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So my wife is dating this guy...

8,512 793 July 5, 2007 at 07:19 AM in Finance (13)
..I think it's time to dump her. Should we get divorced?

She went out last Saturday night with some guy, stayed out until 1 am. Then on Tuesday, she's out again until 1 am, says they went to eat and then a movie!!?! Last night, 1:30. It's getting later, I guess it's time to dump her! Sadwalk

What would you do?
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finzz2dlft
07-09-2007 at 02:35 PM.
07-09-2007 at 02:35 PM.
Stealth Frown hug hug
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SGTSlick
07-09-2007 at 02:45 PM.
07-09-2007 at 02:45 PM.
Form this and previous threads, it sounds like you two just aren't going to work out...Sadwalk

G/L in whatever you decide to do.
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jenni.
07-09-2007 at 04:08 PM.
07-09-2007 at 04:08 PM.
Quote from stealth :
Thanks. And, yes she does.. only not me! EEK!




I'm in the process. nod I'm having a surprise party for her. laugh out loud There's going to be divorce papers, suitcases, and party hats
Somehow, I knew that comment was coming....

That would be hilarious.
Seriously, I'm sorry, dude.
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djsapphire
07-09-2007 at 04:46 PM.
07-09-2007 at 04:46 PM.
Quote from compugeek722 :
it sucks that she out with another guy... but who in their right mind would tell their husband that if they were cheating???? did you ever consider perhaps she's not happy with something you're doing... 90% of the time women leave men for emotional reasons NOT physical... and a lot of times its something minor that just got ignored over and over and over again... so it blows up into something crappy like this... maybe she has self esteem issues... none of these are excuses I know... but do you love her??? I mean really love her??? marriage means forever deemed by GOD... PLEASE if you do get divorced stay away from marriage for a third time unless you are willing to stick it out... adultery is the only excuse for a divorce in the bible HOWEVER trying to work it out is still strongly suggested.... I don't mean to spill all this religious stuff but I'm so tired of people not sticking their marriages through and just running to get a divorce at the first sign of trouble... I don't blame you for wanting one... I really don't... but maybe there is another side to this... she's still your wife, and you either still love her or did at one point... so why not at least give it a try... if anything at least god will smile down upon you...
Like they say: once a cheater, always a cheater.

Cheating on someone has to do with trust, respect, and integrity. If someone cheats on the other party, he/she is debasing the commitment to the other party. There are better people in the world who would never commit such an act. They may not always be happy in life but they would not disrespect their SO in such a way.

Stealth, you are better off without the drama. You could forgive her but you never know what could happen next. Good luck buddy. hug
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TigerStar
07-09-2007 at 06:01 PM.
07-09-2007 at 06:01 PM.
Wow Stealth. Good to hear you are taking it so well.



off topic, but I think that has probably set an SD record for number of votes in a poll.
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07-09-2007 at 06:05 PM.
07-09-2007 at 06:05 PM.
Quote from TigerStar :
Wow Stealth. Good to hear you are taking it so well.



off topic, but I think that has probably set an SD record for number of votes in a poll.
High Five

I also got "Best Thread Title Ever" and a nomination for Most Replies in a Drama Thread, as well as Worst Supporting S.O. laugh out loud
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Just Peachy
07-09-2007 at 06:07 PM.
07-09-2007 at 06:07 PM.
Quote from stealth :
High Five

I also got "Best Thread Title Ever" and a nomination for Most Replies in a Drama Thread, as well as Worst Supporting S.O. laugh out loud
Do good by her kids too and you'll get Daddy of the Year here as well. Wink
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Mobius One
07-09-2007 at 06:10 PM.
07-09-2007 at 06:10 PM.
Quote from stealth :
Thanks. And, yes she does.. only not me! EEK!




