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I'm so pissed at DBF anyone care to give insight as to a man's thinking?

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In March,before we were officially dating,I found naked pictures of this girl on his phone. I got incredibly pissed and confronted him about them. He said we weren't officially dating although we were exclusive so I couldn't get mad at him bc I didn't know what I wanted to do. Fast forward until now, he's been still talking to her and texting her,I've known it all along and I've expressed to him how much I don't like him talking to her etc. He always brings back the part that we weren't "dating" when she sent the pics,and since we've been dating she hasn't sent him any racy pics. I've been trying to be patient and understanding about it but I'm really insecure about this whole situation and I've told him how I feel,but it still does no good. Am I acting irrationally? Do I have a reason to be upset about him still talking to her etc? She's on his facebook and they chit chat alot,but yet he asked me to remove my ex because he didn't like it,and I did because I didn't want him to feel threatened or insecure about it. It gets to the point that when I see her posting in response to him that I clinch my fists because it makes me so mad.
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12-16-2009 at 11:09 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:09 AM.
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laugh out loud

One half.... Scratchhead Interesting. laugh out loud
She was a tad overweight


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12-16-2009 at 11:10 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:10 AM.
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Boston girl we are all your friends........now lets see some pics!
FTR, J3ff does not speak for 99.99% of the Loungers Nono2
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12-16-2009 at 11:11 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:11 AM.
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Oh. I assumed we were more than that when you sent those to me. Doh
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One half.... Scratchhead Interesting. laugh out loud
We are? woot

oh and the one half must be me...midgets are only one half right?

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Boston girl we are all your friends........now lets see some pics!
PM coming...
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12-16-2009 at 11:11 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:11 AM.
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there could be a million reasons why he wants to keep her around,
Two words. fark buddy.


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12-16-2009 at 11:12 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:12 AM.
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She was a tad overweight


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12-16-2009 at 11:12 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:12 AM.
nod 2 different girls. The one that bashed me was the one that he was talking to for hours,confiding in,etc instead of talking to me. I told him that this bothered me a lot and to please talk to me instead.He somewhat listened but not as much as I was hoping. He supposedly no longer talks to the girl that bashed me on his fb,he deleted her,but he also password protected his phone shortly after that so I'm not 100% sure he stopped talking to her.

This girl now is the one that sent naked pics to him in March,he eventually stopped talking to her,we broke up he started talking to her again,now that I'm back in the picture I asked him about 3 times to stop talking to her and remove her from his fb page but he won't do it.
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12-16-2009 at 11:13 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:13 AM.
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You told me that I had to send you one, or else you wouldn't add me to FB. I thought that was normal.
laugh out loud You have no idea how many people have fallen for this. bounce laugh out loud

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(anyone watch curb your enthusiasm finale? No? Ok...moving on)...

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12-16-2009 at 11:14 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:14 AM.
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Nevermind my last post...Mad
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12-16-2009 at 11:15 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:15 AM.
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I am not in his head,so I don't know what all of his intentions are with saying what he says,or doing what he does,if I was it would be sooooo much easier Frown laugh out loud with all the genius minds running around here I'm sure we can invent something that would let us hear other people thoughts
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Exactly..you are not..or he would be thinking about you,,trying to do things with/for you that you like. He would be in love with you and can't wait to see you and be around you..and thank his lucky stars that he found such a wonderful caring person!!! Realizing that YOU should be the first person he turns to when he wants to talk about issues..deciding together..and since you have a daughter..at least he should be thinking of being a good influence to her.

I would think that he would want to take care of his "little family" and show you the respect that you deserve.

I know its hard..but you deserve a man who will love the pieces out of you and show you..and for you not to be waiting around for his little crumbs of affection...

Judging from many men on this board, they are out there and I am sure they love their wives and family and cannot even fathom doing what this guy is doing without realizing how this could jeopardize the relationship.

Just look at Tiger Woods...its very extreme..but he was a guy who had everything...EVERYTHING..and for a few moments (well many ) of pleasure messed everything up!

That is another topic...do guys do this because they just cant help themselves..or is it a power thing, maturity thing?? How do you control it???
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12-16-2009 at 11:17 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:17 AM.
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She was a tad overweight
You do know Autumn is reading this thread, right? We like to call her "big boned."
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12-16-2009 at 11:17 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:17 AM.
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I actually typed in SOB and Rammy, and then decided not to name names laugh out loud (since Rammy technically only talkes about sammiches and beer and OTs)
laugh out loud Ass. I've been sent pics but never requested them (nor shared them).
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12-16-2009 at 11:18 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:18 AM.
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You do know Autumn is reading this thread, right? We like to call her "big boned."
My eyes are still bleeding from the "classic" view, I don't want to guoge them out by even thinking of that idea!
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12-16-2009 at 11:18 AM.
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PM coming...
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12-16-2009 at 11:19 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:19 AM.
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laugh out loud Ass. I've been sent pics but never requested them (nor shared them).
Well I wasn't going to mention names, until TS pointed out the obvious culprit laugh out loud
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12-16-2009 at 11:19 AM.
12-16-2009 at 11:19 AM.
laugh out loud wow only to the 4th page before it went OT...Ya'll need some help,you're slacking in your game....

erm nm I think Max brought the OT in the 3rd page...
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