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6,544 1,490 August 20, 2012 at 11:16 AM in Chat
Long story short.

Bachelorette party last year. Girls drinking.
Girl was not drinking too much to get hammered.
Girl likely had drink spiked by guys.
Girl starts dancing on music stage for bands with other girls allowed by bar.
Girl passes out and face plants off the stage busting nose and teeth.
Girl goes to hospital - bar apologizes and promises to never let anyone dance on the stage again.
Girls insurance only covers so much of cosmetic repairs so girl decides to sue bar to cover the rest of the medical bills.

Case or no case?

Bars lawyers are trying to make a personal attack on girls character saying shes a crazy drunk and it will likely go to trial without a settlement.

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Samwise Gamgee
08-21-2012 at 08:51 PM.
08-21-2012 at 08:51 PM.
Quote from nizzy1115 :
someone caught her face with their elbow as she went down. Does that count? laugh out loud
So if the floor didn't do it, someone was going to knock her out ... so she wouldn't get back on stage. Man, was she fugly?

Quote from nizzy1115 :
someone caught her face with their elbow as she went down. Does that count? laugh out loud

But guys aren't allowed up on the stages.
So, some guy should sue for discrimination.
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08-21-2012 at 09:08 PM.
08-21-2012 at 09:08 PM.
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had she fell on my pole it would have really been a fun night.
Then it won't be so fun when she sues you for rape, even though she fell on your pole.
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athensr
08-21-2012 at 09:38 PM.
08-21-2012 at 09:38 PM.
Wow this thread is full of fail. No attorney is going to answer op's question because they live by 3 rules.

1. Get paid. A legal education and passing the bar ain't cheap.
2. Make sure that if you get paid you keep the money (don't commit malpractice)
3. If someone is going to jail, make sure it ain't you.

Also:
I realize I used the word "ain't", it was intentional.
This case would turn on negligence and the business/property owner's duties to the patrons/business licensees with regard to the state specific case law on duties. The court would also consider causation and the statute of limitations (how long since the accident), the awareness of the staff of the dangerous condition, how high the stage was (obviously 6 inches would be diffwrent than 6 feet), the last clear chance doctrine, trespass, libel and slander issues (saying an idiot is an idiot/whore/etc will cause problems), etc . With regard to your question, I highly suggest they hire a competent attorney. Also, I am not an attorney for anyone here and THIS IS IN NO WAY to be construed, in any manner or relationship, legal advice in any form. Anyone reading this shall not rely on anything I said and no attorney client relationship nor any privleges of confidentality shall arise from this statement.
Good luck. Also, typed on my iphone so apathetic on rereading to correct spelling probs, i am not gonna bother rereading this
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calistyle
08-21-2012 at 09:51 PM.
08-21-2012 at 09:51 PM.
Quote from koby333 :
i didnt go through all 20 pages but shouldn't that place have security cameras and be able to catch the drink spiker?
That wouldn't necessarily be caught on tape even if they did have cameras.

Quote from athensr :
Wow this thread is full of fail. No attorney is going to answer op's question because they live by 3 rules.

1. Get paid. A legal education and passing the bar ain't cheap.
2. Make sure that if you get paid you keep the money (don't commit malpractice)
3. If someone is going to jail, make sure it ain't you.

Also:
I realize I used the word "ain't", it was intentional.
This case would turn on negligence and the business/property owner's duties to the patrons/business licensees with regard to the state specific case law on duties. The court would also consider causation and the statute of limitations (how long since the accident), the awareness of the staff of the dangerous condition, how high the stage was (obviously 6 inches would be diffwrent than 6 feet), the last clear chance doctrine, trespass, libel and slander issues (saying an idiot is an idiot/whore/etc will cause problems), etc . With regard to your question, I highly suggest they hire a competent attorney. Also, I am not an attorney for anyone here and THIS IS IN NO WAY to be construed, in any manner or relationship, legal advice in any form. Anyone reading this shall not rely on anything I said and no attorney client relationship nor any privleges of confidentality shall arise from this statement.
Good luck. Also, typed on my iphone so apathetic on rereading to correct spelling probs, i am not gonna bother rereading this
So many words...so little meaning.
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athensr
08-21-2012 at 10:02 PM.
08-21-2012 at 10:02 PM.
Quote from calistyle :
That wouldn't necessarily be caught on tape even if they did have cameras.



So many words...so little meaning.

