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My mailman keeps moving my trash can

26,675 2,340 August 13, 2012 at 08:21 AM in Help
I live at the dead end of a narrow lane. The garbage truck has to back down to get to me b/c there's no room for them to turn around.

I leave my trash out on Mondays. The can sits about six feet in front of my mailbox. There aren't a lot of other places to put it where I can still get into/out of my driveway + the garbagemen can still see the can. Any further up the lane and it blocks my neighbor's driveway. The other side of the lane is overgrown & the two times I've tried leaving it there, they either didn't see it or ignored it (either way it wasn't emptied).

My mailman is very lazy & doesn't like to get out of his truck. On multiple occasions he's rammed my trash can, knocking it over, dragging it around my driveway, etc. I know it's him but had no concrete proof until today.

I pointed my home security cameras out the window and watched as he rammed the trash can, shoving it back several feet. I'd left him a note in my mailbox asking him to stop doing this and informing him that I'd set up my cameras to record such incidents.

He jumped around angrily for a while, then moved his truck and put my trash can back close to where it had been. Then he took pictures of it from four angles and wrote me what I assume is a very nasty note.

This guy has on past occasions left me other notes. Once when I parked too close to my own mailbox in my own driveway he wrote me a long-winded screed about how federal law mandates I leave so much space in front of the box, etc. I can't wait to see what this note says.

Anyway I didn't get good clips of him doing all of this b/c I'm new to recording stuff on these cameras. I have him taking his pictures and I have his mail truck in front of my mailbox with the trash can not there. Next week for sure I'll have figured out the procedure and get the entire thing but... I'm wondering if there are other ways to approach this.

The asshole in me says to get rid of the mailbox altogether & put a mail slot in my front door. That way he'd have to get out of his truck every damned day instead of just on Mondays. I can't really move the mailbox right now but I'll have a fence built eventually and may move it then.

More info about this guy: one Saturday when I was working in my garden & had a pile of yard waste set out for a scheduled pickup, he came by to deliver my mail and I guess the bags were in his way (honestly - I could've driven around them to line up with the mailbox but I guess he couldn't/didn't want to). So he got out and kicked the bags of several times. He didn't know I was in the garden. I wish I'd confronted him then but all I could do was stare at him throwing this tantrum like a little kid. He also drives like a maniac, coming down the lane at like 40mph and taking a really wide turn to come up to my mailbox. He backs up so fast he throws gravel everywhere most of the time, in addition to the other asshole stuff he does like moving my trash can around (one time he hauled it all the way into the middle of my front yard).

I'd like to complain to his supervisors too but I'm not sure it would do any good? I hardly get any important mail but I'd hate to jeopardize anything. Plus some shippers only send USPS... part of me says "get a PO box and be done with it" but part of me also wants to WIN this war.

What to do?

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tigger_too_wooh
08-13-2012 at 11:00 AM.
08-13-2012 at 11:00 AM.
Yes. Go to his supervisors.

Or just fill out the online form.

They do follow up.

We have two mail people who used to do our route. We would get one or two pieces of mail everyday and then on Friday when a different mail carrier comes all of a sudden we'd have a pile a foot high and some of the mail was "past delivery date" (like our netflix DVDs that should have been delivered on Monday...). I filled out the online form and received two calls- one from the supervisor for our city and then a general CS call from the feds.
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TigerStar
08-13-2012 at 11:58 AM.
08-13-2012 at 11:58 AM.
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Wait. Aren't you the one who allegedly rearranged the letters on a sign the local HOA left out? How about informing the HOA how the postal carrier is tearing up your association property? Make them work for you for a change. Have the man stick it to the man. High Five

Or does my memory suck?
Nice. Really nice. That was his and his exes house. When they were together. Like, before now, when they are apart. Alone. Miserable. Way to bring back all of those memories for him.





The good thing is, his right arm is super developed now.
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stealth
08-13-2012 at 12:08 PM.
08-13-2012 at 12:08 PM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
I live at the dead end of a narrow lane. The garbage truck has to back down to get to me b/c there's no room for them to turn around.

I leave my trash out on Mondays. The can sits about six feet in front of my mailbox. There aren't a lot of other places to put it where I can still get into/out of my driveway + the garbagemen can still see the can. Any further up the lane and it blocks my neighbor's driveway. The other side of the lane is overgrown & the two times I've tried leaving it there, they either didn't see it or ignored it (either way it wasn't emptied).

My mailman is very lazy & doesn't like to get out of his truck. On multiple occasions he's rammed my trash can, knocking it over, dragging it around my driveway, etc. I know it's him but had no concrete proof until today.

I pointed my home security cameras out the window and watched as he rammed the trash can, shoving it back several feet. I'd left him a note in my mailbox asking him to stop doing this and informing him that I'd set up my cameras to record such incidents.

