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I'm so pissed at DBF anyone care to give insight as to a man's thinking?
December 16, 2009 at
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In March,before we were officially dating,I found naked pictures of this girl on his phone. I got incredibly pissed and confronted him about them. He said we weren't officially dating although we were exclusive so I couldn't get mad at him bc I didn't know what I wanted to do. Fast forward until now, he's been still talking to her and texting her,I've known it all along and I've expressed to him how much I don't like him talking to her etc. He always brings back the part that we weren't "dating" when she sent the pics,and since we've been dating she hasn't sent him any racy pics. I've been trying to be patient and understanding about it but I'm really insecure about this whole situation and I've told him how I feel,but it still does no good. Am I acting irrationally? Do I have a reason to be upset about him still talking to her etc? She's on his facebook and they chit chat alot,but yet he asked me to remove my ex because he didn't like it,and I did because I didn't want him to feel threatened or insecure about it. It gets to the point that when I see her posting in response to him that I clinch my fists because it makes me so mad.
In March,before we were officially dating,I found naked pictures of this girl on his phone. I got incredibly pissed and confronted him about them. He said we weren't officially dating although we were exclusive so I couldn't get mad at him bc I didn't know what I wanted to do. Fast forward until now, he's been still talking to her and texting her,I've known it all along and I've expressed to him how much I don't like him talking to her etc. He always brings back the part that we weren't "dating" when she sent the pics,and since we've been dating she hasn't sent him any racy pics. I've been trying to be patient and understanding about it but I'm really insecure about this whole situation and I've told him how I feel,but it still does no good. Am I acting irrationally? Do I have a reason to be upset about him still talking to her etc? She's on his facebook and they chit chat alot,but yet he asked me to remove my ex because he didn't like it,and I did because I didn't want him to feel threatened or insecure about it. It gets to the point that when I see her posting in response to him that I clinch my fists because it makes me so mad.
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One half.... Interesting.
One half.... Interesting.
oh and the one half must be me...midgets are only one half right?
This girl now is the one that sent naked pics to him in March,he eventually stopped talking to her,we broke up he started talking to her again,now that I'm back in the picture I asked him about 3 times to stop talking to her and remove her from his fb page but he won't do it.
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I would think that he would want to take care of his "little family" and show you the respect that you deserve.
I know its hard..but you deserve a man who will love the pieces out of you and show you..and for you not to be waiting around for his little crumbs of affection...
Judging from many men on this board, they are out there and I am sure they love their wives and family and cannot even fathom doing what this guy is doing without realizing how this could jeopardize the relationship.
Just look at Tiger Woods...its very extreme..but he was a guy who had everything...EVERYTHING..and for a few moments (well many ) of pleasure messed everything up!
That is another topic...do guys do this because they just cant help themselves..or is it a power thing, maturity thing?? How do you control it???
Oh wait
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erm nm I think Max brought the OT in the 3rd page...