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RETIRED: XL_Jockey finally got some

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In order to prepare the yard for the new playset to arrive sometime in the near future I found out that I was expected to clean up all the branches, including the gigantic pile behind the shed.

Since my wife was outside and I was wearing a tanktop, all hot and sweaty, I realized that I needed to take advantage of the situation and prepare my chances for the evening. Instead of using the branch cutters I started breaking these branches with my bear hands. I'm extremely muscular and hairy. I also used my bare hands and broke several dried twigs.

Then I started leaning a few against a tree and dropkicking them, like the badass I am. I even made sounds like they do in the movies, like "herush", and "fwoop", but I avoided "fwap fwap fwap fwap", at least for now, depending on how the night goes.

I had one particularly large branch, at least the size of a rolling pin. I tried a couple times to break it, but it resisted me as if it was married to me and I was trying to get it in bed for 16 months. So I channeled all my frustration and performed a flying spinning roundhouse dropkick, the same one that Dora the Explorer performed on the soccer ball to get the winning goal in the episode when her team was playing against the dinosaurs.

Well this branch decided to exact it's revenge. As I struck it with brutal force, it snapped in 3. Unfortunately for me the third piece richocheted off the tree and struck me in and about the facial area. I guess you can say it gave me a woody facial. I immediately saw myself from the third person, in slo-mo bullet-time like in the Matrix. I attempted to dodge but the branch hit me squarely in the jaw... actually more semi-circularly. The force was such that it cause me to chip a tooth.

I saw my wife jump up and run inside and I realized that my extreme display of manhood must have pushed her over the edge. She was probably upstairs grabbing some lube already.

No, she needed to find her cellphone to call her sister before she stopped laughing.

I'll get my revenge you branch bastards!
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MsGal
11-06-2009 at 07:02 AM.
11-06-2009 at 07:02 AM.
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its almost like she's looking for a reason to breakup and she wants you to initiate it.
half?
Or .... maybe he IS cheating and just posting all this stuff here so that IF he gets caught, he can show her this thread and it gives the appearance of a husband that loves his wife and is trying really hard to make her happy. Hmmmm....

In which case, we would have all been duped. EEK!

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11-06-2009 at 07:04 AM.
11-06-2009 at 07:04 AM.
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Or .... maybe he IS cheating and just posting all this stuff here so that IF he gets caught, he can show her this thread and it gives the appearance of a husband that loves his wife and is trying really hard to make her happy. Hmmmm....

In which case, we would have all been duped. EEK!

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Or maybe SHE is cheating and that is why she is never in the mood with him.
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XL_Jockey
11-06-2009 at 07:07 AM.
11-06-2009 at 07:07 AM.
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Or maybe SHE is cheating and that is why she is never in the mood with him.
Yeah, I mentioned that last night. Almost those exact words. The problem is that I didn't believe it when I said it, because I know it's not the case and I trust her when she told me no.

And I have no reason to lie about this stuff, but I understand the possibility of this being a ruse. If asking for cleavage pics is cheating, then you have all the evidence you need!
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11-06-2009 at 07:25 AM.
11-06-2009 at 07:25 AM.
maybe she's cheating and thats why she's so paranoid that your doing it too.. if she knows she can get away with it whats to stop you
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11-06-2009 at 07:27 AM.
11-06-2009 at 07:27 AM.
Quote from XL_Jockey :
To clarify, she wanted to watch one of those dancing shows, and I wanted to draw up plans for the basement, so I told her I wanted to do my own thing. She started getting pissy and eventually accused me of cheating on her, and after some back and forth said "Then why are we even in a relationship?" I told her it was because we have kids and took vows.

Eventually we started talking again and I told her I was tired of working so hard and getting nothing in return, and she said she felt the same way. She said every time she gets off the phone with me she assumes I'm cheating on her. I just don't get it. I mentioned that if I was getting some on the side, then why would I be trying so hard to get it from her?

I think deep down she just doesn't trust me. I give her no reason not to trust me. She can reach me any time on my cell, she knows where I am at all times and I've never had any other evidence against me. For the record, I'm not cheating on her.

I told her if she loves me she has to show me, she has to prove it. Obviously I don't excel in these types of conversations.

Why can't she just blow me and get past all this crap?

I know that I'm not bringing anything new to the table but, she really, really, really needs professional help.

Your wife is sick and you cannot help her that much, it is time for you to face it. Take her to therapy, talk to her, trick her into it, I dunno just do it.

Of course you have your own issues, but this time the ball is on her courtside, and it will be up to her to hit it back or let it go. Does she really loves you? Or she just needs you as a provider? Have you asked her why is she still with you? "Because of the kids" is BS


My ex-gf had the same trouble trusting me, from time to time she asked if I was cheating on her, just because of her insecurities. Even if I wanted (which I didn't) to cheat on her, I did not have the time to do so because we were together all the time and even there she thought I was cheating!

Start thinking about yourself, and don't feel bad if she cries. You know that what you're doing is right, and if you continue giving up you'll sooner or later explode.
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MsGal
11-06-2009 at 07:42 AM.
11-06-2009 at 07:42 AM.
Quote from XL_Jockey :
Yeah, I mentioned that last night. Almost those exact words. The problem is that I didn't believe it when I said it, because I know it's not the case and I trust her when she told me no.

And I have no reason to lie about this stuff, but I understand the possibility of this being a ruse. If asking for cleavage pics is cheating, then you have all the evidence you need!
I'm not saying that either of you is cheating. I'm just saying that if either OR both of you were, none of us would know it.

And people often post "woe is me" stories on community forums to cover their own arse for when they get caught. I knew a girl that posted on a political forum about an abusive husband all the time. Of course everyone sided with her. After about 10 months of the drama, it was discovered that she was having an affair ... with a man she met on the forum.

It all unraveled after one of the mods started reading their pm's to each other. laugh out loud
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XL_Jockey
11-06-2009 at 08:07 AM.
11-06-2009 at 08:07 AM.
msgal, I understand. I'm the type of person that inherently trusts everyone so I always assume everyone else does the same in regards to me. The only time I've ever stretched the truth on this forum is when I embellish stories to make them funny.

I'm not a cheater. I married my wife for a reason. I had children for a reason. I've gone 22 months without sex and stand by her for a reason. Sometimes it isn't easy, but my love for her is greater than any of our problems.
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11-06-2009 at 08:18 AM.
11-06-2009 at 08:18 AM.
Quote from XL_Jockey :
msgal, I understand. I'm the type of person that inherently trusts everyone so I always assume everyone else does the same in regards to me. The only time I've ever stretched the truth on this forum is when I embellish stories to make them funny.

I'm not a cheater. I married my wife for a reason. I had children for a reason. I've gone 22 months without sex and stand by her for a reason. Sometimes it isn't easy, but my love for her is greater than any of our problems.
Nice! That part will come in handy if she catches you cheating. Wink




I'm just teasing you.

I hope you and your wife figure it out someday. hug
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11-06-2009 at 08:27 AM.
11-06-2009 at 08:27 AM.
Quote from XL_Jockey :
I'm not a cheater. I married my wife for a reason. I had children for a reason. I've gone 22 months without sex and stand by her for a reason. Sometimes it isn't easy, but my love for her is greater than any of our problems.
I'll chime in here. I've been lurking in this topic for a while. I wish your wife could read that and appreciate it -- I hope that should would appreciate it.

I think that some sort of counseling or therapy would be good, either together or separately. You seem to be managing okay, but it does bother you. You might get more sound advice from a professional, and it might send a message to your wife about how much you're hurting in this relationship (it's obviously not all about the sex).
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Fallacy
11-06-2009 at 08:34 AM.
11-06-2009 at 08:34 AM.
Why not just show your wife this thread? It could end one of two ways, she'll either fark you or kill you, in either case you wont miss the lack-of-sex anymore.
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11-06-2009 at 08:37 AM.
11-06-2009 at 08:37 AM.
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Why not just show your wife this thread? It could end one of two ways, she'll either fark you or kill you, in either case you wont miss the lack-of-sex anymore.

Crylol

Iagree
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XL_Jockey
11-06-2009 at 09:02 AM.
11-06-2009 at 09:02 AM.
Quote from Fallacy :
Why not just show your wife this thread? It could end one of two ways, she'll either fark you or kill you, in either case you wont miss the lack-of-sex anymore.
I think it depends on where she started reading it. It's worth a shot though...
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XL_Jockey
11-06-2009 at 09:29 AM.
11-06-2009 at 09:29 AM.
I don't know why, but I think it's so cute when my 3yo pronounces the word candy as "canny".
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Clivefrog
11-06-2009 at 09:36 AM.
11-06-2009 at 09:36 AM.
You and your wife could go on Maury. They constantly have people doing lie detector tests to see if someone's cheating in a relationship. Oh, they also constantly do paternity tests... in case you think your kids look like your neighbors or something.
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11-06-2009 at 09:37 AM.
11-06-2009 at 09:37 AM.
Haha, nice.
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