He jumped around angrily for a while, then moved his truck and put my trash can back close to where it had been. Then he took pictures of it from four angles and wrote me what I assume is a very nasty note.

This guy has on past occasions left me other notes. Once when I parked too close to my own mailbox in my own driveway he wrote me a long-winded screed about how federal law mandates I leave so much space in front of the box, etc. I can't wait to see what this note says.

Anyway I didn't get good clips of him doing all of this b/c I'm new to recording stuff on these cameras. I have him taking his pictures and I have his mail truck in front of my mailbox with the trash can not there. Next week for sure I'll have figured out the procedure and get the entire thing but... I'm wondering if there are other ways to approach this.

The asshole in me says to get rid of the mailbox altogether & put a mail slot in my front door. That way he'd have to get out of his truck every damned day instead of just on Mondays. I can't really move the mailbox right now but I'll have a fence built eventually and may move it then.

More info about this guy: one Saturday when I was working in my garden & had a pile of yard waste set out for a scheduled pickup, he came by to deliver my mail and I guess the bags were in his way (honestly - I could've driven around them to line up with the mailbox but I guess he couldn't/didn't want to). So he got out and kicked the bags of several times. He didn't know I was in the garden. I wish I'd confronted him then but all I could do was stare at him throwing this tantrum like a little kid. He also drives like a maniac, coming down the lane at like 40mph and taking a really wide turn to come up to my mailbox. He backs up so fast he throws gravel everywhere most of the time, in addition to the other asshole stuff he does like moving my trash can around (one time he hauled it all the way into the middle of my front yard).

I'd like to complain to his supervisors too but I'm not sure it would do any good? I hardly get any important mail but I'd hate to jeopardize anything. Plus some shippers only send USPS... part of me says "get a PO box and be done with it" but part of me also wants to WIN this war.

What to do?
qplr;

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stealth
08-13-2012 at 12:10 PM.
08-13-2012 at 12:10 PM.
Seriously, it won't be too much longer before he screws up again. (driving like a maniac, etc) ..with you getting it on camera.

Next would be a complaint to the Postmaster General. I suspect he's had complaints before.

Another thing, the door slot is a great idea! But, if you get a fence, I think you have to have a mailbox at the edge of the fence (I think?).
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SnakePlisken
08-13-2012 at 12:13 PM.
08-13-2012 at 12:13 PM.
Quote from TigerStar :
Nice. Really nice. That was his and his exes house. When they were together. Like, before now, when they are apart. Alone. Miserable. Way to bring back all of those memories for him.





The good thing is, his right arm is super developed now.
that's crazy, he should alternate hands more often.
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MissyMooMoo
08-13-2012 at 01:23 PM.
08-13-2012 at 01:23 PM.
My trashman keeps moving my mailbox. Frown
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wuzzy | Staff
08-13-2012 at 01:32 PM.
08-13-2012 at 01:32 PM.
Post video when you get good shots.
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08-13-2012 at 01:33 PM.
08-13-2012 at 01:33 PM.
Quote from wuzzy :
Post video when you get good shots.
^^ this

Iagree
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emelvee
08-13-2012 at 01:34 PM.
08-13-2012 at 01:34 PM.
Is the Whine, Bitch, Rant thread busted?
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08-13-2012 at 01:39 PM.
08-13-2012 at 01:39 PM.
Quote from wuzzy :
Post video when you get good shots.


Maybe cupcake will let you borrow her new gun.
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emelvee
08-13-2012 at 01:41 PM.
08-13-2012 at 01:41 PM.
Quote from wuzzy :
Post video when you get good shots.
That's mean of you, trying to get VQ to drink. Mad
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08-13-2012 at 02:06 PM.
08-13-2012 at 02:06 PM.
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Give him bottled water. I bet you don't, and that's why this happens.
Rofl2

I just about spit my water out! LMAO
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08-13-2012 at 02:09 PM.
08-13-2012 at 02:09 PM.
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Is the Whine, Bitch, Rant thread busted?
Are all forty thousand of your pun threads busted?
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08-13-2012 at 02:18 PM.
08-13-2012 at 02:18 PM.
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Are all forty thousand of your pun threads busted?
Blowup
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veritablequandary
08-13-2012 at 04:03 PM.
08-13-2012 at 04:03 PM.
Quote from TigerStar :
Nice. Really nice. That was his and his exes house. When they were together. Like, before now, when they are apart. Alone. Miserable. Way to bring back all of those memories for him.





The good thing is, his right arm is super developed now.
I'm glad he brought that up, actually. Got me out of the stale "call his supervisor" state of mind & back into more... creative solutions.

I have a plan.

In any case, here's the note he left me:



Quote from transcription of note :
Do not block access to the mail box. I am a kind person to even deliver your mails and packages. If have problem with me ramming or moving your trash can you may call our 800 number. Thank you sir.
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