I'm in the process. nod I'm having a surprise party for her. laugh out loud There's going to be divorce papers, suitcases, and party hats
Big Grin thats has to be the best way to give somebody divorce papers I have ever heard.
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Tufargon
07-09-2007 at 06:22 PM.
07-09-2007 at 06:22 PM.
I read this whole thread and Stealth, you have gone through this the right way. I commend you for thinking with you head and not your heart on this. My parents went through this when my mom was cheating and not even hiding it. It didn't end up like your situation. Keep it up bro. Freedom from her will be a good feeling I'm sure. Great job!! Hope she will pay child support too. There is a such thing as dead beat moms too.
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XXnarg
07-09-2007 at 07:03 PM.
07-09-2007 at 07:03 PM.
I wish we could hear all the sides of relationship stories we read about here - his, hers, the interloper's, the kids', etc..

I'm not questioning stealth's telling of it in the least.

Wouldn't you really like to hear the wife explain what she's doing and what is going through her head?

And what does the guy think, that he's special and she won't cheat on him later?
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Schooby
07-09-2007 at 07:04 PM.
07-09-2007 at 07:04 PM.
At her party don't forget to play Ding Dong the Bitch is Dead...




what? Oh sorry I guess it's Ding Dong the Witch is Dead!
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shuriken
07-09-2007 at 07:05 PM.
07-09-2007 at 07:05 PM.
btw, is this your wife?

https://slickdeals.net/forums/showpost.php?p=7170110&postcount=93

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07-09-2007 at 07:10 PM.
07-09-2007 at 07:10 PM.
Quote from schbusdrvr :
At her party don't forget to play Ding Dong the Bitch is Dead...




what? Oh sorry I guess it's Ding Dong the Witch is Dead!
yup yup that would be way to fun Smilie

Quote from Xnarg :
I wish we could hear all the sides of relationship stories we read about here - his, hers, the interloper's, the kids', etc..

I'm not questioning stealth's telling of it in the least.

Wouldn't you really like to hear the wife explain what she's doing and what is going through her head?

And what does the guy think, that he's special and she won't cheat on him later?
Kinda, but not really. There can be no reason why somebody would cheat on there spouse Ever
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stealth
07-10-2007 at 06:23 AM.
07-10-2007 at 06:23 AM.
Quote from Xnarg :
I wish we could hear all the sides of relationship stories we read about here - his, hers, the interloper's, the kids', etc..

I'm not questioning stealth's telling of it in the least.

Wouldn't you really like to hear the wife explain what she's doing and what is going through her head?

And what does the guy think, that he's special and she won't cheat on him later?
You are right. There are two sides to every story (well, 3 including the lover). And, the kids have their perspectives, too!

Here's what she told me. I'm not supportive of her, and I don't spend enough time with her. I push her away. It's my fault she did this. EEK!

I know I wasn't the perfect husband, and I regret that. I'm not going to be getting into any more serious relationships anytime soon.

As far as what he's thinking, who knows! Evidently, he used the "L" word yesterday, but she didn't use it back.

All I know is, I go to sign the divorce papers in 30 minutes, and I can't wait! Yahoo!


EDIT: Xnarg, notice I put your quote in my siggy! Thumbup
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07-10-2007 at 06:30 AM.
07-10-2007 at 06:30 AM.
Quote from stealth :
You are right. There are two sides to every story (well, 3 including the lover). And, the kids have their perspectives, too!

Here's what she told me. I'm not supportive of her, and I don't spend enough time with her. I push her away. It's my fault she did this. EEK!

I know I wasn't the perfect husband, and I regret that. I'm not going to be getting into any more serious relationships anytime soon.

As far as what he's thinking, who knows! Evidently, he used the "L" word yesterday, but she didn't use it back.

All I know is, I go to sign the divorce papers in 30 minutes, and I can't wait! Yahoo!


EDIT: Xnarg, notice I put your quote in my siggy! Thumbup
make sure to get your valentine's day gift back from the bitch before you kick her to the curb.
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