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Pizza delivery guy didn't accept my tip. Was he trying to send a message?

278 20 December 29, 2010 at 07:52 PM in Chat
I was visiting San Francisco recently and ordered a pizza and salad from a local restaurant. The delivery guy was in his mid 40's. I only tried to tip him a dollar, but he just said no thanks. I said are you sure, and he declined the tip again. He was friendly and respectful about it. After he left, I started to think that I offered too small of a tip. The bill was around $20, and I just gave my normal Domino's tip. I was thinking maybe he was offended by such a small tip. I should have tipped him around $3. I've never had someone not take money from me. Is a dollar tip offensive to a delivery guy?

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drsketch
12-30-2010 at 06:11 AM.
12-30-2010 at 06:11 AM.
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Pshhhhhh if I was gonna invite another Lounger for a 3-some it wouldn't be another dude. What was the SN of that lady who posted a picture of herself in a SD beanie but all anyone commented on was her boobs?

oh it would be 2 dudes?
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12-30-2010 at 06:13 AM.
12-30-2010 at 06:13 AM.
Quote from drsketch :
oh it would be 2 dudes?
in a bunker he said if I recall?
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Phrozt
12-30-2010 at 06:26 AM.
12-30-2010 at 06:26 AM.
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You'll be waiting a long time... I would never order a salad. laugh out loud
Nice try, we all know you like salad and you like it tossed.
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shuriken
12-30-2010 at 07:13 AM.
12-30-2010 at 07:13 AM.
$1 tip ftw! woot
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square_one
12-30-2010 at 07:24 AM.
12-30-2010 at 07:24 AM.
Quote from Maleficent :
I usually give 'em two - when there's already a damned $2.50 "delivery" fee I don't feel like doling out another $5. Annoyed
then pick it up yourself, lazy. avoid the fees and tip.
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linuxworks
01-01-2011 at 06:20 PM.
01-01-2011 at 06:20 PM.
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You hair dresser on the other hand probably makes 20$+ an hour, do you only tip them a dollar?
I'm looking for a SD on a haircut.

found one, too; but shipping kind of killed the deal.
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CQ1
01-01-2011 at 07:26 PM.
01-01-2011 at 07:26 PM.
Quote from shuriken :
$1 tip ftw! woot

laugh out loud

as a sd ambass, you gotta tip in lootz. kinda like a goodie table/bowl setup at the door, give 'em a choice, and send them on their way
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shuriken
01-01-2011 at 10:27 PM.
01-01-2011 at 10:27 PM.
Quote from CQ1 :
laugh out loud

as a sd ambass, you gotta tip in lootz. kinda like a goodie table/bowl setup at the door, give 'em a choice, and send them on their way
rite aid pays me to shop so it's all the same. Big Grin
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x3shift
01-01-2011 at 10:58 PM.
01-01-2011 at 10:58 PM.
Quote from dzap :
Cheapass. I'm a college student and know you always tip around 15%. 10% is already $2 so $3 would have been perfect.

I wouldn't refuse it but hey...maybe he just didn't want to bother with such a small tip.
why wouldnt you bother for $1? especially if hes literally handing it to you. if you saw a dollar on the floor wouldnt you take it?
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cookiemonster.
01-02-2011 at 01:39 AM.
01-02-2011 at 01:39 AM.
Quote from dalokgawd :
I will probably get a sh%tstorm of complaining over this, but I really don't understand the incredible amount of tipping that goes on these days. It seems like everyone wants a tip these days just for doing their jobs. It used to be that we tipped waiters / waitresses when they did a good job. Now we tip waiters / waitresses so much the government had to get involved to start taxing their tips and allowing restaurants to pay them less than minimum wage. We don't own the restaurants, so why are we paying their salary? I don't understand it.

Then we started tipping delivery guys. I could understand tipping them if they had to carry a ton of food up 3 flights of stairs or if they were delivering in really crappy weather, but again... they are being paid to do a job... why is tipping them 15% necessary? A little gratuity to say thanks for bringing my food to my door is one thing, but are we really expected to tip them the same as we tip waitresses? Waitresses are purposely underpaid and they take your order, bring your food, refill your drinks, check up on you to see if you need anything else, etc. What does the delivery person do that justifies a 15% tip?

Now I go to the ice cream parlor, and they have a tip jar our. I'm flabbergasted how many places I go these days and find tip jars. Everyone wants to be tipped for doing the job they're already being paid to do. I think it's pretty ridiculous. Tips should be something that someone gets for going above and beyond their job, not something that you get just for doing your job at the expected level that you are being paid to do it.

/end rant
I agree with most of this, except I tip my driver 3-5 bucks each time b/c I know their hourly wage and they only get .17 a mile back in gas. But everything else I agree with. There's a tip jar everyfarkingwhere!
At the chinese place, at ice cream shops, dine in places where you do all the work (except cook the food), etc. WTF.

