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Real-life drama at the beach ... Rammy's in trouble again ... apparently the wife doesn't like me taking pictures of other women

24,862 1,948 July 22, 2009 at 10:01 AM in Cameras
Amongst the ~200 photos I took last week at the beach, I snapped 3-4 pictures of some hotties that were walking up and down the beach. The wife took great offense to this and I thought it was playful at first but (as women are apt to do) an argument ensued which turned into her giving me the cold, silent treatment for the next 24 hours. She indicated I was "to take pictures of only her & the kids".

Disrespectful? Immature? In hindsight a little, but in her words "I'm married, I'm not dead". I wasn't peeping through a peephole at some ESPN hottie, I was taking a picture of someone strolling a few yards in front of me proudly displaying the goods that God gave her. Just how insecure can she be?

Is this a potential for a double standard? The wife had a massage at a day spa from a "young surfer dude" who was checking her out. Do I come out with the directive "no man can touch you except for me at any time". To take it to another level, shouldn't I be able to get lap dances (I don't btw) without feeling guilty. I agree that's extreme, but give me a break.

I thought things had cooled down the next day or two (makeup OTs) but then out of the blue the wife went through and deleted the pictures on my camera - which simply pissed me off. The following is all that's left. It was intended to be a humorous presentation to the lounge: (a) picture of hotties, (b) picture of wife holding up hand in front of camera, (c) picture of ocean as wife punched hubby in stomach.

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Last Edited by daniel32 July 23, 2009 at 03:57 PM
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07-22-2009 at 11:39 AM.
07-22-2009 at 11:39 AM.
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Makes you feel just a little unclean after those late night chat sessions, huh?
Maybe he's a gay man trapped in a straight man's body? A body that likes the Golden Girls, dresses better than my wife, has a belly button piercing and wears guyliner?
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07-22-2009 at 11:39 AM.
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This thread delivers!
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07-22-2009 at 11:39 AM.
07-22-2009 at 11:39 AM.
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Makes you feel just a little unclean after those late night chat sessions, huh?
Damn it, now I will have to go back to those 900 numbers Sadwalk
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07-22-2009 at 11:39 AM.
07-22-2009 at 11:39 AM.
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So i dont get it - you having fantasies about your husbands boss and what youd do to him is fine (people you both know) but Rammy taking a pic of a total stranger on the beach that has no sexual meaning to him is terrible right ?
Oh no... move that into it's own thread before it takes over!
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07-22-2009 at 11:40 AM.
07-22-2009 at 11:40 AM.
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Maybe he's a gay man trapped in a straight man's body? A body that likes the Golden Girls, dresses better than my wife, has a belly button piercing and wears guyliner?
And apparently puts out more than your wife, but you already knew that.

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07-22-2009 at 11:40 AM.
07-22-2009 at 11:40 AM.
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Defend my position? What is this the podium? laugh out loud

Meaning, instead of insulting and accusing me of lying about my personal life, you discuss the topic at hand.. But I guess that's too much to ask on an internet forum.

The last resort of someone you that can't present a reasonable argument is personal attacks, like you did.
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07-22-2009 at 11:40 AM.
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Why is taking pictures of other women so important to you, Rammy? I guess I don't understand how giving that up is such a sacrifice that it makes you 'whipped'.
It wasnt important to him until she made a hissy fit and violated his personal space
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07-22-2009 at 11:40 AM.
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He's cute, too, huh?
Tell him I said (in Joey voice)
"How you doin?" lol
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07-22-2009 at 11:41 AM.
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Damn it, now I will have to go back to those 900 numbers Sadwalk
900-TIGERSTAR

And leave off the AR for savings!
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07-22-2009 at 11:41 AM.
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And apparently puts out more than your wife, but you already knew that.

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Jerk! Mad
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07-22-2009 at 11:42 AM.
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Meaning, instead of insulting and accusing me of lying about my personal life, you discuss the topic at hand.. But I guess that's too much to ask on an internet forum.

The last resort of someone you that can't present a reasonable argument is personal attacks, like you did.
laugh out loud And what are you doing now?


Did you not read my posts? I presented a reasonable argument in several posts and even repeated it for the slow people (not pointing any fingers), and then got bored laugh out loud

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Don't forget, she doesn't let you do that either.
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07-22-2009 at 11:43 AM.
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It wasnt important to him until she made a hissy fit and violated his personal space
Well I do think she should have talked to him about it and (hopefully) he would have deleted them on his own rather than her just doing it. But, if it's their joint camera, I don't know if I consider that his personal space or not... I can see both arguements.
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And apparently puts out more than your wife, but you already knew that.

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Might have been true prior to me getting into a relationship Sadwalk
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laugh out loud
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07-22-2009 at 11:44 AM.
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Well I do think she should have talked to him about it and (hopefully) he would have deleted them on his own rather than her just doing it. But, if it's their joint camera, I don't know if I consider that his personal space or not... I can see both arguements.
Even if it is their joint camera, I don't think she had any right to delete the picture he took.
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