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Man Says Ex-Girlfriend Stole His Sperm to Create Kids
November 27, 2011 at
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A New York man was stunned to find out that his four-year-old twins were not an accidental pregnancy after all -- but that his desperate girlfriend secretly stashed away his sperm and used it for an in-vitro procedure, he charges in a lawsuit.
Joseph Pressil, 36, was not planning on having children with Anetria Burnett, with whom he was in a relationship for six months in 2007, he said.
So she took matters into her own hands, he told the New York Post, in order to remain in his Texas house and make a legal bid for half of his possessions.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/11...z1exPMALDX
Joseph Pressil, 36, was not planning on having children with Anetria Burnett, with whom he was in a relationship for six months in 2007, he said.
So she took matters into her own hands, he told the New York Post, in order to remain in his Texas house and make a legal bid for half of his possessions.
http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/11...z1exPMALDX
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I helped my uncle Jack off a horse a few times.
Reverse the situation. Man is crazy, wants a child with this woman, pokes holes in his condoms or messes with her birth control pills. She gets pregnant, wants an abortion. He takes her to court to prevent it, forces her to have the kid. Yet, she willingly had sex with him! Maybe they even talked about having kids one day in an abstract & non-specific way. Hmm.
If I start questioning her story - saying it sounds "fishy" and "implausible" - bet you good money people come down on me like a ton of bricks, "you asshole how dare you try to blame her!" Why is it different when the victim's a man?
"If she'd gotten her tubes tied before she got raped she wouldn't be pregnant."
So the answer to this problem is an invasive, non-reversable (yes I am aware it can be reversed in certain circumstances, not relevant here - it's another surgery he has to undergo) surgical procedure? Not, oh, say, holding the perpetrator of this crime responsible for her insane actions by any chance?
The very unfortunate part of all of this is that these children are caught in the middle. What's even worse is that I bet despite all of this, the mother winds up with custody & the father ends up paying child support. Which was her goal from the beginning...
What this woman did was horrible and no person deserves it. Sure it could fall into the shoulda woulda coulda, but it all boils down that this woman needs help. The kids will suffer and the man doesn't want them. Could I blame him? Maybe. But that is your kids whether you like it or not. Your DNA is a part of those kids. Anyone that can just walk away from their kids says a lot about their character. This man wasn't raped he had intercourse with her consensually.
I hope you think the next time before you write an analogy. Some people including myself have been raped on here. With that said, I will be putting this thread on ignore. I feel like I need to take a warm shower to get clean from feeling degraded once again by a man.
Here you go ladies...Wear this every time you walk out the door. It's a sure bet that rape will not occur. Have a nice day!
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What this woman did was horrible and no person deserves it. Sure it could fall into the shoulda woulda coulda, but it all boils down that this woman needs help. The kids will suffer and the man doesn't want them. Could I blame him? Maybe. But that is your kids whether you like it or not. Your DNA is a part of those kids. Anyone that can just walk away from their kids says a lot about their character. This man wasn't raped he had intercourse with her consensually.
I hope you think the next time before you write an analogy. Some people including myself have been raped on here. With that said, I will be putting this thread on ignore. I feel like I need to take a warm shower to get clean from feeling degraded once again by a man.
Here you go ladies...Wear this every time you walk out the door. It's a sure bet that rape will not occur. Have a nice day!
Just because this man didn't want to have kids now, doesn't mean that someday he might want them. All VQ was saying was that people need to understand that there is equality expected in a sexual relationship and if you betray that trust then you should be the one responsible for the resulting affects. VQ was just implying that this guy is just as much a victim of malicious thought and action as if the situation were switched.
These kind of actions really piss me off because you're taking advantage of 2, if not more, human beings (the man or woman and the resulting child/children) to get something you want, whether it be the child or the child support or the continuance of a relationship. Everyone has thoughts of the most dastardly ways to stay in a relationship or to get what you want but you need to have the integrety to not do them because it is lying and stealing and so much worse because a new person/s is caught in the middle and confused.
