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And with that, it should be my topic of the day that I would really like advice about.
So, really the only way to know is to ask.
And with that, it should be my topic of the day that I would really like advice about.
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I just ask them as a friend- like I don't specify, I don't say just as friends or whatever, but it saves face If I decide I'm not Interested, I can just act like a friend and that's it. Or if they say no (like why would they but some guys are freaks or something) then it's not like I actually got turned down.
I just ask them as a friend- like I don't specify, I don't say just as friends or whatever, but it saves face If I decide I'm not Interested, I can just act like a friend and that's it. Or if they say no (like why would they but some guys are freaks or something) then it's not like I actually got turned down.
Ehh.. live and learn huh...
See you in 15 - 20, gonna bike to my schroom class right now.
Ehh.. live and learn huh...
Ehh.. live and learn huh...
See you in 15 - 20, gonna bike to my schroom class right now.
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File it under High School sucks.. It should be the best dating time ever.. no responsiblities, access to parent's car, no pressure to find anything permanent..... but somehow most 16-18 year olds manage to screw it up.
It was rough being a guy in high school.. Like 90% of girls would turn you down.. they were all holding out for the coolest guy in class, I guess??
I did better asking out girls at work.
My only real gf in high school (only one that lasted more than 6 dates) .. that was an interesting story.
I acted up in 5th grade.. The teacher moved me up to the front row next to a girl so she could keep an eye on me (Everyone else got to sit next to someone of the same gender). We never talked, because it was 5th grade... She moved to another school the following year.. fast forward 7 years. I see her by chance somewhere... I'm like " Is that you?" and she remembered me from 5th grade.. I figured I'd never see her again, so nothing to lose by aggressively asking her out and it worked.. See that TP? the lesson is basically a guy needs to ask out tons of women.. It took me awhile not to take rejections personally..It's all a numbers game for guys.
But back to your point BQ.. it must kind of suck being a high school girl, since the tradition is to just wait for the dude to ask you out.. I guess times have changed somewhat, but I imagine that's still the case.
My good friends -- the ones I looked up to -- got married pretty much straight out of HS or after a year or two in to college. Those were the guys that married their HS sweethearts and held off having sex until marriage. They're still happily married with kids. They've been through ups and downs, but it has only brought them closer. And I'm not talking about 1 or 2 guys here -- more like most of them that I knew. I grew up in a very religious area, and I was the odd one out for not giving a shit about what my religious convictions were suppose to be.
So your experience is different than mine, and mine is different than the guys I looked up to. I think throwing sex in to the equation is what really screws things up. At least it did for me.
File it under High School sucks.. It should be the best dating time ever.. no responsiblities, access to parent's car, no pressure to find anything permanent..... but somehow most 16-18 year olds manage to screw it up.
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And with that, it should be my topic of the day that I would really like advice about.
It's never happened to me..
Don't worry about whether the girl is actually interested or just being nice.. just ask.
What's the worst case? She says no, and then she feels awkward every time she sees you..
That's probably the worst case.. You're going to be out of college in about 2 years (?) anyway, so it doesn't matter. You have access to thousands of single women now.. When you graduate, the slate is totally wiped clean (you aren't likely to see these people ever again, unless you get in a LTR which is good).. This is the time to take risks.. Like I said, it's a numbers game.. just keeping asking girls out.. eventually one will say yes, and you'll be more confident.. As you get more confident and experienced, you'll have even better luck.
As soon as you leave college, the pool of women you can ask out will shrink tremendously.. You need to go for it
Try this.. when you are walking around, make eye contact with every girl you see. .Don't look away.. See if they return the eye contact, and if so , smile. If they smile back, start talking.
It sounds creepy, but it works. If the girl looks away or whatever, just laugh...
Maybe the first week, you don't even talk to them.. Just smile and get smiles back.. That will do a lot for your confidence... If it feels wierd doing it, go to a store and practice on old women until you get the hang of it.. (I'm sure if some MILF looks away, it won't be a blow to the ego).