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My mailman keeps moving my trash can

26,675 2,340 August 13, 2012 at 08:21 AM in Help
I live at the dead end of a narrow lane. The garbage truck has to back down to get to me b/c there's no room for them to turn around.

I leave my trash out on Mondays. The can sits about six feet in front of my mailbox. There aren't a lot of other places to put it where I can still get into/out of my driveway + the garbagemen can still see the can. Any further up the lane and it blocks my neighbor's driveway. The other side of the lane is overgrown & the two times I've tried leaving it there, they either didn't see it or ignored it (either way it wasn't emptied).

My mailman is very lazy & doesn't like to get out of his truck. On multiple occasions he's rammed my trash can, knocking it over, dragging it around my driveway, etc. I know it's him but had no concrete proof until today.

I pointed my home security cameras out the window and watched as he rammed the trash can, shoving it back several feet. I'd left him a note in my mailbox asking him to stop doing this and informing him that I'd set up my cameras to record such incidents.

He jumped around angrily for a while, then moved his truck and put my trash can back close to where it had been. Then he took pictures of it from four angles and wrote me what I assume is a very nasty note.

This guy has on past occasions left me other notes. Once when I parked too close to my own mailbox in my own driveway he wrote me a long-winded screed about how federal law mandates I leave so much space in front of the box, etc. I can't wait to see what this note says.

Anyway I didn't get good clips of him doing all of this b/c I'm new to recording stuff on these cameras. I have him taking his pictures and I have his mail truck in front of my mailbox with the trash can not there. Next week for sure I'll have figured out the procedure and get the entire thing but... I'm wondering if there are other ways to approach this.

The asshole in me says to get rid of the mailbox altogether & put a mail slot in my front door. That way he'd have to get out of his truck every damned day instead of just on Mondays. I can't really move the mailbox right now but I'll have a fence built eventually and may move it then.

More info about this guy: one Saturday when I was working in my garden & had a pile of yard waste set out for a scheduled pickup, he came by to deliver my mail and I guess the bags were in his way (honestly - I could've driven around them to line up with the mailbox but I guess he couldn't/didn't want to). So he got out and kicked the bags of several times. He didn't know I was in the garden. I wish I'd confronted him then but all I could do was stare at him throwing this tantrum like a little kid. He also drives like a maniac, coming down the lane at like 40mph and taking a really wide turn to come up to my mailbox. He backs up so fast he throws gravel everywhere most of the time, in addition to the other asshole stuff he does like moving my trash can around (one time he hauled it all the way into the middle of my front yard).

I'd like to complain to his supervisors too but I'm not sure it would do any good? I hardly get any important mail but I'd hate to jeopardize anything. Plus some shippers only send USPS... part of me says "get a PO box and be done with it" but part of me also wants to WIN this war.

What to do?

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menace33
08-13-2012 at 09:48 AM.
08-13-2012 at 09:48 AM.
Quote from BostonGirl :
We had an issue with my moms mailman, I called his supervisor on him and no issues since. The guy freaked out and was yelling/swearing at her. He's lucky I wasn't there when it happened. Annoyed

I'd call the post office and talk to someone.
Iagree This mailman has a supervisor, no doubts. I had an issue with my mailman, since I live in an apartment complex with a small narrow mailbox, where he would leave packages at the office but leave no not stating such so I had no idea why packages were taking so long to arrive that were to be shipped to me via USPS. What slips I got were scribble which I couldn't tell what was being stated.

One time one of those slips where you must sign for the package was not left and 2 weeks had passed and the package was at the local hub the whole time. I reported his ass then to a supervisor and went over all the many other things he was screwing up and doing (piling the mail in the box to the point where it was all crumpled up, magazines, non-bendable items that were small enough to fit, postcards, envelopes with pictures from relatives, etc).

I still get the crumpled mail on occasion but now I get slips that are printed out on a computer in Times New Roman and this issue has not occurred again. Moreover, the pudgy bastard that was my mailman suddenly changed to someone else.

