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May 23, 2007 at
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My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday 
HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
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1. I think people might be seeing it as a game cuz you ended your post with "HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!"...so it's like you won something, kinda like fishing which is considered a game.
2.FYI to ALL men....WOMEN don't sit by the phone waiting for you to call, some of us actually have better things to do in those 3-7 days that you debate when it is or is not "too soon" to call us.
3. If I like a guy I'm going to call him weither he calls me or not, and if he didnt give me his number then he's not worth my time.
4. If there needs to be a RULE then nothing in the relationship will ever last or be real. Men just need to be themselves and cutout the BS. And if the women is so stuck on herself that if bothers her what day you call then she probally is not worth the trouble to begin with.
AND lastly your "dating method" is not really a dating method, more of your idea on how men think they need to pick up a chick. And also if this "Method" works so well and you've used it many of times, then why are you still single and looking for a date using the same "method"?? In other words maybe someone needs to post a dating "How to KEEP a women "method""
(nothing to do with you being married before, sometimes shit dont work out. I was referring to other then that ex)
"because I choose to be" ?
at no point have I thought during this that a woman is sitting on the other end in a chair waiting for her phone to ring, never crossed my mind in the slightest. and men can cut out the BS/games we play when women cut the BS/games they play. its not a one way street kiddo.
2. I understand that, but it's still in the back of your mind, and that's what i meant when I said that.
3. I agree
4. I agree 100%
comments after that: I see where he's coming from, and I don't agree with you. It's not a way to get in the sack with her, it's a way to get a 2nd date (in his mind).
2. NO, some "women" really are too busy...
3. yes
4.and yes
Now the comments after that no way meant he was trying to get anyone in the sack. Just saying long term wise dating. BUT if it's only to get a second date then I agree it is fairly harmless and best of luck with it.
2. I understand that, but it's still in the back of your mind, and that's what i meant when I said that.
3. I agree
4. I agree 100%
comments after that: I see where he's coming from, and I don't agree with you. It's not a way to get in the sack with her, it's a way to get a 2nd date (in his mind).
Do your own thing. Be an asshole. Put it in someones butt. Whatever works for you.
The girls on this forum forget that they all liked guys who were assholes. The girls who say they didnt like asshole guys are just kidding themselves.
and, its been a while, but i do remember commenting that Cav's ex-wife was too hot for him, so take it with a grain of salt
And I've said before, and I'll say it again. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and they all stink.
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"because I choose to be" ?
at no point have I thought during this that a woman is sitting on the other end in a chair waiting for her phone to ring, never crossed my mind in the slightest. and men can cut out the BS/games we play when women cut the BS/games they play. its not a one way street kiddo.
And as far as choosing to be. I don't blame you..
Also I do agree but also dissagree to your last sentance. Because WOMEN are worse then men...lol...I wouldn't want to be a guy trying to get a date in this world today. Forget it, there are some nasty, nasty women out there(attitude wise) And it's those women that make guys think they need a plan or method or whatever. But the good ones really dont give a shit how you go about it, just that you do call period.
Now in my above post I didnt realize this was just about getting a second date, after reading this whole thread I think that point got lost. SO sorry if I offended you.
I wish you the best of luck with this one or another one, with or without methods..ect..
And I've said before, and I'll say it again. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one and they all stink.
And as far as choosing to be. I don't blame you..
Also I do agree but also dissagree to your last sentance. Because WOMEN are worse then men...lol...I wouldn't want to be a guy trying to get a date in this world today. Forget it, there are some nasty, nasty women out there(attitude wise) And it's those women that make guys think they need a plan or method or whatever. But the good ones really dont give a shit how you go about it, just that you do call period.
Now in my above post I didnt realize this was just about getting a second date, after reading this whole thread I think that point got lost. SO sorry if I offended you.
I wish you the best of luck with this one or another one, with or without methods..ect..
And to whoever said us women dated aholes before, yes we did and where did it get us???
So I guess I was just always the type who wasnt going to bother with a guy who couldn't give me his number (too many married, liars ect...) But I do have/had a lot of guy friends who got burned by some nasty chicks, so I know how it can be.
We never told Cav to be ass kisser and call her 10 minutes after the date, and smoother her. (he's the one that said that's what he DIDN'T want to do). We told Cav to be honest and straight out, and call her if he liked her, not play games with her.
And yes, I agree some women do like ass holes, but where did it get them? It's a nice play toy, but then they get married to the nice guys.
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And, how is it that my theory is ignorant and nonsensical? Compared to the "man-laws", it's actually a mature way of thinking versus a childish game. Also, please note that I'm NOT making a commentary on your strategy...but rather, on the whole "game" as a whole. Of course, I''m well-versed on its points!
Furthermore, in stating that the ploy has worked at times and not at other times, don't you think it may be due to the mere fact that the other person didn't like you (or your friend)? Also, don't you think that the girl is well aware of the "man-laws on dating". So, it only looks like you're immature and an amateur if you're abiding by it faithfully. For example, my sister and her friends were teasing her fiancee when talk of their first dates came up and my sister told everyone how her fiancee followed the "3-day rule". To women, it's a silly joke and they ridicule guys who abide by it....just to let you know!
So, don't think I'm attacking you because I'm not.