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Am I required to disclose this information before having sex?

7,598 277 March 29, 2007 at 05:33 AM in Question
My girlfriend was informed by her gynocologist that she has the human papillomavirus, or HPV. It's impossible to tell who had it first, but I'm most likely a carrier now as well. For those of you who don't know, HPV is a virus that's said to be a prerequisite for cervical cancer in women. Men can carry the virus, but it's nearly harmless for them.

Some HPV facts from wikipedia:
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HPV is the most common sexual transmitted infection in the United States. In the United States approximately 20-million people are currently infected with HPV about 6.2 million Americans will get infected with genital HPV this year.

24.5% prevalence of HPV among females 14 to 19 years old
44.8% prevalence of HPV among females 20 to 24 years old
27.4% prevalence of HPV among females 25 to 29 years old
27.5% prevalence of HPV among females 30 to 39 years old
25.2% prevalence of HPV among females 40 to 49 years old
19.6% prevalence of HPV among females 50 to 59 years old

In the absence of Pap testing or treatment, about 1% of women with genital HPV infections will eventually go on to develop cervical cancer.

Women who have Pap testing or other cervical cancer screenings on a regular basis dramatically decrease their chances of developing cervical cancer.

A 2006 study of 82 college students suggests that condoms can be up to 70% effective for preventing genital HPV infection if used for every sexual encounter.
Here's my question. Am I required to disclose this information before having relations with another woman? I have a feeling that everyone's kneejerk reaction will be "yes", but please consider the following. There's a huge chance that the woman already has the virus, and if she doesn't already she'll probably get it in the future*. With a condom, she probably won't get it from me anyway. With pap testing, there's a very very low risk of cancer. And quite frankly, I feel that she won't know all the facts and will think it's a bigger deal than it actually is.

Thoughts?







*Genital HPV infection is very common, with estimates suggesting that more than 50% of women will become infected with one or more of the sexually transmitted HPV types at some point during adulthood.[7]

The American Social Health Association projections in 2006 were yet more pessimistic, predicting that about 75% of the reproductive population will have been infected with genital HPV infection in their lifetime.
Would YOU disclose that you're an HPV carrier? (please read the wiki facts first)
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Striker
08-26-2007 at 06:45 PM.
08-26-2007 at 06:45 PM.
So keep HPV away to keep big breasts unscathed.
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random.
08-26-2007 at 06:47 PM.
08-26-2007 at 06:47 PM.
Quote from schbusdrvr :
Now they are finding that hpv can also cause breast cancer. So now we have cervical, throat and breast cancer linked to HPV. Let's hope they find a cure for this soon. Not just a vaccine but also a cure.

link1 [nih.gov]

link2 [annieappleseedproject.org]

link3 [abc.net.au]

and there are many more.
That's really interesting. Thanks for the links.
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Autumn | Staff
08-26-2007 at 06:53 PM.
08-26-2007 at 06:53 PM.
Quote from schbusdrvr :
Now they are finding that hpv can also cause breast cancer. So now we have cervical, throat and breast cancer linked to HPV. Let's hope they find a cure for this soon. Not just a vaccine but also a cure.

link1

link2

link3

and there are many more.
Wow...that's really scary. Thanks for the links.
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zmarko
08-26-2007 at 06:55 PM.
08-26-2007 at 06:55 PM.
Quote from Autumn :
Wow...that's really scary. Thanks for the links.
I know my breasts are scared.
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redjen910
08-26-2007 at 06:58 PM.
08-26-2007 at 06:58 PM.
Quote from zmarko :
I know my moobs are scared.
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handyguy
10-18-2007 at 03:54 PM.
10-18-2007 at 03:54 PM.
'Oh, and yes, my girls will be vaccinated when they get to the appropriate age also. '

Why not your boys too?

I had a lady tell me that she has HPV & was undergoing the operations for it. I stood by her through that but no dipping the wick. HPV also affects men......
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crazygrow
10-18-2007 at 04:09 PM.
10-18-2007 at 04:09 PM.
How in the world did I miss this thread for seven months?

Wow, Goalie. Sucks for you. Too bad you aren't around here anymore. Hopefully the warts haven't shown up by now...
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hawaiiandawn
10-18-2007 at 04:13 PM.
10-18-2007 at 04:13 PM.
Why would these even be a question in someone's mind?
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10-18-2007 at 04:28 PM.
10-18-2007 at 04:28 PM.
Who would say NO to this question?

I think being honest with your partners is important. HPV isn't a death sentence by any means, but I think people have a right to know if they are going to be exposed to it.

Wouldn't you want to know?
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ame2005
10-18-2007 at 08:05 PM.
10-18-2007 at 08:05 PM.
Quote from crazygrow :
How in the world did I miss this thread for seven months?

Wow, Goalie. Sucks for you. Too bad you aren't around here anymore. Hopefully the warts haven't shown up by now...
not all strains cause warts. actually very few of them (like 2 maybe) do.
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PHISH88
10-18-2007 at 09:59 PM.
10-18-2007 at 09:59 PM.
It's not pap testing, it's pap smear.
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10-18-2007 at 10:01 PM.
10-18-2007 at 10:01 PM.
Quote from PHISH88 :
It's not pap testing, it's pap smear.
same thing.
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05-08-2009 at 06:31 AM.
05-08-2009 at 06:31 AM.
Who is/was "guest2"? Dontknow
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zmarko
05-08-2009 at 06:33 AM.
05-08-2009 at 06:33 AM.
Nice bump. Roll
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