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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?

3,549 129 November 23, 2010 at 03:06 PM in Question
It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?
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Maleficent
11-23-2010 at 06:27 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:27 PM.
Quote from coulditbeSatan :
I understand what you meant but she is not having sex with her husband or anyone other than me.
Rofl2

THAT'S how you're delusional! Roll

Quote from coulditbeSatan :
Courage really isn't the thing. I don't think I should go into her reasons though because that is going too far with her personal identifying information and that would betray her trust.
Wow... she has totally played you. She is quite the con artist, congratulations! Thumbup

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Of course she's not, sweetie. Comfort
LMAO
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dalokgawd
11-23-2010 at 06:29 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:29 PM.
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You are so Cloud9 with this girl that you don't even have any clue how delusional you sound. You're just trying to justify it, and you know it - otherwise, this thread wouldn't have ever been created.
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Jex
11-23-2010 at 06:29 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:29 PM.
Quote from burninator :
Of course she's not, sweetie. Comfort
I at least hope she showers in between. Does the OP actually believe that she isn't sleeping with her husband? LMAO
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SlicKitty
11-23-2010 at 06:29 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:29 PM.
Quote from coulditbeSatan :
Courage really isn't the thing. I don't think I should go into her reasons though because that is going too far with her personal identifying information and that would betray her trust.

I've never been told that I lack imagination and I really can't imagine a circumstance that makes it okay for someone not to tell their spouse that they're sleeping with someone else.

Oh, actually I can. If he were on his deathbed. Then maybe.

Even then, I think her responsibility would first be to him, but then...just maybe...

Because if I were the languishing person in that situation, I would want my husband to be happy.
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Maleficent
11-23-2010 at 06:32 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:32 PM.
Quote from Jex :
I at least hope she showers in between. Does the OP actually believe that she isn't sleeping with her husband? LMAO
Apparently! Crylol

Quote from SlicKitty :
I've never been told that I lack imagination and I really can't imagine a circumstance that makes it okay for someone not to tell their spouse that they're sleeping with someone else.

Oh, actually I can. If he were on his deathbed. Then maybe.

Even then, I think her responsibility would first be to him, but then...just maybe...

Because if I were the languishing person in that situation, I would want my husband to be happy.
I agree. And even then...
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coulditbeSatan
11-23-2010 at 06:38 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:38 PM.
Quote from burninator :
Of course she's not, sweetie. Comfort
Bigeye Time to borrow a line from Count Chockula....Mongo straight!

Secret You sound like a guy but I might be wrong.

Quote from Maleficent :
Oh yeah, TOTALLY not necessary. Why should you ever be up front and honest with anyone when you can sneak around behind their back and screw them over? laugh out loud

Or their wife, in this case.
How am I not being upfront and honest? It's not my place to tell her husband. You must think otherwise. I'm not attracted to her husband or owe him my time or consideration. Different with her though.

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You are so Cloud9 with this girl that you don't even have any clue how delusional you sound. You're just trying to justify it, and you know it - otherwise, this thread wouldn't have ever been created.
Well sure I am Cloud9 with her or I wouldn't be with her. It would be just another 'hit it and quit it.'

Not trying to justify anything. Just trying to see why people think I am a bad guy in this when I don't have the responsibility to her husband and I am not cheating.


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Rofl2

THAT'S how you're delusional! Roll



Wow... she has totally played you. She is quite the con artist, congratulations! Thumbup



LMAO
You think so but you don't know her or have the full picture.
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Jex
11-23-2010 at 06:43 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:43 PM.
Quote from coulditbeSatan :
You think so but you don't know her or have the full picture.
Neither do you. She will tell you what you want to hear. What her and her husband do behind closed doors is their business. And she won't tell you. it is not like she said screw this lets divorce. Course you can try to deny that for your own sanity.
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Maleficent
11-23-2010 at 06:46 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:46 PM.
Quote from coulditbeSatan :
Not trying to justify anything. Just trying to see why people think I am a bad guy in this when I don't have the responsibility to her husband and I am not cheating.
Well, clearly you are incapable of understanding why everything thinks you're a dirtbag, so the point is moot. So is this thread, because you're clueless and haven't any morals with regards to what you do with your penis. And no matter how many times people try to explain it to you, you'll never get it. It's like trying to explain why killing is wrong to a serial killer. They don't understand, they don't have the same moral compass that most people do.

So let's just Locked the thread already!

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You think so but you don't know her or have the full picture.
She's a woman that cheats on her husband, and is too cowardly to confront him and be honest with him, or do the right thing and end it before she gets in bed with another guy. Oh yeah, I think we have all the information we need to figure out just what kind of "woman" she is. laugh out loud
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Maleficent
11-23-2010 at 06:48 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:48 PM.
Quote from Jex :
Neither do you. She will tell you what you want to hear. What her and her husband do behind closed doors is their business. And she won't tell you. it is not like she said screw this lets divorce. Course you can try to deny that for your own sanity.
Oh no, his sweetheart would never, ever do anything like that! Love

How could you say such a thing? He obviously knows her better than her husband ever did, and even though she's not honest with anyone else, she's honest with him. Girly
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Iaaaiws
11-23-2010 at 06:57 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:57 PM.
The really scary thing is that people as morally bankrupt as the OP eventually end up having kids and become the primary person who must try to teach them the difference between right and wrong and the importance of respecting other people.

Can you imagine what the OP's kids will eventually turn out to be? EEK!
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11-23-2010 at 06:58 PM.
11-23-2010 at 06:58 PM.
Quote from Iaaaiws :
The really scary thing is that people as morally bankrupt as the OP eventually end up having kids and become the primary person who must try to teach them the difference between right and wrong and the importance of respecting other people.

Can you imagine what the OP's kids will eventually turn out to be? EEK!
Faint

That is frightening...
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11-23-2010 at 07:00 PM.
11-23-2010 at 07:00 PM.
Quote from Iaaaiws :
The really scary thing is that people as morally bankrupt as the OP eventually end up having kids and become the primary person who must try to teach them the difference between right and wrong and the importance of respecting other people.

Can you imagine what the OP's kids will eventually turn out to be? EEK!
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JeepShot
11-23-2010 at 07:02 PM.
11-23-2010 at 07:02 PM.
Wait until he checks her stuff out, has your full name and address, and shows up at your door.

Unless she has a top secret no-contract phone, and never uses email, he will find out.

She's lying constantly to her husband. Why would she tell you the truth?

If women cheat, it's rarely with just one guy.
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11-23-2010 at 07:02 PM.
11-23-2010 at 07:02 PM.
Quote from JeepMomSavings :
Wait until he checks her stuff out, has your full name and address, and shows up at your door.

Unless she has a top secret no-contract phone, and never uses email, he will find out.

She's lying constantly to her husband. Why would she tell you the truth?

If women cheat, it's rarely with just one guy.
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dalokgawd
11-23-2010 at 07:09 PM.
11-23-2010 at 07:09 PM.
What was it that Kyle said to Cartman on that one episode of Southpark? Something about mental gymnastics?

Well I think the OP must be trying out for the mental gymnastics Olympic team. He's in for some stiff competition from Owen Kealy though. His stance on the TSA may be just a smidge more ridiculous than the OPs stance on morality. laugh out loud

http://www.southparkstudios.com/c...h-yourself
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