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Ok so I'll ask....is there anything wrong with me dating a married woman?
November 23, 2010 at
03:06 PM
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It's not me cheating so is there anything wrong with it? A couple of people have told me it's wrong and made it sound like I am evil but they can't really tell me why with anything other than emotional reactions. So what's up?
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I mean, I grew up in Georgia, but even we learned about this in the 6th grade.
How would you feel if someone did this to one of them? If they married, gained some weight, lost some hair, but still loved their wife, who decided she no longer loved them. Perhaps it was your mother. Of course, that's her prerogative. She's welcome to have sex with someone else, but wouldn't she owe them the courtesy of telling your father or your brother that she's doing that? You're not thinking of the husband as a person with rights. You're thinking of him as some useless appendage to the woman that you want it to be okay to boink.
As you said in your original post, the onus of honesty in the marriage lies with her.
as long as she is your wife." yet?
Edit: BE did. (I wasn't as lazy as I thought...)
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He knows he would be pissed if the shoe were on the other foot. Ipso facto, he knows it's wrong and just made this thread hoping someone would provide him with some moral justification for something he knows he shouldn't be doing.
End thread.
He knows he would be pissed if the shoe were on the other foot. Ipso facto, he knows it's wrong and just made this thread hoping someone would provide him with some moral justification for something he knows he shouldn't be doing.
End thread.
I mean, I grew up in Georgia, but even we learned about this in the 6th grade.
How would you feel if someone did this to one of them? If they married, gained some weight, lost some hair, but still loved their wife, who decided she no longer loved them. Perhaps it was your mother. Of course, that's her prerogative. She's welcome to have sex with someone else, but wouldn't she owe them the courtesy of telling your father or your brother that she's doing that? You're not thinking of the husband as a person with rights. You're thinking of him as some useless appendage to the woman that you want it to be okay to boink.
Again it's not my responsibility or place to tell her husband anything.
I would.
I think a little less of you, now. You might not care, but I do.
He's going to be hurt at some point anyway. I wouldn't think less if she could just have the courage to tell him that she is ready to move on and she has moved on...and then deal with the consequences. And if you could have the courage to tell her that you need her to do that to be fair.
I would.
I'm a good person though. Not hurting her or her husband. Not being dishonest or using anyone. Not being unfair or leading her on.
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Now if you just said you were looking to get a little and weren't interested in a relationship with her then at least you could rationalize it off as being part of your selfish adolescent mentality.
Or their wife, in this case.
You are so
I mean, I grew up in Georgia, but even we learned about this in the 6th grade.
I would.
I think a little less of you, now. You might not care, but I do.
He's going to be hurt at some point anyway. I wouldn't think less if she could just have the courage to tell him that she is ready to move on and she has moved on...and then deal with the consequences. And if you could have the courage to tell her that you need her to do that to be fair.