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I'm so pissed at DBF anyone care to give insight as to a man's thinking?
December 16, 2009 at
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In March,before we were officially dating,I found naked pictures of this girl on his phone. I got incredibly pissed and confronted him about them. He said we weren't officially dating although we were exclusive so I couldn't get mad at him bc I didn't know what I wanted to do. Fast forward until now, he's been still talking to her and texting her,I've known it all along and I've expressed to him how much I don't like him talking to her etc. He always brings back the part that we weren't "dating" when she sent the pics,and since we've been dating she hasn't sent him any racy pics. I've been trying to be patient and understanding about it but I'm really insecure about this whole situation and I've told him how I feel,but it still does no good. Am I acting irrationally? Do I have a reason to be upset about him still talking to her etc? She's on his facebook and they chit chat alot,but yet he asked me to remove my ex because he didn't like it,and I did because I didn't want him to feel threatened or insecure about it. It gets to the point that when I see her posting in response to him that I clinch my fists because it makes me so mad.
In March,before we were officially dating,I found naked pictures of this girl on his phone. I got incredibly pissed and confronted him about them. He said we weren't officially dating although we were exclusive so I couldn't get mad at him bc I didn't know what I wanted to do. Fast forward until now, he's been still talking to her and texting her,I've known it all along and I've expressed to him how much I don't like him talking to her etc. He always brings back the part that we weren't "dating" when she sent the pics,and since we've been dating she hasn't sent him any racy pics. I've been trying to be patient and understanding about it but I'm really insecure about this whole situation and I've told him how I feel,but it still does no good. Am I acting irrationally? Do I have a reason to be upset about him still talking to her etc? She's on his facebook and they chit chat alot,but yet he asked me to remove my ex because he didn't like it,and I did because I didn't want him to feel threatened or insecure about it. It gets to the point that when I see her posting in response to him that I clinch my fists because it makes me so mad.
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Yeah that's why I put "friend" in qoutations. He supposedly didn't ask for the pics she just sent them...... If she's a whore she might like that...she also might like trying to steal other people's boyfriends....
How many times have you sent a *ahem* photo to "just a friend"?
Don't forget you have a DD now, do you want her to grow up under these circumstances? I'm not saying 100% drop the guy today, but you really need to step back and look at this relationship from the outside. It's not healthy in any means. What he did to you in the past, when you needed him the most in your life. I know you say you can forgive it, but have you really? I think something like that can never truly be forgiven and always will hold some resentment deep in the back of your mind.
This goes back more then just this one chick, theres the one before her, and then the hospital thing. No wonder you have trust issues. But you need to trust in yourself, that how you feel is NOT ok...
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I know posting stuff online is hard because most likely you're posting about the stuff that's bugging you (I'm using "you" in general terms here) and not so much about the good stuff. So then when people come and say "He's an ass, dump him!" you might think "Yeah...but he does this, this, this and this that's good." So take what any of us say with a grain of salt.
With that said (anyone watch curb your enthusiasm finale? No? Ok...moving on)...anyway...you said you posted on his FB that you're his gf and he can lean on you too...and that this girl started bashing you. That's pretty horrible. I don't know the whole story but if my husband posted on my facebook something like that and then one of my guy friends started going off on him...they wouldn't be my friend anymore.
So she sent naked picture(s) to him in the past when you weren't exclusive. Ok
He stayed friends with her. Ok.
He stayed friends with her after she bashed you repeatedly. Really?
I know posting stuff online is hard because most likely you're posting about the stuff that's bugging you (I'm using "you" in general terms here) and not so much about the good stuff. So then when people come and say "He's an ass, dump him!" you might think "Yeah...but he does this, this, this and this that's good." So take what any of us say with a grain of salt.
With that said (anyone watch curb your enthusiasm finale? No? Ok...moving on)...anyway...you said you posted on his FB that you're his gf and he can lean on you too...and that this girl started bashing you. That's pretty horrible. I don't know the whole story but if my husband posted on my facebook something like that and then one of my guy friends started going off on him...they wouldn't be my friend anymore.
So she sent naked picture(s) to him in the past when you weren't exclusive. Ok
He stayed friends with her. Ok.
He stayed friends with her after she bashed you repeatedly. Really?
One half....
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