Taking advantage of children in this sense is just as much child abuse as beating them senseless. But I also think people need to stop only blaming men. Women enter into purely sexual relationships just as much as men and both should be held accountable for the results, but if someone is abusing that trust of "yes, I have birth control covered...I know we don't want a pregnancy to result." and then reniging on that secretly and forcing a child is WRONG no matter why you wanted it.
There are plenty of children in this world that need adopted or are in broken relationships...it's not fair to them that more people are trying to cheat themselves into the same situation.
Just because this man didn't want to have kids now, doesn't mean that someday he might want them. All VQ was saying was that people need to understand that there is equality expected in a sexual relationship and if you betray that trust then you should be the one responsible for the resulting affects. VQ was just implying that this guy is just as much a victim of malicious thought and action as if the situation were switched.
These kind of actions really piss me off because you're taking advantage of 2, if not more, human beings (the man or woman and the resulting child/children) to get something you want, whether it be the child or the child support or the continuance of a relationship. Everyone has thoughts of the most dastardly ways to stay in a relationship or to get what you want but you need to have the integrety to not do them because it is lying and stealing and so much worse because a new person/s is caught in the middle and confused.
Taking advantage of children in this sense is just as much child abuse as beating them senseless. But I also think people need to stop only blaming men. Women enter into purely sexual relationships just as much as men and both should be held accountable for the results, but if someone is abusing that trust of "yes, I have birth control covered...I know we don't want a pregnancy to result." and then reniging on that secretly and forcing a child is WRONG no matter why you wanted it.
There are plenty of children in this world that need adopted or are in broken relationships...it's not fair to them that more people are trying to cheat themselves into the same situation.
I also agree with the rest of your statement. I don't think there is any justification for them stealing the sperm, no way to make it sound ok. I don't care how badly you want a baby. Heck I'd love to have another baby but my husband is 100% against it. Does that mean I should steal his sperm? God no. I'd love it if he changed his mind but I'm not going to take measures like that. It's sickening that some women do that, to husbands, boyfriends, strangers, whoever.
Just because this man didn't want to have kids now, doesn't mean that someday he might want them. All VQ was saying was that people need to understand that there is equality expected in a sexual relationship and if you betray that trust then you should be the one responsible for the resulting affects. VQ was just implying that this guy is just as much a victim of malicious thought and action as if the situation were switched.
These kind of actions really piss me off because you're taking advantage of 2, if not more, human beings (the man or woman and the resulting child/children) to get something you want, whether it be the child or the child support or the continuance of a relationship. Everyone has thoughts of the most dastardly ways to stay in a relationship or to get what you want but you need to have the integrety to not do them because it is lying and stealing and so much worse because a new person/s is caught in the middle and confused.
Taking advantage of children in this sense is just as much child abuse as beating them senseless. But I also think people need to stop only blaming men. Women enter into purely sexual relationships just as much as men and both should be held accountable for the results, but if someone is abusing that trust of "yes, I have birth control covered...I know we don't want a pregnancy to result." and then reniging on that secretly and forcing a child is WRONG no matter why you wanted it.
There are plenty of children in this world that need adopted or are in broken relationships...it's not fair to them that more people are trying to cheat themselves into the same situation.
If he doesn't want his children he should give them up for adoption because someone will love them. They wont look at them any other way than a miracle. Some people try their whole lives to have children and never succeed. So adoption is their only solution. Any one that can give their children up for adoption are a lot better than me because I couldn't.
I agree with you when two people have intercourse they are both responsible for the actions that take place before and after sex. I do not think this woman should get away with what she did. She needs a serious mental evaluation, jail time and what ever else can be thrown at her. I was speaking for myself about children. I could never walk away from mine whether it was caused by a rape or not. That however, is me and not other people.
I would NEVER sleep with a guy and just "trust" that he'd take care of the birth control. If I don't want to get pregnant, I need to do whatever I can to prevent it.
BOTH men and women have birth control available to them, so there's no excuse.
Because, just like it has been mentioned in this thread, some people are just batshit crazy.
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