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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?

3,549 129 November 23, 2010 at 03:06 PM in Question
It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?

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appleyum
11-24-2010 at 07:34 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:34 AM.
Quote from coulditbeSatan :
How am I an accessory? If you and a buddy go somewhere and you pick up the check (your turn or whatever) that doesn't make you responsible for his food choices.

No her husband doesn't know.
Because you know she is married and he doesn't know.

Now if you didn't know she was married that is another story.

It's kind of like if a friend gave you a stolen product. There is a big difference between knowing the product was stolen or not. If you knew you are an accessory.
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veritablequandary
11-24-2010 at 07:39 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:39 AM.
OP, what you're doing is perfectly fine. You have no moral, ethical, or legal reasons to fret.

For the record it's also ok for you to:
  • take candy from babies or small children;
  • kick a cat or a dog provided said animal belongs to you;
  • sexually assault amphibians (under 6lbs. only);
  • burn plastic causing release of toxic smoke and gases in your own back yard (as long as the plastic belonged to you prior to immolation);
  • keep any money you find on the street, in a wallet on the street, or in a jar marked "TIPS" on the counter at Starbucks;
  • punch hobos;
  • go to your local soup kitchen for a Thanksgiving meal even though you have money and a place to live and (apparently) a sugar momma to cook for you.
There are probably things I'm forgetting. Let your conscience be your guide! Thumbup
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JeepShot
11-24-2010 at 07:42 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:42 AM.
Quote from appleyum :
Because you know she is married and he doesn't know.

Now if you didn't know she was married is another story.

It's kind of like a friend given you a stolen product. There is a difference between knowing the product was stolen or not. If you knew you are an accessory.
YEP! I agree with apple
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Fallacy
11-24-2010 at 07:43 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:43 AM.
Quote from Maleficent :




That basically sums it up...
Roll My pic is getting some action.

Quote from OhNoItsDEVO :
that picture kicks ass!
You're welcome laugh out loud
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Fallacy
11-24-2010 at 07:45 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:45 AM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
OP, what you're doing is perfectly fine. You have no moral, ethical, or legal reasons to fret.

For the record it's also ok for you to:
  • take candy from babies or small children;
  • kick a cat or a dog provided said animal belongs to you;
  • sexually assault amphibians (under 6lbs. only);
  • burn plastic causing release of toxic smoke and gases in your own back yard (as long as the plastic belonged to you prior to immolation);
  • keep any money you find on the street, in a wallet on the street, or in a jar marked "TIPS" on the counter at Starbucks;
  • punch hobos;
  • go to your local soup kitchen for a Thanksgiving meal even though you have money and a place to live and (apparently) a sugar momma to cook for you.
There are probably things I'm forgetting. Let your conscience be your guide! Thumbup
Sadwalk

I've only done 6/7. Good thing it's Thanksgiving!
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dalokgawd
11-24-2010 at 07:47 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:47 AM.
What I want to know is why bother posting a thread asking if what you're doing is wrong if you were just going to ignore what every single person says and keep doing it anyways? Dontknow
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veritablequandary
11-24-2010 at 07:49 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:49 AM.
Quote from dalokgawd :
What I want to know is why bother posting a thread asking if what you're doing is wrong if you were just going to ignore what every single person says and keep doing it anyways? Dontknow
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dalokgawd
11-24-2010 at 07:50 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:50 AM.
Quote from veritableqndry :
[belch.com]
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Pig
11-24-2010 at 07:51 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:51 AM.
Quote from IVIax :
Roll My pic is getting some action.



You're welcome laugh out loud
That doesn't look like you Nono2
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Fallacy
11-24-2010 at 07:53 AM.
11-24-2010 at 07:53 AM.
Quote from Pig :
That doesn't look like you Nono2
I made the gif though Stick Out Tongue
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Roland Deschain
11-24-2010 at 08:37 AM.
11-24-2010 at 08:37 AM.
if I was in your situation and the woman was smoking hot, I'm not saying that I wouldn't hit it anyway.

However, I'd know full well that it was wrong.
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Titansfan1234
11-24-2010 at 08:38 AM.
11-24-2010 at 08:38 AM.
Us: You are wrong!

Him: Nuh-uh

/thread
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dalokgawd
11-24-2010 at 08:40 AM.
11-24-2010 at 08:40 AM.
Quote from Titansfan1234 :
Us: You are wrong!

Him: Nuh-uh

/thread
worship

Edit: Actually hold on, let me fix that for you...

Quote from Titansfan1234 :
Him: Am I wrong?

Us: Clearly, you are!

Him: Nuh-uh

/thread
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stimpy
11-24-2010 at 09:10 AM.
11-24-2010 at 09:10 AM.
Quote from Marshmlol :
Golden rule my friend o.o
this

Let me first say
1) I first thought this thread was just an obvious troll thread
2) I always enjoyed the OPs posts and thought he possessed reasonable intelligence
3) I now believe he is far younger and naive than I originally assessed.
4) I knowingly fooled around with married women when I was younger (knowing it was wrong).
5) What goes around .... comes around.


OP - questions for you.
Let's just say you're at a bar, obviously together, another dude comes on to her. Ignores you and the fact that he can see you're together. Is that dude wrong?
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pictureframes
11-24-2010 at 09:21 AM.
11-24-2010 at 09:21 AM.
Quote from coulditbeSatan :
How am I an accessory? If you and a buddy go somewhere and you pick up the check (your turn or whatever) that doesn't make you responsible for his food choices.

No her husband doesn't know.
ummm if her hubby dosent know then most likely you are contributing to the DEMISE of their marriage. CONTRIBUTE_ER!

i like that word. Smilie
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