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28,148 544 May 23, 2007 at 09:32 AM in Finance (12)
My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday nod

HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
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Ram|bunc|tious
05-23-2007 at 06:34 PM.
05-23-2007 at 06:34 PM.
Sounds great! Well, except for the job part. If you were a woman, you'd be gainfully employed in MA someplace! Evillaugh
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jl.parrish
05-23-2007 at 06:39 PM.
05-23-2007 at 06:39 PM.
Quote from Ram|bunc|tious :
Sounds great! Well, except for the job part. If you were a woman, you'd be gainfully employed in MA someplace! Evillaugh
Other than the games and all in the lounge, I think this is the most popular thread I have seen yet. Will it never end Dontknow
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R.G.
05-23-2007 at 06:39 PM.
05-23-2007 at 06:39 PM.
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nothing surpasses the wisdom in this thread rammy. NOTHING.
what wisdom Dontknow
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05-23-2007 at 06:42 PM.
05-23-2007 at 06:42 PM.
Quote from shuriken :
that is like 101 level....i could bring my D(maybe C?) game and still pull that. Frown

now to TRY to find someone worthy of my A game....

Sadwalk Sadwalk Sadwalk Sadwalk
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not worth my time silly azn...

4 words and then you can talk to me

GET ON MY LEVEL
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*JeanGrey*
05-23-2007 at 06:45 PM.
05-23-2007 at 06:45 PM.
wow, i miss a lot sometimes by not reading every thread.
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Fallacy
05-23-2007 at 06:59 PM.
05-23-2007 at 06:59 PM.
Quote from jlparrish76 :
Other than the games and all in the lounge, I think this is the most popular thread I have seen yet. Will it never end Dontknow
Nope, there was a thread a while back about porn, and whether it's healthy for a relationship or not, it went on forever and ever, but was really interesting.

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wow, i miss a lot sometimes by not reading every thread.
nod
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05-23-2007 at 07:14 PM.
05-23-2007 at 07:14 PM.
Quote from caveney :
better than same vagina for ever and EVER.
Iagree laugh out loud laugh out loud laugh out loud z2g is a baller too....he should file divorce and get back into the game. Big Grin
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Fallacy
05-23-2007 at 07:21 PM.
05-23-2007 at 07:21 PM.
Quote from shuriken :
Iagree laugh out loud laugh out loud laugh out loud z2g is a baller too....he should file divorce and get back into the game. Big Grin
and let me guess you fall into the same category -- male, young, single. hmm.... Scratchhead coincidence?
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LukesMama
05-23-2007 at 07:24 PM.
05-23-2007 at 07:24 PM.
Quote from z2g :
Believe me, when a female likes you (and they can be the HOTTEST woman in the world or the girl next door), you don't have to play these games. In the real world, mature women start looking for less superficial qualities in men (guy has to be hot, cool, a bad boy, etc.) and start wanting more important qualities (maturity, responsibility, compassion, sensitivity, being established, thoughtfulness, being a gentlemen, etc.).

I know that many guys swear by these "man-laws" regarding women. And, they often do work. However, note that they only work with immature girls (and I emphasize the word "girl"). With ALL the "studs" I've known in my life (and I've had many friends who fit the profile), they are all now single in their late 30's/early 40's. They are lonely and regretful of the mistakes they've made in life with their past women. ALL OF THEM have the same epiphany--that is, many of the women that loved them were "The One" and they threw it away due to their selfishness and childishness.

So, for the girls who fall for these ploys, I'd rather not date them anyways!
Spoken like a true gentleman. I totally agree with everything you just said.

Caveney: We don't have to call it a "game" as you keep pointing out as not what you are playing, but rather your "method" of keeping the ladies coming back. Any way you wish to phrase it, it's really something that someone who is still on the young side of maturity handles dating. You could get hit by a bus tomorrow and missed your "day to call" and die without enjoying that second date laugh out loud! Just because you call her the next day and talk for more than 3 minutes doesn't mean you're smothering her and she will be turned off. All it means is you are intersted and that is why you are calling her.

You state that many times it is she who calls you back ~ so do you now think that because they are calling you back inquiring as to when you had wanted to get together that they are desperate?

Kudos to you if you think that your "methods" work and are a necessary part of your dating world. But after a certain age and maturity, it's really all about being honest and calling just because you want to without a waiting period.
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*JeanGrey*
05-23-2007 at 07:35 PM.
05-23-2007 at 07:35 PM.
I tried to read this but I just can't read it all. Everyone is trying to analyze waaaaaaaaay too much. Just be yourself. If "yourself" is having a method or playing games, or if it means no BS and straight up, then you will eventually find someone who is perfect for you. People see through you when you try to be someone you're not. If you're a guy who's trying to date and you don't feel the need for games but try it anyway, it's not going to work. Be yourself, plain and simple.
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ahnil8er
05-23-2007 at 07:49 PM.
05-23-2007 at 07:49 PM.
just make sure, on your second date, that you PIITB and never talk to her again.

then i will be happy.
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priority0ne
05-23-2007 at 08:00 PM.
05-23-2007 at 08:00 PM.
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thegoalie's dating system: Show her my car. HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
This used to work for me when I had a beat to crap 14 year old porsche -- I was shocked, I always felt like I had to apologize for that thing.
I have a new bimmer now and I swear it is chick repellent. I have to hide it on dates. Or lie. "My car? Its a Toyota 335i" Big Grin
I'll be peeling the insignias off soon.

What car do you have?
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jl.parrish
05-23-2007 at 08:03 PM.
05-23-2007 at 08:03 PM.
Reaper just passing through
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05-23-2007 at 08:06 PM.
05-23-2007 at 08:06 PM.
Quote from caveney :
My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday nod

HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
Weird, my boyfriend said that works too (He didn't do that with me)
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05-23-2007 at 08:08 PM.
05-23-2007 at 08:08 PM.
Quote from caveney :
My Method: after date numero uno: wait no less than 3 days before calling. [i]I went out monday last week, called her sunday. Always make first conversation after first date brief (2-3 minutes TOPS). I said had great time wednesday, how about yourself, quick small talk, and ended with a nice "hope we can get together again sometime soon if ya interested". she ends with a most definitely and said I would call her in a few days. NEVER call back less than AT LEAST a week, typically if they dont call by then, they arent/werent interested. Basically putting the ball somewhat in their court if they really want to get together SOONER rather than LATER. She called back today and said, "hey you never said when you want to get together again." Date 2 saturday nod

HOOK and FKIN SINKERED!
I think this will work for desperate/easily manipulated women.

Top-shelf girls don't put up with game playing. Cool
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