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so, peeps, if you dont believe in god, do you feel that ones that do are delusional?

a lot of people will sight karma or other things as 'he got what he had coming' but i argue that it's all a mathematical randomness that on a small scale might seem like karma

perfect example is: when you play poker and u push with the best hand, a LOT of times, you can predict/be so sure that the card will come that will beat you even if the chance of it coming is less than 1:6. when the card comes, some might argue it as karma, but i argue that its all random, just on a small scale randomness doesn't work

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killerbootsman
12-03-2007 at 06:16 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:16 PM.
Quote from BrgnHntr :
Well, I believe that you have to believe in Jesus and that he was who he said he was to accept his gift (death on the cross in our place to pay for our sins). It's that gift that takes away our imperfections and allows us to take a place in Heaven.

To be blunt, yes I do believe if you were in a car accident tomorrow (as horrible as that souns to say) that you would not go to heaven. I'm not sure exactly what hell entails, but that is what I believe your fate would be. That's part of the reason that I feel led to talk about my experiences when I have the opportunity or someone asks. I want them to have that chance to know God.

That said: Just because I believe that, you do not have to be angry at me. I'm not forcing you to believe that. If you don't believe it's true, it should have no more impact on you than me saying that the boogie man's gonna get you.
I could go to Mass 5 times a week, read the Bible daily, proclaim Jesus as the savior, and pray to God daily, but I would only be doing it out of fear of Hell rather than to have a spiritual connection with God. 'm sure that is not what God wants, so would he still banish me to eternal damnation? I believe the one thing you cannot force yourself to do is believe. As much as you tell me there is magic midget flying around the night sky handing out Snickers bars to those that believe in him, I can't believe in him until he comes to me personally and gives me a Snickers bar.

So wouldn't this mean without your life altercating experience, along with SlicKitty's, that us three would all be going to Hell? Why is it that God chooses to reveal himself to you two, but not to me and some others?
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12-03-2007 at 06:23 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:23 PM.
BrgnHntr, thanks for telling us your story (sorry took me a while to read).

I have had great things happen to me, which I attributed to either my personal achievements,luck or both. I've also had a LOT of bad things happen, I attributed those to bad luck.
IMO life is like a zebra, it has it's white stripes and it's black stripes, and all of them could be large or small and in any order (just like a zebra).

About this next comment, I'm not sure. I believe that things COULD happen for a reason (i.e. a higher being, but probably not what people see god as). It depends on my mood, sometimes I believe this, other days I think there is no god at all.... thus sometimes I do believe that things happen for a reason, or other times I think that they happen out of concidence and then you either get lucky or screwed.

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Can you tell me why is it a requesite to believe in and praise God in order to be "saved"?
You mentioned just a paragraph earlier that God was a merciful being... Why shouldn't he grant mercy to those who didn't believe in him? I HAVE NEVER HAD ANY CONNECTION WITH GOD. Does that mean when I die tomorrow in a fiery car accident, I will be doomed to Hell because I could never find God?
That's what I was getting at in post #220. We don't know what god thinks, god could be the most compasionate "thing" out there, and doesn't care if you're religious or not, and would still send you to heaven as long as you led a good life. OHO god could be very cynical and mean, and unless you follow his specif religion (Judiasm/Christianity/Budhism/Muslimism(?)/etc) you're going to hell.
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12-03-2007 at 06:24 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:24 PM.
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Can you tell me why is it a requesite to believe in and praise God in order to be "saved"?
You mentioned just a paragraph earlier that God was a merciful being... Why shouldn't he grant mercy to those who didn't believe in him? I HAVE NEVER HAD ANY CONNECTION WITH GOD. Does that mean when I die tomorrow in a fiery car accident, I will be doomed to Hell because I could never find God?
Killer - you never had any connection w/ God because YOU choose not to... Not because God didn't want you to. God gave us the freedom to choose....

Either way (and this one is to Pirate) -> its not a scare tactic... It's only a scary thing to face when you are faced with it. If you find salvation in God, then its not a scary thing at all... Its only scary when you face eternity void of God... And thus from your point of view it is scary - and it SHOULD be.

To be honest... I've got NOTHING at all to GAIN from any of you believing in God. I don't get a "green" point - I don't get a financial advantage, I don't get a coffee mug saying "I've led x number of people to God" (though that would be a great Christmas present laugh out loud , j/k)...

What's in it for me if you believe in God or not??? NOTHING... I guess why am I even trying to convince anyone...

It's simple. Get saved, believe in God = happy ending. Don't believe in God = not happy ending... Whether you believe its a scare tactic or not, I'm not the one that's going to be scared right before dying thinking to myself (I really hope I was right and there is no God)...

If nothing at all, all I ask from ANY of you is to THINK about it..... Just put some forethought into the matter. What have you to loose by believing in God? Not only that, it will make you a better person... It WILL better you.

Think about how you will feel not knowing what will happen to you if you were to die... Just put yourself in your OWN shoes. Let's say you're on your deathbed, you have maybe an hour left of life... What are going to be the actual thoughts running through your head? What will you do? To be honest, to go into the unknown, knowing that you might have been "wrong" IS a scary thing (for me it is anyways)....
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12-03-2007 at 06:31 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:31 PM.
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Killer - you never had any connection w/ God because YOU choose not to... Not because God didn't want you to. God gave us the freedom to choose....
I guess that is where we differ in opinion. I believe, no matter how much of the "act" you put on (praying, going to church, reading the bible) you cannot just say "hey, I believe in God...cool". If that was the case, I'll just say it right now for an insurance policy for my ticket into Heavenlaugh out loud . I think to actually "believe" in God and have a spiritual connection with him, some divine spark must be ignited within you. This has yet to happen with me.

I'm not sure if I would want to believe in God that would punish you with an infinite amount of suffering for the sole reason that you couldn't obtain His divine spark.
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12-03-2007 at 06:33 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:33 PM.
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If nothing at all, all I ask from ANY of you is to THINK about it..... Just put some forethought into the matter. What have you to loose by believing in God? Not only that, it will make you a better person... It WILL better you.
I try to better myself everyday (and obviously I don't believe in god). So I have nothing to really gain (in this life), but I have something to lose -- time. Time spend on worshiping god, time spend on praying, money spend on the churches, etc.

if there is an after life, and god will only accept those that believed in him (and not those who were good in their lifetimes), then I'm going to hell.

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Think about how you will feel not knowing what will happen to you if you were to die... Just put yourself in your OWN shoes. Let's say you're on your deathbed, you have maybe an hour left of life... What are going to be the actual thoughts running through your head? What will you do? To be honest, to go into the unknown, knowing that you might have been "wrong" IS a scary thing (for me it is anyways)....
TBH if I had an hour left to live, I'd probably say a prayer (even though I don't know any). Like I said I'm agnostic, not atheist, so if I had an hour left to live, I might spend 5 minutes to say a prayer or something FOR THE CHANCE THAT THERE IS A GOD. Would I spend more than that on it? no, because I still wouldn't BELIEVE there is a god.

why don't I spend time now praying: you could call it being egotistical - I have no evidence there is a god, so I'd rather not spend my time on something I don't believe in.
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12-03-2007 at 06:37 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:37 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
That's what I was getting at in post #220. We don't know what god thinks, god could be the most compasionate "thing" out there, and doesn't care if you're religious or not, and would still send you to heaven as long as you led a good life. OHO god could be very cynical and mean, and unless you follow his specif religion (Judiasm/Christianity/Budhism/Muslimism(?)/etc) you're going to hell.
Would you allow strangers to attend your wedding banquet and feast on all that was prepared for you and your bride, allow them to crash your joyous occasion not knowing who they are, where they come from, if they're morally right? Probably not. So too, if you do not have a relationship with God, why should He acknowledge you just because it benefits you at the end of your life to try to do so? The point is to lead a life befitting your desire of having a relationship with God. To do less than that is akin to snubbing Him because it seemed as though it would be a terrible inconvenience for you. Why should He bother with you when you haven't taken the time to bother with Him?
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12-03-2007 at 06:40 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:40 PM.
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Why do people call "faith" as something that you have to try and make yourself believe in when there is hard evidence to back it up... And I've listed evidence above to put the evolution theory that it took millions/billions of years for living things to "evolve" out of pudding... The Carbon dating on that diamond proves that it is less than 58,000 years old; not nearly enough time for evolution to be correct on the origin of species...

But if science even gives evidence to the fact that we were actually "intelligently designed" - why would that be faith?

Let me ask this question arj. Why do you have to have "faith" in gravity? You can't see it, or touch it. Yet you know its there - because there is evidence (scientific) to prove it. Therefore, its not your faith in gravity - but rather your belief that brings it home to you...

I personally believe that if you look, you will find - and then you can believe w/ more than just faith... The trick to it is you have to look beyond just what you want to see, and look from a point of view that God DOES exist; and you will find evidence to back it up. If you look from the point of view that God does NOT exist, then you will only see what you want yourself to see.
i can test gravity. drop a ball. drop something else. go to the moon. drop something. they act in a specifc repeated predictible way based off the mass of the planet. that's scientific method. make a hypothesis, test it.

that doesn't work with faith based creationism. you can't test things when the basis is as far as our current understanding on how the universe there's no other logical explanation than someone had to make it.

i broguth it up in another thread.. but like the ancient greeks who came up with gods to answer every question. how did the earth stay up? well a god held it on his shoulders. how did thunder happen? a god gets mad and throws them down. science explained how both of those things happen by an explanation accepted by most of the world.

if (big if, but just for argument sake) we find a series of well preserved fossils that show exactly how evolution of man happened from apes. what then?


dr j> i don't think religion was used to control people at the begining. all the major religions stress living a good life. its jsut societies nature to figure out things. hamurabi's code was thousands of years before christ. it still found killing to be wrong. however, it was used that way quickly afterwards.
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12-03-2007 at 06:43 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:43 PM.
Quote from Peachyum :
Would you allow strangers to attend your wedding banquet and feast on all that was prepared for you and your bride, allow them to crash your joyous occasion not knowing who they are, where they come from, if they're morally right? Probably not. So too, if you do not have a relationship with God, why should He acknowledge you just because it benefits you at the end of your life to try to do so? The point is to lead a life befitting your desire of having a relationship with God. To do less than that is akin to snubbing Him because it seemed as though it would be a terrible inconvenience for you. Why should He bother with you when you haven't taken the time to bother with Him?
Then again, what if these "wedding guests" realized they were wrong after the wedding started, and intended to behave in a civilized fashion? Would you still not allow them in the wedding? Or would you let them in?

Would an infinitely merciful God?

I think so.
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12-03-2007 at 06:47 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:47 PM.
Quote from Peachyum :
Would you allow strangers to attend your wedding banquet and feast on all that was prepared for you and your bride, allow them to crash your joyous occasion not knowing who they are, where they come from, if they're morally right? Probably not. So too, if you do not have a relationship with God, why should He acknowledge you just because it benefits you at the end of your life to try to do so? The point is to lead a life befitting your desire of having a relationship with God. To do less than that is akin to snubbing Him because it seemed as though it would be a terrible inconvenience for you. Why should He bother with you when you haven't taken the time to bother with Him?
I do agree with your logic completely. BUT the way a lot of religions portray god to be is forgiving, a great "thing", understanding, merciful, etc.

