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So My Wife Moved In With Her Boyfriend... (Update #211)

8,512 793 August 12, 2007 at 12:02 AM in Sporting Goods
Well you can call her Strike Three cuz she is outta here!

The U-Haul came this morning. Since he doesn't want to tell his friends about me (she was told to lie and say she's been divorced for a couple of years), it was only him, her and me to load up the truck. I had all the boxes and furniture in the garage. Only the pictures and breakable stuff were in the house. I helped him load up the U-Haul (and we packed it full) without so much as a Thank You. Roll Eyes (Sarcastic) She has a real winner there.

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StarNova
08-12-2007 at 04:32 AM.
08-12-2007 at 04:32 AM.
You're a good guy, OP. She's a twit and always will be. She's looking for greener pastures and eventually she'll take another lover and dump the guy she's with now. She's never be happy with what she has.

I agree with the other posters....Did you change your locks? And make sure to change beneficiaries on all your insurance (life, car, medical) and retirement accounts once your lawyer gives the all clear. Last thing you want is her getting $ that should go to your kids.

Make sure her name is off of everything. And you'd be surprised how much there is to have removed. Go thru everything. And have the lawyer double check.

And get yourself an attorney whose half pitbull that will look out for your interests. Your soon to be ex will hurt you in a minute if she can (well she allready has)

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sullen-girl
08-12-2007 at 04:37 AM.
08-12-2007 at 04:37 AM.
Quote from jon41042 :
Why is everyone telling him he shouldn't have helped? Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
So basically it would be ok for him to date while married, screw around, and then expect her to help him move? NO WAY!

I'm glad she's gone, for your sake. When are you filing divorce papers? They would have already been served if I had that happen.
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zmarko
08-12-2007 at 04:39 AM.
08-12-2007 at 04:39 AM.
Quote from redjen910 :
Please tell me that you've changed the locks in case he decides to try to return her.
Rofl2


Quote from Pizzaguru :
[B] Also, I'm don't know where you live, so I don't know if it is the same for you ..... BUT in NC, if a spouse cheats and leaves the marriage for another person, the injured party (you) can get sole custody of the kids, child support payments from the ex (until the kids graduate from college) and ALIMONY for as long as the injured party (you) remains unmarried. SO, you need to check with a GOOD divorce attorney in your state ASAP!!!!! Divorce hurts, but court ordered revenge is SWEET!!!!! AND you can sue HIM for damages!!!!!!! Which is even SWEETER!!!!!!
They call it alienation of affection, I believe.




PS---I'm glad she's out of your life Stealth. Time to start anew!
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AggieMom
08-12-2007 at 05:55 AM.
08-12-2007 at 05:55 AM.
It takes a strong person to not make a scene during a messy move-out. Well done, sir.

When I broke up with my ex (boyfriend, not husband - and no cheating was involved) he sat on the lawn in a chair and drank beer while watching the grad students I'd conned into helping me move load the truck. Real classy guy, that one.Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
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caveat depascor
08-12-2007 at 06:44 AM.
08-12-2007 at 06:44 AM.
Good luck to you and your children, Stealth. Keeping a positive attitude will go a long way toward coming out of this whole.
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Pig
08-12-2007 at 07:02 AM.
08-12-2007 at 07:02 AM.
Here's wishing you the best Stealth hug
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MrTvguy
08-12-2007 at 07:34 AM.
08-12-2007 at 07:34 AM.
Your better off single without that witch. Keep the spare room and have some fun.

Lifes too short to waste on a mental case
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stealth
08-12-2007 at 07:45 AM.
08-12-2007 at 07:45 AM.
Thanks everybody. Peace

I'm rearranging the house now. This is lots of work! But at least I'll have the place like I want it.

Dance13
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dstam015
08-12-2007 at 08:04 AM.
08-12-2007 at 08:04 AM.
Hang in there stealth! Hope things only get better from here on out for ya.

PS In the future if she ever tries coming crawling back to you. SHUT THE DOOR ON HER!
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JazzyMac
08-12-2007 at 09:57 AM.
08-12-2007 at 09:57 AM.
I'm sorry, I read the beginning of the other thread when op first started the poll, and stopped reading it because I knew he wasn't telling the entire story. Some people always try to make themselves look so great on the internet.

Or they both suffer from immaturity. Shrug.
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~Kimber~
08-12-2007 at 10:31 AM.
08-12-2007 at 10:31 AM.
Stealth, the way you handled this situation is amazing. You are a true class act. I hope when the time comes and you are ready again, you find someone that can truly love and appreciate you. hug
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08-12-2007 at 10:33 AM.
08-12-2007 at 10:33 AM.
stealth, based on your posts, you have done an amazing job keeping composure in all of this. i applaud you. good luck hug
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punkie
08-12-2007 at 10:35 AM.
08-12-2007 at 10:35 AM.
CONGRATS Dance14
wow I can't believe shes already moving in with him EEK! is their relationship just moving fast or was something going on for a long time Nono
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SlickChik
08-12-2007 at 10:45 AM.
08-12-2007 at 10:45 AM.
Quote from JazzyMac :
I'm sorry, I read the beginning of the other thread when op first started the poll, and stopped reading it because I knew he wasn't telling the entire story. Some people always try to make themselves look so great on the internet.

Or they both suffer from immaturity. Shrug.
You don't know the whole story either. Why call someone immature when you have no idea what happened?

You COULD just leave it at "no comment" and cut the drama


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Agent420
08-12-2007 at 01:13 PM.
08-12-2007 at 01:13 PM.
Quote from SlickChik :
I can't decide if you are crazy or just very secure laugh out loud

That's funny $hit right there...I've actually heard someone say this about me before. Made me sit back and think...nod

There's no way in hell I would have helped her and "the new guy" move out, unless she was just such a complete loss to begin with that you were excited to see her go...

I love reading you guys' posts in the lounge...cracks me up...
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