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so, peeps, if you dont believe in god, do you feel that ones that do are delusional?

a lot of people will sight karma or other things as 'he got what he had coming' but i argue that it's all a mathematical randomness that on a small scale might seem like karma

perfect example is: when you play poker and u push with the best hand, a LOT of times, you can predict/be so sure that the card will come that will beat you even if the chance of it coming is less than 1:6. when the card comes, some might argue it as karma, but i argue that its all random, just on a small scale randomness doesn't work

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12-04-2007 at 11:06 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:06 AM.
Quote from IVIax :
I hate to bring the same argument back up, but if you were looking for him and you found him, maybe you WANTED to find him, and what could otherwise be attributed as luck or coincidence, or anything else, you attributed it to god (again because you were looking to find god).

If god showed himself to those NOT looking (the skeptics), that would be something else....
(I tried reading everything I missed...but I'm skipping ahead now Smilie)


You're right. I could attribute it to something else if I wanted. All I can say is that I feel different - call me crazy if you want, but I swear he's with me. Experiences I've had don't make sense to me otherwise (like knowing about my husband's job 2 weeks ahead of time). I wish I could explain the feeling better, but I don't know how.
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12-04-2007 at 11:08 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:08 AM.
Quote from IVIax :
I'm obviously biased, but I like Killerbootsman analogy better. The friend anaolgy you can at least feel/see/hear/touch/poke/smell the friend, and if he doesn't want to be your friend he'll either ignore you (but you can still see him) or he'll tell you. God doesn't tell you anything, so it is more like a tit-for-tat kind of thing.

Also, if god is merciful, even if you stopped trying, he should still let you into heaven. Everyone makes mistakes.



wait... I'm confused by what you meant?
I mean he's been there with you...he's wanted you to look for him, to seek a relationship. But, if you don't turn away or just don't reach out...he moves on, doesn't force you. He'd come back if you wanted.
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12-04-2007 at 11:11 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:11 AM.
Quote from PiratesSayARRR :
This is the reason I do not like the christian faith. Because they are living a good life as a means to an end and not an end within itself. It's not because being good is intrinsically valuable its because the christians believe in an omnipotent being and he likes us to be good so we should do what he likes. I also believe it presents a cop out as well I was bad so I will repent.

That makes no sense to me whatsoever. I live my life good because I believe living a good life is intrinsically valuable. I don't have another agenda to adhere to. I live for myself and my fellow man.

Existentialism is something I strongly believe in.
I understand where you're coming from. It is your personal decision to choose whether or not you will "attend that wedding banquet," to use the symbolic words from the story. It's entirely your decision, and that is what the story illustrates. Whether or not you choose to believe the outcome is also your decision as well. God created you that way and He's not going to take that away from you. I also understand that this entire last paragraph is coming from a viewpoint that you don't agree with. laugh out loud

As for the idea that it may be a cop out, you're right. Some people do use it as a cop out. But I find this scripture extremely helpful to help those people understand that it isn't.

Quote from Hebrews 6:4-8 :
It is impossible for those who have once been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, who have shared in the Holy Spirit, who have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the powers of the coming age, if they fall away, to be brought back to repentance, because to their loss they are crucifying the Son of God all over again and subjecting him to public disgrace.

Land that drinks in the rain often falling on it and that produces a crop useful to those for whom it is farmed receives the blessing of God. But land that produces thorns and thistles is worthless and is in danger of being cursed. In the end it will be burned.
If you can see the message of this verse as well, it speaks of those who claim to know Christ and who have followed him, but continually take advantage of him by doing what they want to do and then saying, "Oops, I sinned. Please forgive me." And then they go right about their way, doing whatever they want. Those people won't go to heaven, it states. One must have the right heart... they must be sincere. That doesn't mean that they won't mess up, but when they do, they will be truly heartbroken over it. It will hurt them because they realize that it doesn't make God happy. And they will try harder the next time.

Once again, just explaining the Christian viewpoint on the issue. Smilie
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12-04-2007 at 11:12 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:12 AM.
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BTW I looked up that egosis and igosetic thing on google Thumbup


Again, thanks for the detailed write up, but I guess what makes it hard for me to believe/understand is the fact that I'm a very sciencey/logial type person. I'm also a touch type person (some people learn by seeing, some people learn by hearing, some people learn by touching, that's me), so this whole notion of "you have to believe in order to go to heaven" doesn't work for me, if god came down and said "you have to be good to go to heaven" (not the same words, I know) then I'd try my best to be good -- but just word of mouth, Nono2 I'm too skeptical for that since I can't actually touch (or even see) it.

And I still have a problem with god being portrayed as compassionate and merciful, but only if you believe. I understand the other side of the coin better now, but I still don't agree with it -- because in the passage that you showed, you showed what a HUMAN should/would do, but not what a GOD (who is said to be merciful) should do -- unless god is a lot more human than we thought, I still don't agree with it.
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12-04-2007 at 11:14 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:14 AM.
Quote from IVIax :
That goes back to the topic of -- how can you accept that which you cannot see/feel/hear/etc.?

IMO if that is the case then god is playing games with people -- you can't touch/feel/see/hear me, nah-nanananana Harhar, BUT I want you to believe in me or else you're not going to heaven Nono2. If he was truly merciful and forgiving, then he wouldn't care if you believed or not, he would take you to heaven if you led a good life, and to hell if you led a bad one.

Why is right for me to go commit 100,000 crimes against god, and then ask for forgiveness in a church and be forgiven and still go to heaven, but to someone who led a saint's life, but doesn't believe to go to hell?
I do see/feel...not hear so much as sense...you get the picture. I have definately seen God's presence...in many different forms. I tangibly feel him with me.

And it's not believing. Lots of people believe in God but want nothing to do with him. It's believing, accepting the gift of Jesus and continuing to seek him.

I completely understand the idea about a horrible person repenting on the death bed and a good person not and it doesn't seem fair. What I believe is that we all sin. Every single one of us. God doesn't weigh sins the way we do, they are all equal to him. Honestly, in his eye I'm the same as an axe murderer because I have done some bad things that are just as upsetting to him. The difference is that the first person you described asked for forgiveness so his slate was wiped clean. The second person had also sinned, but did not ask for forgiveness.
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12-04-2007 at 11:16 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:16 AM.
Quote from BrgnHntr :
(I tried reading everything I missed...but I'm skipping ahead now Smilie)


You're right. I could attribute it to something else if I wanted. All I can say is that I feel different - call me crazy if you want, but I swear he's with me. Experiences I've had don't make sense to me otherwise (like knowing about my husband's job 2 weeks ahead of time). I wish I could explain the feeling better, but I don't know how.
I'm not calling you or anyone else crazy, everyone has their beliefs and no one is going to convince one another (especially on an online forum) one way or another. I'm just curious about the other side of the coin (as PG says), I know a lot from both sides, but I'm always willing to learn (and argue my point).


This is an never ending loop. Back to my telepathy example. Or even better -- how does a mother feel when something is wrong with her child? can't be explained (TODAY, maybe in 100 years, we'll find out that humans can actually do telepathy or see into the future, or whatever else people today think is crazy).
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12-04-2007 at 11:17 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:17 AM.
Quote from PiratesSayARRR :
in addition to that why is it difficult to accept that life might just be one complicated Rube Goldberg machine... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rube...rg_machine... and nothing more.

events just happen to fall in to place to affect the outcome. I do not think nearly enough credit is given to yourself or your fellow man especially in regards to people that come close to death that have a strong religious background. It always seems that they must attribute to being saved by g_d however neglect to look at the fact that hey the surgeon didn't have to do anything. He could have just let you die on the table he had a choice to make to either save you or not to save you...not g_d. I am sure I will hear the argument well g_d put him there to save me....I say hogwash...if that was the case and g_d has a designed plan what does it matter what we do?
I don't think he always is there saving people. In the grand scheme of the universe our lifetime is not long. He allows bad things to happen and the surgeon had the free will to intervene or not. Sometimes he does have reason to intervene, but not always.
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12-04-2007 at 11:18 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:18 AM.
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I mean he's been there with you...he's wanted you to look for him, to seek a relationship. But, if you don't turn away or just don't reach out...he moves on, doesn't force you. He'd come back if you wanted.
I have reached out and looked for "proof" (I went to jewish school for 7 years). I was never religious, not even while I went there. Nothing. It was interesting and all, but nothing which I could attribute to him "reaching out" to me (maybe I was young at that time and didn't realize it) Dontknow
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12-04-2007 at 11:19 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:19 AM.
Quote from Imerson :
But is God really trying to be a friend, or is He leaving that up to us?

If it's the last one (which one of your other posts indicates), then it doesn't make sense for Him to get that angry about it... Dontknow

It was just an example. I meant that in our case, we wouldn't keep following someone who didn't want us around either.
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12-04-2007 at 11:21 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:21 AM.
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If you can see the message of this verse as well, it speaks of those who claim to know Christ and who have followed him, but continually take advantage of him by doing what they want to do and then saying, "Oops, I sinned. Please forgive me." And then they go right about their way, doing whatever they want. Those people won't go to heaven, it states. One must have the right heart... they must be sincere. That doesn't mean that they won't mess up, but when they do, they will be truly heartbroken over it. It will hurt them because they realize that it doesn't make God happy. And they will try harder the next time.

Once again, just explaining the Christian viewpoint on the issue. Smilie

Well that throws one of my arguments out the window, and good.
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12-04-2007 at 11:23 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:23 AM.
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But in the past I have done those things. I have followed those steps.

I don't know what I want him to do; I guess maybe some tangible proof would be nice. I understand faith, but I don't always understand mystery.

God apparently revealed himself in tangible ways in the past. Why is it different now?

Why is it so important that we have free will when it comes to that one thing? If belief is necessary for salvation, then why would he leave that one area, the most important area of a person's life, up to such imperfect creatures (humans)?

That would be like me telling my husband to walk over an invisible bridge over a deadly precipice, or else I'll divorce him. Sure, he could do it out of faith and love, but wouldn't it be more prudent for me to make a visible bridge for him to walk over, especially since I love him and really want to be married to him? Asking him to stay faithful to me, to treat me well, and be a good person and a good husband are all things that affect our marriage, but he has a choice to do or not to do those things. He has a choice to walk over the bridge (or not) but isn't that asking a lot of someone, especially since we are (mostly laugh out loud ) logical by nature.
It only appears invisible at the start...once I started to head that way, he led me across the bridge. Turns out the bridge wasn't invisible, I was just wearing a blindfold. Smilie
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12-04-2007 at 11:24 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:24 AM.
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events just happen to fall in to place to affect the outcome. I do not think nearly enough credit is given to yourself or your fellow man especially in regards to people that come close to death that have a strong religious background. It always seems that they must attribute to being saved by g_d however neglect to look at the fact that hey the surgeon didn't have to do anything. He could have just let you die on the table he had a choice to make to either save you or not to save you...not g_d. I am sure I will hear the argument well g_d put him there to save me....I say hogwash...if that was the case and g_d has a designed plan what does it matter what we do?
Take the surgeon (Gabriel...the name of God's most-chosen, most liaised angel) out of it for a minute. Let's pretend like he stood on his own, without being gifted by any other being (which, by the way...he credited his own talents to God, but apparently, that's neither here, nor there), there was an entire week's worth of "coincidence" leading up to the moment in which he picked up a knife, and many after it. If you choose to call the supreme being "Coincidence" well, go ahead. I call Him God. He seems to prefer it.
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12-04-2007 at 11:26 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:26 AM.
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I won't even pretend to know the words of the Bible... or to have researched it in depth. But if it's the revealed word of the almighty... why are there different versions? Why are there sections or passages that get passed over as "well that doesn't still apply these days... god wasn't quite into women's rights back then.." Again, I admit complete and utter ignorance when it comes to the bible. But it's things like that which keep me from taking it seriously. I hear 'outdated' sections and it makes me think that maybe it was just written by men. Wise men.... well intintioned men.... but men nonetheless.
And it may very well have been written by the wisest of wise men. But there's something to be said for a wisdom of this sort... the kind that has endured lo these many years. Great books should compel us to give them our attention.
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12-04-2007 at 11:26 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:26 AM.
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BTW I looked up that egosis and igosetic thing on google Thumbup


Again, thanks for the detailed write up, but I guess what makes it hard for me to believe/understand is the fact that I'm a very sciencey/logial type person. I'm also a touch type person (some people learn by seeing, some people learn by hearing, some people learn by touching, that's me), so this whole notion of "you have to believe in order to go to heaven" doesn't work for me, if god came down and said "you have to be good to go to heaven" (not the same words, I know) then I'd try my best to be good -- but just word of mouth, Nono2 I'm too skeptical for that since I can't actually touch (or even see) it.

And I still have a problem with god being portrayed as compassionate and merciful, but only if you believe. I understand the other side of the coin better now, but I still don't agree with it -- because in the passage that you showed, you showed what a HUMAN should/would do, but not what a GOD (who is said to be merciful) should do -- unless god is a lot more human than we thought, I still don't agree with it.
I don't see God as the teddy bear that he tends to be portrayed as. I do see him as a loving parent practicing tough love and as his children grow, allowing them to go their own way and make mistakes - even reject him.
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12-04-2007 at 11:27 AM.
12-04-2007 at 11:27 AM.
Quote from BrownEyedGirl :
But in the past I have done those things. I have followed those steps.

I don't know what I want him to do; I guess maybe some tangible proof would be nice. I understand faith, but I don't always understand mystery.

God apparently revealed himself in tangible ways in the past. Why is it different now?

Why is it so important that we have free will when it comes to that one thing? If belief is necessary for salvation, then why would he leave that one area, the most important area of a person's life, up to such imperfect creatures (humans)?

That would be like me telling my husband to walk over an invisible bridge over a deadly precipice, or else I'll divorce him. Sure, he could do it out of faith and love, but wouldn't it be more prudent for me to make a visible bridge for him to walk over, especially since I love him and really want to be married to him? Asking him to stay faithful to me, to treat me well, and be a good person and a good husband are all things that affect our marriage, but he has a choice to do or not to do those things. He has a choice to walk over the bridge (or not) but isn't that asking a lot of someone, especially since we are (mostly laugh out loud ) logical by nature.
Thanks for writing back. BEG, I really didn't like how I worded my thoughts, but I still think you got me.

BEG, I wish I could help you know that God is real. I know I have prayed for a sign, and he would answer my prayer, and I would turn right around and doubt the sign and think it was a coincidence.

As I was reading your thoughts about your husband, I thought, that's what God did for us. God, as a perfect being, did not know what it meant to be tempted to sin, he did not know what it meant to surrender, or submit, he did not know what it meant to be human. So he came to earth, to be human, to be tempted and not sin, to surrender to the Fathers will, to feel seperated from the Father.... to take on all of our sins.... with no guarantee that we would ever accept his gift, his love....

We can only love him because he first loved us.

You are upset because he is an invisible being... but that is what he is. Some people have had experiences with him, I don't know why not everyone does. I am sure more people do than we know, but they are only met with skeptisim. No one can convince another person God is real.

In my life, if I were to clear out all churches, all religions, the bible, and just think about my own life and experiences, I know God is real. I see his work in my life. I see the way he has changed me where I shouldn't have changed. I haven't experienced God in the way I have always wanted to experience him, but when I look at the incredible web of threads that is life I see Him. I see Him in the million of "coincidences" and "good luck" and "fortunate" that takes place, the perfection of this person being here when I needed them, or the money coming in at the last moment, or the phone call that came right when I needed it.

I could go deeper, and tell you other things I have seen. But I have already read enough about "these crazy Christians" to want to put myself out there. You can pm me and I will tell you. But I have learned that no matter what I tell you, it probably won't have an affect if you don't want to believe. Nothing anyone can say will affect your free will.

BTW when I say "you" I don't mean you, BEG. It's just a clumsy pronoun~ maybe I should try to use "one" instead.
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