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So My Wife Moved In With Her Boyfriend... (Update #211)
August 12, 2007 at
12:02 AM
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Well you can call her Strike Three cuz she is outta here!
The U-Haul came this morning. Since he doesn't want to tell his friends about me (she was told to lie and say she's been divorced for a couple of years), it was only him, her and me to load up the truck. I had all the boxes and furniture in the garage. Only the pictures and breakable stuff were in the house. I helped him load up the U-Haul (and we packed it full) without so much as a Thank You.
She has a real winner there.
For those that don't know... LINK
The U-Haul came this morning. Since he doesn't want to tell his friends about me (she was told to lie and say she's been divorced for a couple of years), it was only him, her and me to load up the truck. I had all the boxes and furniture in the garage. Only the pictures and breakable stuff were in the house. I helped him load up the U-Haul (and we packed it full) without so much as a Thank You.
She has a real winner there.For those that don't know... LINK
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Sorry Stealth.
Sorry Stealth.
Now. Martinis for everyone!!!!!!!
stealth.....
I seriously think I now need therapy after reading through all 7 pages of this $hit...
and I kept reading...that's what's funny to me.
Only five more months...
You're a good man.
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Thanks to everyone who defended me.
Was it my actions in the marriage that caused her to cheat? I can see where that could be argued if you didn't know all the facts. But, maybe it's innate in her character and was inevitible regardless of anything I could have possibly done? Maybe it's because she likes to switch jobs, houses, cars, shoes, and men like changing the TV channel?
Several people are familiar with my history from previous posts I've made, at least what I've shared. And they've already formed an opinion of her, and each situation just helps solidify that opinion.
All I know is, I'm looking forward to happier times. I wish her and her kids the best, although I know she will most likely continue in the same pattern of behavior. My focus now is on taking care of my kids, and learning what I can from the experience and moving on.
Like I've said before, many of us read a story like this and associate it with our own personal experiences, which helps shape our opinion. So, JazzyMac, maybe you were in a similar situation but there was more to that story than was being told? I think you're letting your own experiences affect how you perceive what's going on here.
Determining who's "right" or "wrong" is a futile effort with futile results.
In any case, taking responsibility for your own actions is a deep-rooted value that I try to live by. If I were at fault, I would own up to it. I may not have been the perfect husband, but that doesn't give her the right to go screw around. The proper thing would have been for her to split up first, and then date this guy. He knew she was married as well. So you see, even though we can determine that they are both "wrong", it doesn't really matter. What's done is done. And I'll end up being happier for it, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
Thanks to everyone who defended me.
Was it my actions in the marriage that caused her to cheat? I can see where that could be argued if you didn't know all the facts. But, maybe it's innate in her character and was inevitible regardless of anything I could have possibly done? Maybe it's because she likes to switch jobs, houses, cars, shoes, and men like changing the TV channel?
Several people are familiar with my history from previous posts I've made, at least what I've shared. And they've already formed an opinion of her, and each situation just helps solidify that opinion.
All I know is, I'm looking forward to happier times. I wish her and her kids the best, although I know she will most likely continue in the same pattern of behavior. My focus now is on taking care of my kids, and learning what I can from the experience and moving on.
Like I've said before, many of us read a story like this and associate it with our own personal experiences, which helps shape our opinion. So, JazzyMac, maybe you were in a similar situation but there was more to that story than was being told? I think you're letting your own experiences affect how you perceive what's going on here.
Determining who's "right" or "wrong" is a futile effort with futile results.
In any case, taking responsibility for your own actions is a deep-rooted value that I try to live by. If I were at fault, I would own up to it. I may not have been the perfect husband, but that doesn't give her the right to go screw around. The proper thing would have been for her to split up first, and then date this guy. He knew she was married as well. So you see, even though we can determine that they are both "wrong", it doesn't really matter. What's done is done. And I'll end up being happier for it, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
I am very sorry.
On some level it has to hurt.
But, it is good to see you are looking ahead for a good future with your two children.
I don't really 'know' all the particulars, except she cheated.
Have you considered getting some tests done for any possible
STDs she may have shared w/ you?
I think you should for your health.
Public Health or your own doctor should be able to help you.
Sending you good luck for everything to come out healthy!
It's fine whatever the reasons are. What I find (not based on personal experiences) that everyone calls this wife of yours a "blank" and "blankity blank" and you're just sucking it all in.
One person comes in to disagree and check out the attack!
Whatever works.
I think you were just being an AFC.
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