Supervisors FTW. Ok
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SnakePlisken
08-13-2012 at 09:52 AM.
08-13-2012 at 09:52 AM.
Quote from Formless :
I second this. Go buy a new trash can and fill the old one with something that will damage his truck. Make sure to have the video running too.

If he rams a huge block of cement at 40mph - he'll have a fun time explaining the truck he totaled while doing it.
Brilliant, have the garbage men hatin him too
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idkist
08-13-2012 at 09:59 AM.
08-13-2012 at 09:59 AM.
my vote is a spike strip surrounding your trash can
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MSUSteve280
08-13-2012 at 10:04 AM.
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SnakePlisken
08-13-2012 at 10:07 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:07 AM.
how is readin a sex manual goin to help?
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MSUSteve280
08-13-2012 at 10:08 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:08 AM.
Quote from Count_Chocula :
how is readin a sex manual goin to help?
How could it not?
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SnakePlisken
08-13-2012 at 10:12 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:12 AM.
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How could it not?
wow, the mailman is havin an affair with his wife & that's what this whole thing is about?
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Formless
08-13-2012 at 10:20 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:20 AM.
Quote from Count_Chocula :
Brilliant, have the garbage men hatin him too

Alright, alright - add a sign that says "NOT TRASH" to the can so they don't try to lift it.

My assumption was that the mailman would already have collided with the can and atleast tipped it over.
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veritablequandary
08-13-2012 at 10:34 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:34 AM.
I honestly thought about putting bricks and concrete blocks in the trash can but with my luck, that would be the day he was on vacation and then like somebody else said the garbage guys would probably fark up my house. laugh out loud

I guess calling and speaking with the supervisor is going to be the way to go. I can't wait to see what the note HE left for ME says when I get home this afternoon. woot
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marg_fan
08-13-2012 at 10:42 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:42 AM.
Wait. Aren't you the one who allegedly rearranged the letters on a sign the local HOA left out? How about informing the HOA how the postal carrier is tearing up your association property? Make them work for you for a change. Have the man stick it to the man. High Five

Or does my memory suck?
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veritablequandary
08-13-2012 at 10:44 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:44 AM.
Quote from marg_fan :
Wait. Aren't you the one who allegedly rearranged the letters on a sign the local HOA left out? How about informing the HOA how the postal carrier is tearing up your association property? Make them work for you for a change. Have the man stick it to the man. High Five

Or does my memory suck?
I might be... Whistling

But I also might've moved since that alleged incident. Into a house with no HOA. Just unlicensed auto repair at the Mexican house next door.
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SnakePlisken
08-13-2012 at 10:45 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:45 AM.
Quote from marg_fan :
Wait. Aren't you the one who allegedly rearranged the letters on a sign the local HOA left out? How about informing the HOA how the postal carrier is tearing up your association property? Make them work for you for a change. Have the man stick it to the man. High Five

Or does my memory suck?
not just your memory neither
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menace33
08-13-2012 at 10:48 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:48 AM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
I guess calling and speaking with the supervisor is going to be the way to go. I can't wait to see what the note HE left for ME says when I get home this afternoon. woot
Let the supervisor know you have home security camera footage of what you are alleging and that will squash any he said/she said. The mailman can't counter with some BS excuse to rationalize things.
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MintJulep
08-13-2012 at 10:54 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:54 AM.
I'm surprised the garbage company is willing to back down a narrow lane to get your garbage. I'd expect them to tell you to bring it to a spot where they could pick it up without any backing down a narrow lane.
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08-13-2012 at 10:56 AM.
08-13-2012 at 10:56 AM.
Quote from marg_fan :
Wait. Aren't you the one who allegedly rearranged the letters on a sign the local HOA left out?
This is why I always try to read his threads! I thought it was totally awesome that he did that, and I'm waiting for something entertaining to happen again Smilie
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