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Am I required to disclose this information before having sex?
March 29, 2007 at
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My girlfriend was informed by her gynocologist that she has the human papillomavirus, or HPV. It's impossible to tell who had it first, but I'm most likely a carrier now as well. For those of you who don't know, HPV is a virus that's said to be a prerequisite for cervical cancer in women. Men can carry the virus, but it's nearly harmless for them.
Some HPV facts from wikipedia:
Here's my question. Am I required to disclose this information before having relations with another woman? I have a feeling that everyone's kneejerk reaction will be "yes", but please consider the following. There's a huge chance that the woman already has the virus, and if she doesn't already she'll probably get it in the future*. With a condom, she probably won't get it from me anyway. With pap testing, there's a very very low risk of cancer. And quite frankly, I feel that she won't know all the facts and will think it's a bigger deal than it actually is.
Thoughts?
*Genital HPV infection is very common, with estimates suggesting that more than 50% of women will become infected with one or more of the sexually transmitted HPV types at some point during adulthood.[7]
The American Social Health Association projections in 2006 were yet more pessimistic, predicting that about 75% of the reproductive population will have been infected with genital HPV infection in their lifetime.
Some HPV facts from wikipedia:
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HPV is the most common sexual transmitted infection in the United States. In the United States approximately 20-million people are currently infected with HPV about 6.2 million Americans will get infected with genital HPV this year.24.5% prevalence of HPV among females 14 to 19 years old 44.8% prevalence of HPV among females 20 to 24 years old 27.4% prevalence of HPV among females 25 to 29 years old 27.5% prevalence of HPV among females 30 to 39 years old 25.2% prevalence of HPV among females 40 to 49 years old 19.6% prevalence of HPV among females 50 to 59 years old In the absence of Pap testing or treatment, about 1% of women with genital HPV infections will eventually go on to develop cervical cancer. Women who have Pap testing or other cervical cancer screenings on a regular basis dramatically decrease their chances of developing cervical cancer. A 2006 study of 82 college students suggests that condoms can be up to 70% effective for preventing genital HPV infection if used for every sexual encounter. |
Thoughts?
*Genital HPV infection is very common, with estimates suggesting that more than 50% of women will become infected with one or more of the sexually transmitted HPV types at some point during adulthood.[7]
The American Social Health Association projections in 2006 were yet more pessimistic, predicting that about 75% of the reproductive population will have been infected with genital HPV infection in their lifetime.
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How about you ask yourself this-- if roles were reversed in the same scenario, how would you feel? (i.e. A girl had a disease that could, although unlikely, cause a man cancer and maybe even die). Would you want this girl lying to you and taking a chance while she justifies to herself why she is knowingly infecting you with a disease that could kill you. "Well, it is such a small percentage that die. Most guys have it but don't even know it, so he probably has it already. It's not really a big deal so he doesn't need to know."
So you would be cool with this?
Remember that with pap screenings, acquiring cancer is "significantly" less than 1%. They're still more likely to develop other types of cancers, such as breast or lung (if they smoke). Further, some studies show that 85% of people will be exposed to HPV in their lifetime.
Riding in a car on the highway is statistically far more dangerous than HPV. Are your friends devistated everytime they find out they have to take a roadtrip?
How about you ask yourself this-- if roles were reversed in the same scenario, how would you feel? (i.e. A girl had a disease that could, although unlikely, cause a man cancer and maybe even die). Would you want this girl lying to you and taking a chance while she justifies to herself why she is knowingly infecting you with a disease that could kill you. "Well, it is such a small percentage that die. Most guys have it but don't even know it, so he probably has it already. It's not really a big deal so he doesn't need to know."
So you would be cool with this?
hey tmk are u married? and do u have HPV? and if you did , did you tell ur partners? you arent being real...the OPs argument is ridiculous.
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1) Do you know with certainty that you have or do not have the virus?
2) If yes, have you ever told a partner about it?
I gave my wife genital herpes. Although two doctors contradicted themselves in the diagnosis type I vs type 2. If you have ever gotten a cold sore you have type I and can conceivably give that to someone on there genitals.
YOU'RE the one who's turning me ME. You should thank me for increasing HPV awareness. I'm waiting.
and as you said in an earlier post... something about only one percent being fatal and it not being a big deal.... tell that to the one percent OP......
Remember that with pap screenings, acquiring cancer is "significantly" less than 1%. They're still more likely to develop other types of cancers, such as breast or lung (if they smoke). Further, some studies show that 85% of people will be exposed to HPV in their lifetime.
Riding in a car on the highway is statistically far more dangerous than HPV. Are your friends devistated everytime they find out they have to take a roadtrip?
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hey tmk are u married? and do u have HPV? and if you did , did you tell ur partners? you arent being real...the OPs argument is ridiculous.
I don't see what's ridiculous about that.