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28,148 544 May 23, 2007 at 09:32 AM in Finance (12)
My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday nod

HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
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jl.parrish
05-23-2007 at 02:12 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:12 PM.
woot for cav on your second date. I hope you get lucky!
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Brock Landers
05-23-2007 at 02:12 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:12 PM.
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Keep your HPV test results in the glovebox.
Rofl2

brilliant!
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ahnil8er
05-23-2007 at 02:12 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:12 PM.
Quote from thegoalie :
The women will never admit it, but if they think real hard about the last guy who they were insanely attracted to, I guarantee he wasn't calling them on the phone the day after their dates. More than likely he barely gave them the time of day, and they hated it. But they were insanely attracted to the guy...
Indeed
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Fallacy
05-23-2007 at 02:14 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:14 PM.
The two people who seem to be taking the extreme and saying that playing games is alright, and that you should be an asshole are: thegoalie and ahnil8er.
(it seems that caveney was only defending himself from all the attacks, I don't know what your POV is)

Are either of you married/in a serious relationship? because if you're not then your opinions on it's better to be an asshole doesn't work, does it?
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DC
05-23-2007 at 02:15 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:15 PM.
Cav..if you got as much action as your thread did...you'd not be able to walk!! laugh out loud
High Five
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ahnil8er
05-23-2007 at 02:27 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:27 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
The two people who seem to be taking the extreme and saying that playing games is alright, and that you should be an asshole are: thegoalie and ahnil8er.
(it seems that caveney was only defending himself from all the attacks, I don't know what your POV is)

Are either of you married/in a serious relationship? because if you're not then your opinions on it's better to be an asshole doesn't work, does it?
im 21, and NOT in a serious relationship. I am also the nice guy, and not the asshole. I just know that being an asshole works, as ive seen it. And being the nice guy obviously doesnt work for me.

And IIRC, thegoalie is married (or engaged)
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Jex
05-23-2007 at 02:29 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:29 PM.
Quote from ahnil8er :
im 21, and NOT in a serious relationship. I am also the nice guy, and not the asshole. I just know that being an asshole works, as ive seen it. And being the nice guy obviously doesnt work for me.

And IIRC, thegoalie is married (or engaged)
I go with the happy middle. Becuse both work for me.
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Fallacy
05-23-2007 at 02:35 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:35 PM.
Quote from ahnil8er :
im 21, and NOT in a serious relationship. I am also the nice guy, and not the asshole. I just know that being an asshole works, as ive seen it. And being the nice guy obviously doesnt work for me.

And IIRC, thegoalie is married (or engaged)
I'm 22 (I think...), I've been in several serious relationships already, I'm engaged. Age has nothing to do with, maturity does.

On a side note:

playing games good
thegoalie
Kramer210
Brrcats
jlparrish76
caveney
ahnil8er

playing games bad
afusinatto
veritableqndry
punkie
IVIax
n19htmare
KimbersTimber
jennz
RandomGirl
z2g
Peachyum
Reneek


These are the people that posted in this thread (I think, from the comments people made, not everybody choose a clear side)

If I put you in the wrong category, deal with it.

Yes I have too much free time at work.

Quote from Jex :
I go with the happy middle. Becuse both work for me.
And I agree with that, the middle ground is the way to go, he shouldn't be a complete asshole, and you shouldn't be a complete ass kisser. And the games (couldn't find a better word) that cav is playing is somewhere in the middle ground, this thread went WAY offtopic to "what if cav is going to play more games" and not what really happened.
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rebat
05-23-2007 at 02:35 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:35 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
I'm 22 (I think...), I've been in several serious relationships already, I'm engaged. Age has nothing to do with, maturity does.

On a side note:

playing games good
thegoalie
Kramer210
Brrcats
jlparrish76
caveney
ahnil8er

playing games bad
afusinatto
veritableqndry
punkie
IVIax
n19htmare
KimbersTimber
jennz
RandomGirl
z2g
Peachyum
Reneek


These are the people that posted in this thread (I think, from the comments people made, not everybody choose a clear side)

If I put you in the wrong category, deal with it.

