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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?
November 23, 2010 at
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It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?
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No, I'm not kidding, if you're farking some dude's wife, I am 100% serious. I hope he murders you.
What would be wrong with the situation if a) the OP were telling the truth, and b) as a result of that, the husband of the woman he's banging killed him? No internet joking, actual murder.
(but i hear the pope did)
Let me first say
1) I first thought this thread was just an obvious troll thread
2) I always enjoyed the OPs posts and thought he possessed reasonable intelligence
3) I now believe he is far younger and naive than I originally assessed.
4) I knowingly fooled around with married women when I was younger (knowing it was wrong).
5) What goes around .... comes around.
OP - questions for you.
Let's just say you're at a bar, obviously together, another dude comes on to her. Ignores you and the fact that he can see you're together. Is that dude wrong?
i like that word.
her husband gave her a commitment. he pays her bills no? can u do that? WOULD u do that?
Women have been doing this for a long time, so it seems to me that they should be OK for the OP to do it as well, unless the women here have double standards, or something.
The irony is if I had lied and made my OP like this:
"Ok there is a woman I know that is being beaten by her husband and is emotionally abused and I am trying to help her. She is afraid to leave him because he controls all the money and she doesn't have a job to support herself. Oh and while consoling her once we had sex and now we knock boots all the time. But we keep trying to figure ways to help her cope and eventually escape from her abusive husband. Am I wrong to have sex with her?"
No one especially the women would have said a single bad thing or judged me negatively. Quite telling is it not?
That's actually true.
I read it somewhere.
But then again I must give you that - you can be annoying and thick headed as hell to anyone who disagrees with you!
"Ok there is a woman I know that is being beaten by her husband and is emotionally abused and I am trying to help her. She is afraid to leave him because he controls all the money and she doesn't have a job to support herself. Oh and while consoling her once we had sex and now we knock boots all the time. But we keep trying to figure ways to help her cope and eventually escape from her abusive husband. Am I wrong to have sex with her?"
No one especially the women would have said a single bad thing or judged me negatively. Quite telling is it not?
Yet another post to prove how delusional you are. Yes, you'd be wrong to have sex with her, and I'm pretty sure everyone here would tell you the same thing!
But then again I must give you that - you can be annoying and thick headed as hell to anyone who disagrees with you!
Well duh, I'm always right. That's the #1 moto of the lounge, no?
The difference is I didn't take a sh!t in the woods.
(but i hear the pope did)
It is ignoring because I don't agree that I am an accessory, a douchebag, etc.? Well yeah I ignored some of the more vitriolic stuff but that's a good thing amirite?
How can you argue that you are not an accessory, that is exactly what you are.
If an entire forum full of people are telling you this is wrong, then the thread is over. You don't want to listen to us, we are tired of your empty excuses.
You are farking another man's wife, this is wrong in just about every culture on earth. So yes, it is wrong.
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If an entire forum full of people are telling you this is wrong, then the thread is over. You don't want to listen to us, we are tired of your empty excuses.
You are farking another man's wife, this is wrong in just about every culture on earth. So yes, it is wrong.
Well duh, I'm always right. That's the #1 moto of the lounge, no?
But then again I must give you that - you can be annoying and thick headed as hell to anyone who disagrees with you!
And I 100% agree with you, I would argue wtill I'm blue in the face if I think I'm right. I just don't know why you mention that today, as I didn't have a point to begin with
"Ok there is a woman I know that is being beaten by her husband and is emotionally abused and I am trying to help her. She is afraid to leave him because he controls all the money and she doesn't have a job to support herself. Oh and while consoling her once we had sex and now we knock boots all the time. But we keep trying to figure ways to help her cope and eventually escape from her abusive husband. Am I wrong to have sex with her?"
No one especially the women would have said a single bad thing or judged me negatively. Quite telling is it not?
Mmmm...no. I still think she has resources and recourses. If she can get out to see you, she can get away and if he's abusive and she can prove it, he won't control the money anymore. I actually don't think it...I know it. I helped someone very close to me do it. It's not easy and it's messy, but it can be done, especially when there are no children to consider.
Like I said before - more for yourself, I would find one who isn't attached, or wait until this one isn't, or even help her get disentangled if that's what she (and you) wants and you're willing to go through that with her.
You asked for opinions. You got opinions. There are no black and white answers when it comes to morals and ethics. There are just opinions and shades of grey. Some people think some things are a-okay. Some wouldn't do thinks that others would. I mean, like I said before, you know the situation and you (and she) have to live with the consquences. If you can live with them, they why are you here asking for opinions? Just move forward. If you have that shred of doubt in your mind, then why are you rejecting the opinions that you requested?
You've seemed reasonable in other threads, but you're very contrary in this one. If you want to do something that most people think is morally corrupt/bankrupt, then just do it. No one can stop you. At some point in life, most poeple push the envelope and many people learn from it (whether they learn something good or something bad...they learn), so...
I thought you were, and I saw you change it, but I really didn't need some mod coming in there to warn me
And I 100% agree with you, I would argue wtill I'm blue in the face if I think I'm right. I just don't know why you mention that today, as I didn't have a point to begin with
And I did not car about threadjacking that thread either. If I do, I don't have any issues in putting NO OT in the title. Ironically, it was some of us who came up with that concept many months back
:manhug:
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And I did not car about threadjacking that thread either. If I do, I don't have any issues in putting NO OT in the title. Ironically, it was some of us who came up with that concept many months back
:manhug: