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Am I required to disclose this information before having sex?
March 29, 2007 at
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My girlfriend was informed by her gynocologist that she has the human papillomavirus, or HPV. It's impossible to tell who had it first, but I'm most likely a carrier now as well. For those of you who don't know, HPV is a virus that's said to be a prerequisite for cervical cancer in women. Men can carry the virus, but it's nearly harmless for them.
Some HPV facts from wikipedia:
Here's my question. Am I required to disclose this information before having relations with another woman? I have a feeling that everyone's kneejerk reaction will be "yes", but please consider the following. There's a huge chance that the woman already has the virus, and if she doesn't already she'll probably get it in the future*. With a condom, she probably won't get it from me anyway. With pap testing, there's a very very low risk of cancer. And quite frankly, I feel that she won't know all the facts and will think it's a bigger deal than it actually is.
Thoughts?
*Genital HPV infection is very common, with estimates suggesting that more than 50% of women will become infected with one or more of the sexually transmitted HPV types at some point during adulthood.[7]
The American Social Health Association projections in 2006 were yet more pessimistic, predicting that about 75% of the reproductive population will have been infected with genital HPV infection in their lifetime.
Some HPV facts from wikipedia:
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HPV is the most common sexual transmitted infection in the United States. In the United States approximately 20-million people are currently infected with HPV about 6.2 million Americans will get infected with genital HPV this year.24.5% prevalence of HPV among females 14 to 19 years old 44.8% prevalence of HPV among females 20 to 24 years old 27.4% prevalence of HPV among females 25 to 29 years old 27.5% prevalence of HPV among females 30 to 39 years old 25.2% prevalence of HPV among females 40 to 49 years old 19.6% prevalence of HPV among females 50 to 59 years old In the absence of Pap testing or treatment, about 1% of women with genital HPV infections will eventually go on to develop cervical cancer. Women who have Pap testing or other cervical cancer screenings on a regular basis dramatically decrease their chances of developing cervical cancer. A 2006 study of 82 college students suggests that condoms can be up to 70% effective for preventing genital HPV infection if used for every sexual encounter. |
Thoughts?
*Genital HPV infection is very common, with estimates suggesting that more than 50% of women will become infected with one or more of the sexually transmitted HPV types at some point during adulthood.[7]
The American Social Health Association projections in 2006 were yet more pessimistic, predicting that about 75% of the reproductive population will have been infected with genital HPV infection in their lifetime.
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There is no cure for HPV. There is only a vaccine, and it is only suitable for certain girls/young women.
See, i am thinking of the strain that causes cervical cancer, not genital warts.
Actually any of you mommies or daddies are welcome to answer. I'd like to have some thoughts on this.
Thanks though Kimber.
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Actually any of you mommies or daddies are welcome to answer. I'd like to have some thoughts on this.
DD and I discussed it and I scheduled her first OB appt to go in and get a physical and birth control. Am I giving her permission to run out and have sex? Hell no! Do I want her educated in how to stay safe if she does? Of course! Would I prefer she wait until she is married? HELL yes! I lost alot of sleep over this one, but only time will tell if I made the right choice.
Your a good mom for doing this...you are thinking realistically. I commend you for not being short-sided or narrow-minded.
DD and I discussed it and I scheduled her first OB appt to go in and get a physical and birth control. Am I giving her permission to run out and have sex? Hell no! Do I want her educated in how to stay safe if she does? Of course! Would I prefer she wait until she is married? HELL yes! I lost alot of sleep over this one, but only time will tell if I made the right choice.
DD and I discussed it and I scheduled her first OB appt to go in and get a physical and birth control. Am I giving her permission to run out and have sex? Hell no! Do I want her educated in how to stay safe if she does? Of course! Would I prefer she wait until she is married? HELL yes! I lost alot of sleep over this one, but only time will tell if I made the right choice.
You are a being a responsible mommy. Good job with a difficult decision.
... then again, if these women never left the kitchen and faitfully stuck to one man (at his beck & call) then we'd never have this situation!
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... then again, if these women never left the kitchen and faitfully stuck to one man (at his beck & call) then we'd never have this situation!