Yes I have too much free time at work.

So what's your position at work?

AND NO. "Slickdealer" is not an acceptable title.
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ahnil8er
05-23-2007 at 02:36 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:36 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
I'm 22 (I think...), I've been in several serious relationships already, I'm engaged. Age has nothing to do with, maturity does.
yea, but you live in Northern Virginia. People start thinking about marriage right out of high school there. I live in LA, and i just graduated college. Marriage isnt even a thought until im around 25-26.
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z2g
05-23-2007 at 02:36 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:36 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
I'm 22 (I think...), I've been in several serious relationships already, I'm engaged. Age has nothing to do with, maturity does.

On a side note:

playing games good
thegoalie
Kramer210
Brrcats
jlparrish76
caveney
ahnil8er

playing games bad
afusinatto
veritableqndry
punkie
IVIax
n19htmare
KimbersTimber
jennz
RandomGirl
z2g
Peachyum
Reneek


These are the people that posted in this thread (I think, from the comments people made, not everybody choose a clear side)

If I put you in the wrong category, deal with it.

Yes I have too much free time at work.
From each group, let's see who's single/married, how old each person is, and whether the member is male/female. I can almost guarantee you that most of the pro-game members are single, young men.Smilie

And, don't get me wrong, I believed the "game" theory at one point in my life.....BUT, I grew up and realized how silly it was.
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jl.parrish
05-23-2007 at 02:38 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:38 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
I'm 22 (I think...), I've been in several serious relationships already, I'm engaged. Age has nothing to do with, maturity does.

On a side note:

playing games good
thegoalie
Kramer210
Brrcats

caveney
ahnil8er

playing games bad
afusinatto
veritableqndry
punkie
IVIax
n19htmare
KimbersTimber
jennz
RandomGirl
z2g
Peachyum
Reneek


These are the people that posted in this thread (I think, from the comments people made, not everybody choose a clear side)

If I put you in the wrong category, deal with it.

Yes I have too much free time at work.



And I agree with that, the middle ground is the way to go, he shouldn't be a complete asshole, and you shouldn't be a complete ass kisser. And the games (couldn't find a better word) that cav is playing is somewhere in the middle ground, this thread went WAY offtopic to "what if cav is going to play more games" and not what really happened.
Fixed

I never said that playing games is good, I just said that its ok to wait a while before calling, it makes it interesting.
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BostonGirl
05-23-2007 at 02:38 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:38 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
I'm 22 (I think...), I've been in several serious relationships already, I'm engaged. Age has nothing to do with, maturity does.


And I agree with that, the middle ground is the way to go, he shouldn't be a complete asshole, and you shouldn't be a complete ass kisser. And the games (couldn't find a better word) that cav is playing is somewhere in the middle ground, this thread went WAY offtopic to "what if cav is going to play more games" and not what really happened.
I AGREE with the off-topic....also I would like to be included in the "Playing games is ok, due to the evil women ratio" category....nod LMAO
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rebat
05-23-2007 at 02:43 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:43 PM.
Quote from ahnil8er :
yea, but you live in Northern Virginia. People start thinking about marriage right out of high school there. I live in LA, and i just graduated college. Marriage isnt even a thought until im around 25-26.
To clarify he doesn't live in Louisiana, instead Los Angeles.

Cav where did u go on the first date?
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fatwallet187
05-23-2007 at 02:43 PM.
05-23-2007 at 02:43 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
The two people who seem to be taking the extreme and saying that playing games is alright, and that you should be an asshole are: thegoalie and ahnil8er.
(it seems that caveney was only defending himself from all the attacks, I don't know what your POV is)

Are either of you married/in a serious relationship? because if you're not then your opinions on it's better to be an asshole doesn't work, does it?
Depends on what you're after. Marriage/serious relationship is not everyone's end game.
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