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151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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FeedMeAlmonds
02-21-2013 at 09:22 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:22 AM.
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Was referred to this show before. She seems completely legit. I searched her pictures on Google, zero matches. Granted, haven't met her though.
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Mutual friends between me and her....
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So you weren't sure if this person was 100% real a few days ago but you have mutual friends yet you have't asked them about her?

Is this new form of catfish where the forum folk are being hoodwinked (trolled)?
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02-21-2013 at 09:48 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:48 AM.
Quote from FeedMeAlmonds :
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So you weren't sure if this person was 100% real a few days ago but you have mutual friends yet you have't asked them about her?

Is this new form of catfish where the forum folk are being hoodwinked (trolled)?
They'd probably tell her I'm talking about her to them...
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02-21-2013 at 09:51 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:51 AM.
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Seriously. Wtf are you doing sharing her personal info on a public forum? If I were her, I'd kick you in the nuts.

I didn't read the thread but are we getting trolled?
You won't get very far from a photo...
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02-21-2013 at 09:53 AM.
02-21-2013 at 09:53 AM.
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You won't get very far from a photo...
You won't get very far period.

If this is real, stop posting her personal info.
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tennisplayer888
02-21-2013 at 10:36 AM.
02-21-2013 at 10:36 AM.
Quote from ALVSGIRLY :
She needs to put on her big girl panties!
Dont big girl panties just get thinner and thinner, and smaller?
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02-21-2013 at 11:30 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:30 AM.
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Scratchchin From that picture, that could very well be a male, too.

Tomato
How is that?
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02-21-2013 at 11:36 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:36 AM.
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How is that?
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02-21-2013 at 11:51 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:51 AM.
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Explain da boobs.
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02-21-2013 at 11:52 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:52 AM.
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Explain da boobs.
Have you seen her boobs?
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02-21-2013 at 11:53 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:53 AM.
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Have you seen her boobs?
Yes. In the pics.
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02-21-2013 at 11:56 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:56 AM.
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Yes. In the pics.
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02-21-2013 at 11:57 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:57 AM.
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Umm... no.
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02-21-2013 at 11:58 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:58 AM.
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Umm... no.
You still don't even know if girl on Facebook is the person you're talking to.
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02-21-2013 at 11:59 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:59 AM.
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You still don't even know if girl on Facebook is the person you're talking to.
I'll video chat tonight.
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02-21-2013 at 11:59 AM.
02-21-2013 at 11:59 AM.
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Lol2

It looks just like him her!

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Explain da boobs.
Yeah, because it's not possible for a guy to wear a bra and stuff it with something.
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