I never put money in them.
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rite aid pays me to shop so it's all the same. Big Grin
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flowerbridge
01-03-2011 at 10:49 AM.
01-03-2011 at 10:49 AM.
Quote from implode :
I think $1, is kind of insulting for a $20 order.
^ very much so.

5%, especially in SF, where although general income is higher but cost of living is also much higher, especially for people working jobs like pizza deliver.
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Majide
01-03-2011 at 12:00 PM.
01-03-2011 at 12:00 PM.
Quote from ikonoklast :
I pick up my pizza cause I am too cheap to tip
Iagree
We haven't had a pizza delivered in several years.

Quote from dalokgawd :
I will probably get a sh%tstorm of complaining over this, but I really don't understand the incredible amount of tipping that goes on these days. It seems like everyone wants a tip these days just for doing their jobs. It used to be that we tipped waiters / waitresses when they did a good job. Now we tip waiters / waitresses so much the government had to get involved to start taxing their tips and allowing restaurants to pay them less than minimum wage. We don't own the restaurants, so why are we paying their salary? I don't understand it.

Then we started tipping delivery guys. I could understand tipping them if they had to carry a ton of food up 3 flights of stairs or if they were delivering in really crappy weather, but again... they are being paid to do a job... why is tipping them 15% necessary? A little gratuity to say thanks for bringing my food to my door is one thing, but are we really expected to tip them the same as we tip waitresses? Waitresses are purposely underpaid and they take your order, bring your food, refill your drinks, check up on you to see if you need anything else, etc. What does the delivery person do that justifies a 15% tip?

Now I go to the ice cream parlor, and they have a tip jar our. I'm flabbergasted how many places I go these days and find tip jars. Everyone wants to be tipped for doing the job they're already being paid to do. I think it's pretty ridiculous. Tips should be something that someone gets for going above and beyond their job, not something that you get just for doing your job at the expected level that you are being paid to do it.

/end rant
Another Iagree

A local radio DJ was complaining one day about this. He said he went to a fast food mexican restaurant (I can't recall the name) and ordered his food. When he filled out the receipt for his debit/credit card purchase, he didn't leave a tip. And then the cashier complained to someone next to him that the guy didn't leave a tip.

What the heck would he need to leave one for? The cashier didn't even touch the food other than maybe putting it in the bag and handing it to the DJ. It's one thing to have a tip jar out, and another to complain about not getting tipped for doing so little.

I always assumed those receipts are just all generally made with the tip line because many places I go to don't seem like the kind of restaurant where you should tip the person.
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dalokgawd
01-03-2011 at 12:06 PM.
01-03-2011 at 12:06 PM.
Quote from Majide :
Another Iagree

A local radio DJ was complaining one day about this. He said he went to a fast food mexican restaurant (I can't recall the name) and ordered his food. When he filled out the receipt for his debit/credit card purchase, he didn't leave a tip. And then the cashier complained to someone next to him that the guy didn't leave a tip.

What the heck would he need to leave one for? The cashier didn't even touch the food other than maybe putting it in the bag and handing it to the DJ. It's one thing to have a tip jar out, and another to complain about not getting tipped for doing so little.

I always assumed those receipts are just all generally made with the tip line because many places I go to don't seem like the kind of restaurant where you should tip the person.
I never tip if I'm picking up. The whole point of tipping in a restaurant is that you're tipping for SERVICE. I'm not being served my food, I'm picking it up and taking it out. No waiter = no tip as far as I'm concerned.

I also make it a point that if I hear someone complain about a tip at a restaurant I never eat there again and I make sure and tell the management why.
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Phrozt
01-03-2011 at 12:17 PM.
01-03-2011 at 12:17 PM.
Short story:

I used to play pool at a bar w/an odd setup. The building had a bar and a restaurant in it, but they were separated by a wall. There was a door to go between, but they wanted you to use the window in the wall (like a drive up window that you walk to) to order.

So basically, you had to walk to the window, wait till you were seen, get someone to take the order, then constantly monitor the window to see if they were there w/your food... which usually meant walking up there a few times when they had someone *else's* food ready. Also, if there was anything you wanted (ketchup, relish/etc) you had to reach through the window down to where they kept it and use it there, or you had to walk through the restaurant to their kitchen and ask for it. You also had to take your dishes back to the window, because no one from the restaurant worked at the bar.... so they'd never get cleared.

Was a gigantic pain in the ass. I usually tip very well, and yeah they still take your order and deliver it to you... but I stopped tipping there. Sorry, but when I have to do the majority of the work in getting my food.. you're not getting a tip.
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01-03-2011 at 12:17 PM.
01-03-2011 at 12:17 PM.
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Wait, scratch that, I finally get my mixer tomorrow, I'll make my own damn pizza for cheaper! Whee
What's a mixer got to do with your ability to make pizza??? Dontknow I make my own dough from scratch by hand....no fancy mixer for me.
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