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Relationship Help

151 21 February 19, 2013 at 07:25 PM in Chat (2)
It has been a while since I've been in a relationship with someone, like four years. I met a girl online via online dating site and really thought I hit it off. She's attractive and has an interesting personality. I got her number last night and we've been communicating since then. Two questions:
I asked if she wanted to meet, response: "Maybe Smilie"
How am I supposed to take that? Good/bad?

Also, earlier when we first met, she mentioned she's not the best at asking questions (ain't that the truth). So, I've been asking her some questions and been getting one word answers in return. Is this good/bad/neutral?

I don't want to screw this relationship up. Advice please?
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user2049276
02-20-2013 at 05:43 PM.
02-20-2013 at 05:43 PM.
It's official, she's 100% legit. Gave me her Skype name which happens to be her first and last name. Found her on Facebook, has about 500 Facebook friends, some being mutual. About to video chat.
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LC2
02-20-2013 at 06:33 PM.
02-20-2013 at 06:33 PM.
The SD Lounge accepts all major credit cards and thanks you for using it's world class counseling services.
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02-20-2013 at 07:05 PM.
02-20-2013 at 07:05 PM.
Quote from LC2 :
The SD Lounge accepts all major credit cards and thanks you for using it's world class counseling services.
The SD Lounge is being overrun by Squilly's Emotionah Help bounceThumbsup
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new33
02-20-2013 at 08:28 PM.
02-20-2013 at 08:28 PM.
500 fb friends , 450 are guys?

yep

also for future reference try CL "casual encounters " section , its either free or 30 "roses" per half hour.
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teenbean
02-21-2013 at 05:30 AM.
02-21-2013 at 05:30 AM.
Quote from tennisplayer888 :
I find that so funny... LOL, I have never video chatted before, so I am finding it a bit amusing. No offense, I am not making fun or you or anything, but I guess we can relate in a way, although you took your method with the internet, my issues were always in real-life/reality. I have used facetime before, dont know if that counts but it was with my parents.
You have never called girl either, so we certainly wouldn't expect you to have video chatted with one. I try to facetime with Biker once a week.
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02-21-2013 at 06:40 AM.
02-21-2013 at 06:40 AM.
Quote from new33 :
500 fb friends , 450 are guys?

yep

also for future reference try CL "casual encounters " section , its either free or 30 "roses" per half hour.
No, quite a lot of them are girls.
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jj.12321
02-21-2013 at 07:20 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:20 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
It's official, she's 100% legit. Gave me her Skype name which happens to be her first and last name. Found her on Facebook, has about 500 Facebook friends, some being mutual. About to video chat.
So, when's the date?
We also want a report on how the first date went .. good luck.
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Bareborn
02-21-2013 at 07:20 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:20 AM.
Tell her you got a job at best buy, you have frozen pizzas, and you have a condom. If those 3 things do NOT get you this girl...you're done at life. Reset
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teenbean
02-21-2013 at 07:21 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:21 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
It's official, she's 100% legit. Gave me her Skype name which happens to be her first and last name. Found her on Facebook, has about 500 Facebook friends, some being mutual. About to video chat.

How was the chat?
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02-21-2013 at 07:41 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:41 AM.
Quote from teenbean :
How was the chat?
We didn't chat. Well, she was on Skype, but I bailed out of video chatting. Didn't feel right. I mean really, wouldn't you like to see someone in person for the first time instead of via the Internet on camera?
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Bareborn
02-21-2013 at 07:44 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:44 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
We didn't chat. Well, she was on Skype, but I bailed out of video chatting. Didn't feel right. I mean really, wouldn't you like to see someone in person for the first time instead of via the Internet on camera?
Phs just have your penner in your hand and the camera pointing at your crotch. First impressions only happen once!!!
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02-21-2013 at 07:46 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:46 AM.
Quote from Bareborn :
Phs just have your penner in your hand and the camera pointing at your crotch. First impressions only happen once!!!
First impressions should happen IRL. She says she has class then work every day. Makes it nearly impossible to meet.
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Bareborn
02-21-2013 at 07:47 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:47 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
First impressions should happen IRL. She says she has class then work every day. Makes it nearly impossible to meet.
Then say these two words "good bye"
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02-21-2013 at 07:47 AM.
02-21-2013 at 07:47 AM.
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Then say these two words "good bye"
But I like her Frown
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Maleficent
02-21-2013 at 08:00 AM.
02-21-2013 at 08:00 AM.
Quote from Squilly :
But I like her Frown
Why?!

She has absolutely nothing to say! You can't get her to talk about anything, she's busy all the time. What could you possibly like about her?

Seriously, dating is awkward enough without having to date someone you practically have to force conversation with. You're a teenager, there will be other girls. Hopefully. laugh out loud
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