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December 28, 2009 at
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Totally.
I'm not positive on what your situation is completely, but it's better to have documentation of all your interactions (good and bad) to show how you're dealing with each other and the kids, just in case something happens. If the kids tell you how they feel about something involving you two, write it down as well. Anything that happens. If she tries to take you to court for full custody and get child support when you've obviously been doing all the work, then the judge should take all of that into account.
But unless it's documented (ie time stamped) then it's just a bunch of he said/she said. It's better if you have something to refer back to. If you're lucky you'll never have to use it, but it's better just to have it in case.
I know it's a bitch, but I've just read so much up on dad's getting screwed over that I'm looking out for your best interests and your kids.
You can even document what fun things you did with the kids or any disciplinary actions.
Hopefully you'll never have to use it. But just in cases!
Dear Diary,
Today I start documenting all of my significant actions with the ex and the children.
Love,
Vrogstar
I know it's a bitch, but I've just read so much up on dad's getting screwed over that I'm looking out for your best interests and your kids.
You can even document what fun things you did with the kids or any disciplinary actions.
Hopefully you'll never have to use it. But just in cases!
There's also no way she can afford a lawyer, whereas I can.
There's also no way she can afford a lawyer, whereas I can.
:bowdown :
:sorr y:
I seem to be fixated on Merkins today
Was tempted to just come in an hour late and get a little more shut-eye.
So noted
And no USB cable at my desk.
Shit.
The younger one was acting up. She told me I needed to leave the jam, pick the kid up, and take her back to my house.
Honestly, what was her parenting like when you were together. Could she handle them then?
sounds just like my ex. When my ex has them on his weekend and they start getting out of control, he will call me and tell me that I need to be a better at punishing them and not let them act so wild.
Totally.
anything you can document which would reflect her unreliable actions regarding co-parenting can be beneficial
Wheres Thrift?
she prolly has a flash drive full of excel spreadsheets and pdfs of sworn statements on her person at all times *just in case*
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I finally fell asleep at midnight and was up at 5. Suck it up buttercup.
:first world problems: (for her)
You can but you shouldn't unless you want her first word to be fark.
:first world problems:
Honestly, what was her parenting like when you were together. Could she handle them then?
Yeah, cuz kids never run around and play and get hyped up.
You will be able to do so when this temp job ends
Your lunch hour is done...we need an update.
You. are. kidding. me!!!!!
Yes, as simple as this. Date for sure and time if you want to get that specific about it. Do you have past communication via text? That is as easy as dumping it off your phone and throwing it into excel.
If it will be used it will be put in an affidavit and when you sign this legal court form you are taking an oath that all information is true and accurate.
Pretty much.
Dear Diary,
Today I start documenting all of my significant actions with the ex and the children.
Love,
Vrogstar
I just let him talk and talk and talk during the meal. The easy way out would have been to tell him that I was atheist :duh: At one point he invited me to Catholic mass because it would be fun. He also told me that last week, he thanked God for Mcd's. I don't know why anyone would be thankful for that, but whatever. I just told him, it wasn't going to work out. I didn't even bother giving him a reason because he would have tried to turn my words all around.
Anyway it's done and over and I can get on with my day!
Anyway it's done and over and I can get on with my day!
I know it's a bitch, but I've just read so much up on dad's getting screwed over that I'm looking out for your best interests and your kids.
You can even document what fun things you did with the kids or any disciplinary actions.
Hopefully you'll never have to use it. But just in cases!
There's also no way she can afford a lawyer, whereas I can.
You do realize that once you file and retain an attorney she can retain an attorney and request in the settlement that YOU pay her court costs and attorney fees. Now, her finding an attorney that will take her case without a retainer is another story, so she will probably end up with some dirt bag.
Yes, I did this and it was no problem whatsoever. I gave all of the information to my attorney and he put it into the affidavit.
You do realize that once you file and retain an attorney she can retain an attorney and request in the settlement that YOU pay her court costs and attorney fees. Now, her finding an attorney that will take her case without a retainer is another story, so she will probably end up with some dirt bag.
Honestly, what was her parenting like when you were together. Could she handle them then?
If it will be used it will be put in an affidavit and when you sign this legal court form you are taking an oath that all information is true and accurate.
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