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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?
November 23, 2010 at
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It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?
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Yet another post to prove how delusional you are. Yes, you'd be wrong to have sex with her, and I'm pretty sure everyone here would tell you the same thing!
If an entire forum full of people are telling you this is wrong, then the thread is over. You don't want to listen to us, we are tired of your empty excuses.
You are farking another man's wife, this is wrong in just about every culture on earth. So yes, it is wrong.
Like I said before - more for yourself, I would find one who isn't attached, or wait until this one isn't, or even help her get disentangled if that's what she (and you) wants and you're willing to go through that with her.
You asked for opinions. You got opinions. There are no black and white answers when it comes to morals and ethics. There are just opinions and shades of grey. Some people think some things are a-okay. Some wouldn't do thinks that others would. I mean, like I said before, you know the situation and you (and she) have to live with the consquences. If you can live with them, they why are you here asking for opinions? Just move forward. If you have that shred of doubt in your mind, then why are you rejecting the opinions that you requested?
You've seemed reasonable in other threads, but you're very contrary in this one. If you want to do something that most people think is morally corrupt/bankrupt, then just do it. No one can stop you. At some point in life, most poeple push the envelope and many people learn from it (whether they learn something good or something bad...they learn), so...
I feel better.
The thing is.... YOU are single... Just my opinion here, but, if you're screwing a married woman, and you're not the one married... Why is that your fault? You are not responsible for HER decision to screw a single guy when SHE is the one married.
So I honestly don't see what YOU are doing went when YOU aren't the one married. "moral" issues aside, you're not breaking the covenant of marriage... She is.
Does it make you a douchebag?... Sure. But what would b the difference if you did t know that she was married and still had sex with her????? The answer is nothing, youd still somehow be a douchebag.
I'm just saying. I know you long time loungers will bash me for it. But I ask, who gives a f? And what law says a single guy can't screw a married woman? He's not breaking a law... If he's breaking a "moral law" - you all pretty much threw the first stone at this guy; essentially saying that you've done nothing morally wrong before.
You are having sex with another man's wife. Do you have any morals? Any religion? Upbringing? Family values?
This woman is committed to that man and you are helping her break that commitment. Accessory. You are forcing her to cheat, but you are an accessory.
Fine, fine, maybe the husband of the woman shouldn't kill the OP. OP still does deserve to have the shit beat out of him though, maybe turning him paraplegic.
Like I told Malwhatever I think you would all be focusing on the battered and abused woman and overlook my having sex with her if that were the case. I am not being contrary to be that way. It may appear that way but I just don't see how I am doing anything wrong when I am not cheating or making anyone do anything.
You would be knowingly dealing with an abused and battered woman and then making the conscious choice to participate with her in an act that could possibly push her husband over the edge to the point where instead of just beating her he actually killed her the next time. For you to try and rationalize that it wouldn't be your fault is simply not possible for anyone with a rational mind.
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You're mistaken about that, at least for my part.
Good God, ya'll!
What is it good for?
I don't know who you're insulting more with that comment, the dude she cheated with or a TSA agent. Both are pretty scummy people.
Fine, fine, maybe the husband of the woman shouldn't kill the OP. OP still does deserve to have the shit beat out of him though, maybe turning him paraplegic.
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