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How long should you be in a relationship before popping the ?

4,199 164 October 22, 2010 at 07:16 AM in Chat
Other thread about how did you meet and how did they propose made me think of this since I saw a varying of lengths that people were together before the ? came...

What are peoples opinions?

Edit: Thanks brisar for updating the spelling
Well how long do you think?
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slutsky
10-22-2010 at 11:13 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:13 AM.
make sense.
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Phrozt
10-22-2010 at 11:13 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:13 AM.
Quote from Maleficent :
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Oh yeah, I can just see it... "no, those AREN'T the shoes I wanted, they have to match my dress! Do you see this beading on the front? How hard is it to make something to match that in a slingback?!"

LMAO
Ok maybe not.. I don't even know what a slingback is.

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How I read this. Evillaugh
Nah, still too much hair.
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Maleficent
10-22-2010 at 11:15 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:15 AM.
Quote from Phrozt :
Ok maybe not.. I don't even know what a slingback is.
It's okay sweetie, you have plenty of time to learn all that before the big day. Girly


I'm sure you'll just make the most beautiful bride ever! Eyelash
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Phrozt
10-22-2010 at 11:17 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:17 AM.
Quote from Maleficent :
It's okay sweetie, you have plenty of time to learn all that before the big day. Girly


I'm sure you'll just make the most beautiful bride ever! Eyelash
Well I gotta hurry and get everything organized and get this thing kicked off before I start showing...
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beanqueen
10-22-2010 at 11:22 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:22 AM.
Quote from Phrozt :
Well I gotta hurry and get everything organized and get this thing kicked off before I start showing...
Shhhh...we weren't gonna tell anyone yet!
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CloseUrEyes
10-22-2010 at 11:23 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:23 AM.
Rule number 1. Love is reciprocal
rule number 2. Financials are stable
rule number 3. Sex and love does not = happy relationship. Money = stable relationship
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Phrozt
10-22-2010 at 11:25 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:25 AM.
Quote from CloseUrEyes :
Rule number 1. Love is reciprocal
rule number 2. Financials are stable
rule number 3. Sex and love does not = happy relationship. Money = stable relationship
Just a random ?.. are you asian?
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ForeverDecember
10-22-2010 at 11:26 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:26 AM.
CloseUREyes is tamales?
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CloseUrEyes
10-22-2010 at 11:27 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:27 AM.
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Just a random ?.. are you asian?
no, this is published in psychology journals

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CloseUREyes is tamales?
no, tamales are closeureyes
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Maleficent
10-22-2010 at 11:51 AM.
10-22-2010 at 11:51 AM.
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no, this is published in psychology journals
You wouldn't happen to have a link to the article from the psychology journal you found this in, would you? Scratchchin
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CloseUrEyes
10-22-2010 at 12:03 PM.
10-22-2010 at 12:03 PM.
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You wouldn't happen to have a link to the article from the psychology journal you found this in, would you? Scratchchin
you want the article on money = stable relationship or those three rules? 'cause the first 2 of the 3 rules is a generalized response to OP's question. or do you want an article on whether i'm asian or not?
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Maleficent
10-22-2010 at 12:11 PM.
10-22-2010 at 12:11 PM.
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you want the article on money = stable relationship or those three rules? 'cause the first 2 of the 3 rules is a generalized response to OP's question. or do you want an article on whether i'm asian or not?
Facepalm


Yeah, I think that just about sums it all up right there.
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Melmo
10-22-2010 at 02:19 PM.
10-22-2010 at 02:19 PM.
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Ya.. got my ex preggo @ 3 months in, and we pretty much knew we didn't want to be married. 2 and a half years later after trying, she decided to move on. Would have been nice if she told me first though.
yeah, I'd pretty much say you know after the first few months if it could last forever or if you're just 'dealing'.

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Rule number 1. Love is reciprocal
rule number 2. Financials are stable
rule number 3. Sex and love does not = happy relationship. Money = stable relationship
money has nothing to do with a relationship. Being poor and going through hardship only brought us closer together because the only thing we had was each other.
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