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RETIRED: The Official Whine, Bitch, and Rant Thread
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The super bitchy version.
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The super bitchy version.

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Thank you, I was happy to end the last thread on a good note
Last year I planned a trip to Arizona for our anniversary. We got in a fight the day before and he called the airline and cancelled the trip. Normal people would get over it and still go, but not him. So, we did nothing for our anniversary, he didn't even get me a card, but it was my fault because I got mad at him. My birthday was a month and a half before that. He said he was throwing me a birthday party. Three weeks before my birthday I got mad at him - told him that he needed to come up with some idea for what we were doing or let our friends know at least so they could save the date. He got mad that I was expecting this of him and so he didn't throw a party (nevermind that I've thrown him four birthday parties-big parties too, since we've been married...he's never thrown me one). We did nothing for my birthday, he didn't even get me a card, but it was my fault 'cause I got mad. This year we had last year's Arizona airline credit that was about to expire. So, that's why we went there. I planned the entire thing; hotel rooms, itinerary, everything. He got on the plane and went. That's all. He did get me a present this year at least.
Maybe he'll decide to tag along at the last minute. If not, plan something that you'll enjoy doing.
I don't think it's being spoiled to want to celebrate your marriage to him.
It also sounds like he uses these fights as excuses to not have to do anything or buy you anything. Maybe he feels it's easier to deal with the fights than to have to go through the "hassle" of planning something and putting thought into a gift.
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New whine of the moment...
DH is leaving me
New whine of the moment...
DH is leaving me
Except for those child-type things running around...
Except for those child-type things running around...
I plan to use this time to implement a new bedtime routine with them.