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12,738 11,124 February 29, 2012 at 05:49 AM in Sad
I'm a optician and we take Medicaid for glasses. I see a lot of people who come in with 4 or more kids. What upsets me is often the kids have different last names. (like 3 or more different last names) Most of the moms are really young. I just feel sad that its the kids who will suffer in most cases. Never enough money, not knowing their fathers, lack of stability in their life's.

I do have limited conversations with the moms. They often tell me they have no extra money to spend on anything other then what Medicaid will pay. Due to the father or fathers lack of support.

Just venting. Had a young mom with 5 kids yesterday and 4 had different fathers. She broke down and cried when her kids had to wear the frames that Medicaid would pay for. (kinda ugly frames IMO). Her oldest child was trying to comfort her.

My heart was broken. If I had money to spare, I would have purchased the frames for the kids myself. Frown

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02-29-2012 at 09:42 AM.
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I'm surprised you're not going after the machine. I do think racism existed on the campus when I was there. I have no clue if it has anything to do with hiring football coaches. I hope they hire the best available. IMO we have the best. I don't care what color he is.
What about red color?
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02-29-2012 at 09:44 AM.
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What about red color?
Better be crimson!
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02-29-2012 at 09:45 AM.
02-29-2012 at 09:45 AM.
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Kratos was just trying to be positive and say that it was good they weren't aborted to begin with. I just commented that 1/2 of all abortions are performed on blacks, and the statistics back me up. But I never assumed she was talking about black folks. If anything, I would assume she was talking about white people considering more white folks are on medicaid, there are more whites than blacks, and half of abortions are performed on blacks which would lead me to think that the black population ain't exactly growing at an substantial and exponential rate. So going with my statistical-ly themed posts, I'd say the statistics are better that the families she's talking about are white.

I didn't make any sort of comment on my opinion of either race or abortion. I just simply gave CDC statistics.

The coffee at my work sucks, but it sure gets me productive! laugh out loud
That's a stupid assumption. A) you're not taking into consideration the race of the fetus which could be half white or yellow or brown or whatever, B)The actual race of the mother-which could be half whatever, C) the fact that they could be growing a a substancial rate even with removing a choice set from the population...
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02-29-2012 at 09:45 AM.
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Better be crimson!
Like menstrual blood in toilet water.
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02-29-2012 at 09:46 AM.
02-29-2012 at 09:46 AM.
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Like menstrual blood in toilet water.
you look into the bowl before flushin?
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02-29-2012 at 09:47 AM.
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Like menstrual blood in toilet water.
It's a good thing I don't know where you live Mad!
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02-29-2012 at 09:47 AM.
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you look into the bowl before flushin?
I sometimes even take a picture.
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02-29-2012 at 09:48 AM.
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you look into the bowl before flushin?
I thought it was a boy?
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02-29-2012 at 09:48 AM.
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It's a good thing I don't know where you live Mad!
My location says Lincoln, NE!
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02-29-2012 at 09:49 AM.
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I sometimes even take a picture.
You're icky Yuk.
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02-29-2012 at 09:50 AM.
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I thought it was a boy?
saban's the only boy that has periods

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02-29-2012 at 09:51 AM.
02-29-2012 at 09:51 AM.
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My location says Lincoln, NE!
only 2 things come from there
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02-29-2012 at 09:51 AM.
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saban's the only boy that has periods

Oh please, Sunshine! You have constant pms laugh out loud!

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only 2 things come from there
What...weirdos and corn cobs?
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02-29-2012 at 09:52 AM.
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I thought it was a boy?
I look to aim into the bowl. Perhaps nagin prays and sprays or doesnt flush?
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02-29-2012 at 09:54 AM.
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Oh please, Sunshine! You have constant pms laugh out loud!


What...weirdos and corn cobs?
left out yankees, yankee
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