Sadly that is true. Summation--> anyone who gives op a definitive answer is not a lawyer (not enough facts and no location --> illegal to give advice outside of licensed jurisdiction--> don't listen to anyone in this thread, as it is incompetent advice from a non-lawyer
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08-21-2012 at 10:31 PM.
08-21-2012 at 10:31 PM.
Quote from athensr :
Sadly that is true. Summation--> anyone who gives op a definitive answer is not a lawyer (not enough facts and no location --> illegal to give advice outside of licensed jurisdiction--> don't listen to anyone in this thread, as it is incompetent advice from a non-lawyer

QPLR LMAO
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Iaaaiws
08-21-2012 at 10:33 PM.
08-21-2012 at 10:33 PM.
What a maroon laugh out loud
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08-21-2012 at 11:09 PM.
08-21-2012 at 11:09 PM.
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08-22-2012 at 06:30 AM.
08-22-2012 at 06:30 AM.
Quote from athensr :
Sadly that is true. Summation--> anyone who gives op a definitive answer is not a lawyer (not enough facts and no location --> illegal to give advice outside of licensed jurisdiction--> don't listen to anyone in this thread, as it is incompetent advice from a non-lawyer
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PiratePenguin
08-22-2012 at 06:35 AM.
08-22-2012 at 06:35 AM.
Quote from athensr :
Sadly that is true. Summation--> anyone who gives op a definitive answer is not a lawyer (not enough facts and no location --> illegal to give advice outside of licensed jurisdiction--> don't listen to anyone in this thread, as it is incompetent advice from a non-lawyer
My point was to see if this went to trial to see how others would take the situation.

FWIW, we looked through the photos last night and shes only seen with 2 drinks over a period of like 4 hours. And the few of her on stage she does not look intoxicated and is dancing next to several other girls that they also allowed up.

And also there were not any stairs to get up you had to climb up (this was how the bouncers told them to get up) and it was about 4 feet high.
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sushigaiden
08-22-2012 at 06:41 AM.
08-22-2012 at 06:41 AM.
Do not delete anything, WE WILL FIND IT, I'm not gonna explain how about any indications showing that there were photos missing or how to find it but just know its possible to recover even delete files. Not sure how far along this story has gone but she should've been more responsible, you came along with her at least kepted an eye on her, knowing that she is a light drinker I would always keep my friends in eye view just in case anything ever happen. Did she even eat anything before leaving to the bar? Not some light snack but some real food.


Yes one of my friends gets pissed drunk NO MATTER WHAT, actually make that two of them, and we all end up babysitting at the end of the night. Its not our responsibility because he is an adult but because he is a friend.
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08-22-2012 at 06:47 AM.
08-22-2012 at 06:47 AM.
Quote from sushigaiden :
Do not delete anything, WE WILL FIND IT, I'm not gonna explain how about any indications showing that there were photos missing or how to find it but just know its possible to recover even delete files. Not sure how far along this story has gone but she should've been more responsible, you came along with her at least kepted an eye on her, knowing that she is a light drinker I would always keep my friends in eye view just in case anything ever happen. Did she even eat anything before leaving to the bar? Not some light snack but some real food.


Yes one of my friends gets pissed drunk NO MATTER WHAT, actually make that two of them, and we all end up babysitting at the end of the night. Its not our responsibility because he is an adult but because he is a friend.
First off I wasn't there, my wife was. Secondly I'm a systems admin and do a little bit of everything in the IT world. I understand about being able to recover anything.

I'm not saying to delete anything. The girl suing wants only certain photos given. I'm demanding my wife give them all, and she is going to.

Lastly, I've hung out with these girls a lot and she can drink responsibly just fine and knows how to handle it. It wasn't her first time to the rodeo you know Smilie
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08-22-2012 at 08:35 AM.
08-22-2012 at 08:35 AM.
Quote from sushigaiden :
Do not delete anything, WE WILL FIND IT, I'm not gonna explain how about any indications showing that there were photos missing or how to find it but just know its possible to recover even delete files. Not sure how far along this story has gone but she should've been more responsible, you came along with her at least kepted an eye on her, knowing that she is a light drinker I would always keep my friends in eye view just in case anything ever happen. Did she even eat anything before leaving to the bar? Not some light snack but some real food.


Yes one of my friends gets pissed drunk NO MATTER WHAT, actually make that two of them, and we all end up babysitting at the end of the night. Its not our responsibility because he is an adult but because he is a friend.
Kepted? Really? Kepted?
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08-22-2012 at 08:58 AM.
08-22-2012 at 08:58 AM.
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Kepted? Really? Kepted?
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08-22-2012 at 09:41 AM.
08-22-2012 at 09:41 AM.
Quote from nizzy1115 :
And also there were not any stairs to get up you had to climb up (this was how the bouncers told them to get up) and it was about 4 feet high.
How tall are these chicks? 4 feet high sounds like big climb..laugh out loud


And I still think the chick drank a lot more then 2 drinks, but that's besides the point.
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