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if you had the chance to be with a post-op transsexual...

5,257 3,968 September 21, 2011 at 06:50 AM in Chat (2)
...would you?

i started thinking about this recently when i saw an old Real World episode with Katelynn (she used to be a he).

now with Chaz Bono on DWTS (he used to be a she) it has made me curious how others feel.

guys, would you be intimate with a woman who used to be a man?
ladies, would you be intimate with a man who used to be a woman?


i just popped some fresh Popcorn

who are you, and who would you do?
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LC2
09-21-2011 at 07:06 PM.
09-21-2011 at 07:06 PM.
Quote from Frogstar :
Results tend to vary.
Yeah. He was hot and then completely not. When you have very masculine features to begin with it doesn't go so well.
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AbbyGabby
09-21-2011 at 07:27 PM.
09-21-2011 at 07:27 PM.
LC has a transgendered ex?
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trygve
09-21-2011 at 07:28 PM.
09-21-2011 at 07:28 PM.
Quote from beanqueen :
Nope, ALL transexuals have changed their private parts...until the visual sex has been changed through the operation, they are still considered transgendered, not transexual. Please refer to my earlier lesson in vocabulary here https://slickdeals.net/forums/showpost.php?p=43119460&postcount=74.
Well, I've never taken a course on human sexuality (or any other type, for that matter), but I know transsexual people, I know people who are or have been involved with them, and I have a friend who counsels transsexual/transgender/transcombobulated people, and they generally call people who have started the conversion process "transsexuals," with those who have not yet had the final gender reassignment surgery (sometimes it's done in stages) being "pre-operative transsexuals" (or even just transsexuals). I suppose if I needed to know any more details, I could always ask (though most of the time I get to hear the details regardless).

What they're considered presumably depends a lot on who's doing the considering, but I don't think the vocabulary rules are nearly that rigidly defined if the people they apply to aren't following them.
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AbbyGabby
09-21-2011 at 07:32 PM.
09-21-2011 at 07:32 PM.
i'm still a sicko LMAO
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Frogstar
09-21-2011 at 07:41 PM.
09-21-2011 at 07:41 PM.
Celery!
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beanqueen
09-21-2011 at 08:00 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:00 PM.
Quote from trygve :
Well, I've never taken a course on human sexuality (or any other type, for that matter), but I know transsexual people, I know people who are or have been involved with them, and I have a friend who counsels transsexual/transgender/transcombobulated people, and they generally call people who have started the conversion process "transsexuals," with those who have not yet had the final gender reassignment surgery (sometimes it's done in stages) being "pre-operative transsexuals" (or even just transsexuals). I suppose if I needed to know any more details, I could always ask (though most of the time I get to hear the details regardless).

What they're considered presumably depends a lot on who's doing the considering, but I don't think the vocabulary rules are nearly that rigidly defined if the people they apply to aren't following them.
Actually you're quite right that there are stages from the transgender to transsexual change. I too know many transgender/transsexual people and I agree that it is a very tricky issue. However, when people start arguing that their feelings of who they are isn't right because you're born the way you're suppose to be and argue that no matter what they do they're still this or that, then I am going to define things for them to at least let them know that there are differences. I was simply trying to give them an understanding of the basics. I didn't think everyone wanted to listen to me ramble on and on about how intricate sexuality is.
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Frogstar
09-21-2011 at 08:11 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:11 PM.
Popcorn
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DC
09-21-2011 at 08:16 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:16 PM.
Quote from LinuxChick :
Really must write book about my life experiences. Summary... He wanted to be a she and since I'm not into women that was that. When he began treatment it was, not pretty.
Tru story?
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DC
09-21-2011 at 08:19 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:19 PM.
Quote from jmegirl :
i'm still a sicko LMAO
You keep saying that...

Could this be A Self-Fulfilling Prophecy?


look around
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AbbyGabby
09-21-2011 at 08:19 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:19 PM.
it's written in the pole my friend Sly
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09-21-2011 at 08:20 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:20 PM.
Quote from jmegirl :
it's written in the pole my friend Sly
But I can't see how you voted Evil
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AbbyGabby
09-21-2011 at 08:22 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:22 PM.
jmegirl is a sicko. Celery Lift
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ALVSGIRLY
09-21-2011 at 08:24 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:24 PM.
Quote from beanqueen :
Actually you're quite right that there are stages from the transgender to transsexual change. I too know many transgender/transsexual people and I agree that it is a very tricky issue. However, when people start arguing that their feelings of who they are isn't right because you're born the way you're suppose to be and argue that no matter what they do they're still this or that, then I am going to define things for them to at least let them know that there are differences. I was simply trying to give them an understanding of the basics. I didn't think everyone wanted to listen to me ramble on and on about how intricate sexuality is.
It's definitely interesting. Not for me though. I'm happy with my "area" just the way it is.
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Frogstar
09-21-2011 at 08:40 PM.
09-21-2011 at 08:40 PM.
Quote from ALVSGIRLY :
It's definitely interesting. Not for me though. I'm happy with my "area" just the way it is.
The question is about other people's areas Tongue
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Beartrkkr
09-21-2011 at 09:46 PM.
09-21-2011 at 09:46 PM.
Quote from ALVSGIRLY :
It's definitely interesting. Not for me though. I'm happy with my "area" just the way it is.

PM over some pics and I'll provide an objective third party evaluation of your "area" and, if necessary, make suggestions on how to improve said area...Big Grin
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