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How do you politely get a guy to stop hitting on you?

17,745 1,470 November 6, 2010 at 06:03 PM in Help
The Boy isn't here yet. It has caused some interesting issues at social gatherings. I have no idea what to do when a guy starts talking to me.

Maybe he is just friendly? How long should I let them talk to me before I tell them I'm married? Wot if they AREN'T hitting on me and then I look like a presumptuous arse? I see the conversation going like this

Guy: So you are new to San Diego?
Me: Yeah, moved here a couple months ago
Guy: Its a great place....yadda yadda
Me: ..*continue conversation to be friendly"
Guy: Yeah, you should come out with us some time.
Me: Well I'm married
Guy: I wasn't asking you out.
Me: er.....uh.....*dies*

I haven't been on the dating scene for a while so I have no idea how to skillfully let a guy know I'm taken but remain friendly in case they just wanted to make a new friend too (although I'm not sure how often that actually happens laugh out loud )

Give me some sage advice Whee
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SlickChik
11-06-2010 at 07:48 PM.
11-06-2010 at 07:48 PM.
Quote from Monkfish :
Act really crazy (the same way you do in a big city when a potentially shady character is sizing you up:

Bad guy?: Hey, what time is it?
You: Loudly roar like a lion and flap your arms wildly like a seagull.

Problem solved.
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11-06-2010 at 07:49 PM.
11-06-2010 at 07:49 PM.
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Best Answer Worthy
Maybe not so much. Some guys are into crazy chicks. Wink
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11-06-2010 at 07:50 PM.
11-06-2010 at 07:50 PM.
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Maybe not so much. Some guys are into crazy chicks. Wink
Damn. Also a good point. Wots a gal to do?!
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veritablequandary
11-06-2010 at 07:53 PM.
11-06-2010 at 07:53 PM.
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Damn. Also a good point. Wots a gal to do?!
We've covered this.

"My eyes are up here buddy!" = not a chum
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11-06-2010 at 07:56 PM.
11-06-2010 at 07:56 PM.
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We've covered this.

"My eyes are up here buddy!" = not a chum
bahahaha Alright then.
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veritablequandary
11-06-2010 at 07:59 PM.
11-06-2010 at 07:59 PM.
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bahahaha Alright then.
You should probably post pics so we can approve the outfit. nod
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DNC
11-06-2010 at 08:00 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:00 PM.
Quote from Monkfish :
Act really crazy (the same way you do in a big city when a potentially shady character is sizing you up:

Bad guy?: Hey, what time is it?
You: Loudly roar like a lion and flap your arms wildly like a seagull.

Problem solved.
You want her to act like Ke$ha?
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11-06-2010 at 08:02 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:02 PM.
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You should probably post pics so we can approve the outfit. nod
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11-06-2010 at 08:05 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:05 PM.
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Iagree I prefer Thunderbird myself. Stick Out Tongue
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11-06-2010 at 08:09 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:09 PM.
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You want her to act like Ke$ha?
Kesha is the poor man's Lady Gaga. True story. LMAO
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11-06-2010 at 08:09 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:09 PM.
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Iagree I prefer Thunderbird myself. Stick Out Tongue
I was like WTF? And then....ohhhhh...haha I get it.
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11-06-2010 at 08:10 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:10 PM.
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I was like WTF? And then....ohhhhh...haha I get it.
:waggles eyebrows: So what's a nice girl like you doing in a wretched hive of scum and villany like this? Wink
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11-06-2010 at 08:13 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:13 PM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
:waggles eyebrows: So what's a nice girl like you doing in a wretched hive of scum and villany like this? Wink
Oh wait...I got this.

Well I was just looking for a birthday gift for my HUSBAND. That's right. My HUSBAND. DID YA GET THAT?!
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emelvee
11-06-2010 at 08:13 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:13 PM.
What if I want a guy to hit on me?


wait...I'm not gay. never mind.
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Jex
11-06-2010 at 08:16 PM.
11-06-2010 at 08:16 PM.
Quote from Monkfish :
Act really crazy (the same way you do in a big city when a potentially shady character is sizing you up:

Bad guy?: Hey, what time is it?
You: Loudly roar like a lion and flap your arms wildly like a seagull.

Problem solved.
That might encourage some to buy her a drink. Stick Out Tongue
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