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Serious question for you older and maybe younger women out there...do you still want sexy, sexy time after 50? No OT please.

4,298 360 April 13, 2018 at 05:28 PM in Chat (3)
I am getting a lot of excuses as my gal gets older, she says it's all ever think of, but I don't buy that. I think she should be happy, most guys my age are limp noodles,broken down, fat, and half dead..
I say if theres a problem lets fix it. I only want women's opinions in this thread please..
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GoodLuckPenny
04-18-2018 at 09:46 PM.
04-18-2018 at 09:46 PM.
If you really love her you can learn to live without the sex. She has been through a lot and needs to know that you are with her for her, not the sex.
If sex is more important to you than her, she needs to know and you need to move on because she deserves better.
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fsyowad
04-18-2018 at 10:19 PM.
04-18-2018 at 10:19 PM.
Reality check...this woman has epilepsy. I have actually saved her life a few times. What we have works in our own dysfunctional way. I actually spend at least 2 weeks a year sleeping on a chair, by her hospital bed , while they take her off her epilepsy meds and try to induce a seizure. It its terrifying not only for her, but watching these things has probably taken a few years off my life. No man she has been with , has ever been with her thru this. You hens need to grow up.
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finzz2dlft
04-18-2018 at 10:22 PM.
04-18-2018 at 10:22 PM.
so the woman is half dead from cancer and epilepesy. Yeah...I have a feeling I know why she isn't pumped up about having sex.
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fsyowad
04-18-2018 at 10:29 PM.
04-18-2018 at 10:29 PM.
Quote from finzz2dlft :
so the woman is half dead from cancer and epilepesy. Yeah...I have a feeling I know why she isn't pumped up about having sex.
Oh lordy...
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finzz2dlft
04-18-2018 at 11:48 PM.
04-18-2018 at 11:48 PM.
Quote from fsyowad :
Oh lordy...

I'm not sure I get the point of all of this? You started a thread wanting women's opinions on a woman's issue. I am a woman; I have replied with my thoughts about it. What you are expecting me, or any other woman, to say here?
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User339811
04-19-2018 at 12:18 AM.
04-19-2018 at 12:18 AM.
If what OP says about this lady is true, then she needs to have insurance to cover for all her hospital bills.
If she is poor, she will be in big trouble.
She also needs someone to take care of her.

It's up to the OP to decide what to do.
If you still love her, but you need sex. Probably just spend money on hooker but don't tell anyone about it.
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Iaaaiws
04-19-2018 at 05:11 AM.
04-19-2018 at 05:11 AM.
Quote from xxxHolic :
If you still love her, but you need sex. Probably just spend money on hooker but don't tell anyone about it.
Well, he should at least come here and tell us about it. We have needs too.
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handyguy
04-19-2018 at 12:22 PM.
04-19-2018 at 12:22 PM.
Just because a guy cares about a gal that doesn't entitle sexual access.
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fsyowad
04-19-2018 at 01:18 PM.
04-19-2018 at 01:18 PM.
Quote from handyguy :
Just because a guy cares about a gal that doesn't entitle sexual access.
This from a person whos screen name is handyguy....I would bet it does not just mean you can fix things.
Still proud to be healthy, unllike u broken down SOB's.
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StormRichards
04-19-2018 at 04:26 PM.
04-19-2018 at 04:26 PM.
Quote from fsyowad :
This from a person whos screen name is handyguy....I would bet it does not just mean you can fix things.
Still proud to be healthy, unllike u broken down SOB's.
Did you forget you have wad in your username? Ha ha

I think the attachment below fits nicely here
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Iaaaiws
04-19-2018 at 05:06 PM.
04-19-2018 at 05:06 PM.
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handyguy
04-20-2018 at 08:36 AM.
04-20-2018 at 08:36 AM.
Quote from fsyowad :
This from a person whos screen name is handyguy....I would bet it does not just mean you can fix things.
Still proud to be healthy, unllike u broken down SOB's.
Actually, I'm deaf, I speak with my hands. Perhaps you should too.
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iRabbitt
04-20-2018 at 08:59 AM.
04-20-2018 at 08:59 AM.
Quote from fsyowad :
This from a person whos screen name is handyguy....I would bet it does not just mean you can fix things.
Still proud to be healthy, unllike u broken down SOB's.

Have you considered Roopies? My guess is you have.
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ProfessorChaos
04-20-2018 at 03:00 PM.
04-20-2018 at 03:00 PM.
FWIW, back when Viagra first come out, there were a lot of older married women who were kinda angry about it because they were being pestered for sex for the first time in a decade.
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ProfessorChaos
04-20-2018 at 03:04 PM.
04-20-2018 at 03:04 PM.
Quote from handyguy :
Actually, I'm deaf, I speak with my hands. Perhaps you should too.
Right now his hands are busy with... other things.

Big Grin
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