All Most of his laws are to "better" a person. Agree? (I would say all, but I don't know all of them)

That's what I don't understand -- how can "he" be forgiving and compassionate and want you to better yourself and be merciful, but ONLY to the people who believe in him. What about those who are agnostic -- they never said they don't believe in him, just that they're not sure if he exists or not... So they should be punished even if they bettered their lives and lived by MOST of his laws, but never believed in him?

somewhat hypocritical IMHO.
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12-03-2007 at 06:47 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:47 PM.
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I agree with the snipped part of the post, I don't completely agree with the last part. I think it should be as below (there are 4 cases)

--If you didn't believe in god, and there was no god -- nothing gained, nothing lost.
--If you didn't believe in god, and there was a god -- you lost EVERYTHING (assuming god is going to look ONLY at the fact whether you believed or not, and NOT on the fact of how you lived your life.)
--If you did believe in god, and there was no god -- nothing gained, but you lost the time you spend while living your life praising god. Yes some good things did come out of it -- in most cases you became a better person. In some cases people tithe or pay the church or etc, and then they lost money.
--If you did believe in god, and there was a god -- then you won EVERYTHING, period.

Yes the gain is probably somewhat greater than the loss, in all 4 of the above cases, but that still wont make me believe in god. (too many if's and but's).

*sorry to those that take offense that I type God and religions in lower case, it's not a statement that I'm protesting it (maybe subconsciously it is...) I'm just lazy.



I tried to make that post as unbiased as I could Big Grin

As to the things that can not be explained by science, it could be one of two things:
1. We don't have the resources to explain them YET (and possibly never will).
2. God.

I'm not denying the existence of god, I think I'm on the same page as Mav, unless you can prove it to me, I don't believe, but if you can prove it to me, you'll have a believer.
don't forget option #5 (and well 6). you believe in the wrong god. maybe its not a christian god, but allah, or a a jewish god. you could be spending your life doing thigns contradicting what the true god wished.
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12-03-2007 at 06:51 PM.
12-03-2007 at 06:51 PM.
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don't forget option #5 (and well 6). you believe in the wrong god. maybe its not a christian god, but allah, or a a jewish god. you could be spending your life doing thigns contradicting what the true god wished.
Good point.
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12-03-2007 at 07:01 PM.
12-03-2007 at 07:01 PM.
Quote from IVIax :
I do agree with your logic completely. BUT the way a lot of religions portray god to be is forgiving, a great "thing", understanding, merciful, etc.

All Most of his laws are to "better" a person. Agree? (I would say all, but I don't know all of them)

That's what I don't understand -- how can "he" be forgiving and compassionate and want you to better yourself and be merciful, but ONLY to the people who believe in him. What about those who are agnostic -- they never said they don't believe in him, just that they're not sure if he exists or not... So they should be punished even if they bettered their lives and lived by MOST of his laws, but never believed in him?

somewhat hypocritical IMHO.
Iagree
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12-03-2007 at 07:04 PM.
12-03-2007 at 07:04 PM.
Quote from Peachyum :
Would you allow strangers to attend your wedding banquet and feast on all that was prepared for you and your bride, allow them to crash your joyous occasion not knowing who they are, where they come from, if they're morally right? Probably not. So too, if you do not have a relationship with God, why should He acknowledge you just because it benefits you at the end of your life to try to do so? The point is to lead a life befitting your desire of having a relationship with God. To do less than that is akin to snubbing Him because it seemed as though it would be a terrible inconvenience for you. Why should He bother with you when you haven't taken the time to bother with Him?
We can only hope that a God that would stoop down to such a human tit-for-tat system doesn't exist. If God is all-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving, wouldn't he want to take the initiative of forming a relationship with his sons and daughters so he could make them better people?
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12-03-2007 at 07:05 PM.
12-03-2007 at 07:05 PM.
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We can only hope that a God that would stoop down to such a human tit-for-tat system doesn't exist. If God is all-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving, wouldn't he want to take the initiative of forming a relationship with his sons and daughters?
^^This makes a lot of sense to me... Smilie
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12-03-2007 at 07:05 PM.
12-03-2007 at 07:05 PM.
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We can only hope that a God that would stoop down to such a human tit-for-tat system doesn't exist. If God is all-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving, wouldn't he want to take the initiative of forming a relationship with his sons and daughters so he could make them better people?
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^^This makes a lot of sense to me... Smilie
Iagree I think the 3 of us were trying to say the same thing, but in different words.
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