman are like this and I do not think that they are.
But why would anyone DESIRE a woman like that?

And even so, it's still not right! Just because a woman reacts that way when someone treates her badly doesn't mean that a man should hit her or treat her like trash... shake head

I have no problem with someone dating casually. But this guy is speaking outright abusively and hatefully about women. That is WRONG.

Oh, and if he never does get over it... that is all he will get. He will never have a good, moral, honest, truthful woman that he can stay with for the rest of his life. And trust me, as hard as it is to believe when someone is going through a divorce, they actually DO exist. nod
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07-05-2007 at 11:45 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:45 AM.
Quote from cav :
or recently divorced.. this is where i stand in life... why would I want anything long term at this point after all that just failed for me. maybe again some day but I highly doubt it. unfortunately I agree with about 95% of what 'sally' said. its the mindgames us men can play that rope in alot of dumb/ditzy/hot ho's. Treat them like shit you win. now before you SD women pound me into the ground for my thoughts/theories/studies, not ALL woman are like this and I do not think that they are.
I have to agree with what you said. The tactics of "I'm an asshole, bend over and take it b*tch" only work on "dumb/ditzy/hot ho's", if that's what you're aiming at then good for you (not you as in you, but you as in plural you), but Stealth seemed like that's not what he was aiming for when he got married last time. Dontknow
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07-05-2007 at 11:45 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:45 AM.
Quote from cav :
or recently divorced.. this is where i stand in life... why would I want anything long term at this point after all that just failed for me. maybe again some day but I highly doubt it. unfortunately I agree with about 95% of what 'sally' said. its the mindgames us men can play that rope in alot of dumb/ditzy/hot ho's. Treat them like shit you win. now before you SD women pound me into the ground for my thoughts/theories/studies, not ALL woman are like this and I do not think that they are.

You were so close to getting pounded. I suppose the last line gave you some redemption LMAO
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07-05-2007 at 11:46 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:46 AM.
Quote from PassionateGray :
But why would anyone DESIRE a woman like that?

And even so, it's still not right! Just because a woman reacts that way when someone treates her badly doesn't mean that a man should hit her or treat her like trash... shake head

I have no problem with someone dating casually. But this guy is speaking outright abusively and hatefully about women. That is WRONG.
One night stand? (or multiple one night stands?) fark buddy? (call it what you want).
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07-05-2007 at 11:47 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:47 AM.
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We've all got a little Evil in us ! Ok
Oh! Tell her the story of Woody and the Pecan orchard! Woot
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07-05-2007 at 11:49 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:49 AM.
Quote from Drio :
Yea, thanks for spreading that seed around... we're real close to extinction here.. all we need are more dumb people breeding. Thumbsup
Best sarcastic sentence I've read today! I love it. woot bounce laugh out loud
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07-05-2007 at 11:50 AM.
07-05-2007 at 11:50 AM.
Quote from Drio :
Yea, thanks for spreading that seed around... we're real close to extinction here.. all we need are more dumb people breeding. Thumbsup
LMAO Ugly people fark ugly people, dumb people fark dumb people... what can you do? Dontknow
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