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I have been coming to Slickdeals for a long time...

432 1,827 July 30, 2011 at 06:53 AM in Question
Just recently I have begun frequenting this section of Slickdeals. I am a member of other boards relating to couponing also, and I have received nothing but welcome from these other boards. From reading these threads here at Slickdeals in this section daily for the the past several weeks, I am frankly afraid to post.

There seems to be a small group of people here that act like it is a crime if you don't know which thread to post in, the proper couponing etiquette, ask a question that may have been answered somewhere else, and basically anything they don't care for.

I have found quite a few awesome deals that I want to post and share here, but rarely do because of the behavior exhibited in these threads. Just food for thought. Try to remember you were once a newbie at this, and take care when you think about jumping down someone's throat.

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07-30-2011 at 08:49 AM.
07-30-2011 at 08:49 AM.
Quote from SoCalGal :
So sorry to hear of your bad experience. Yep, we were all new at one point or another. There are some that take great pride in jumping on others, I just assume that they have some sort of insecurity problem. Allot of folks probably see that you have been a member since 2008 and that you should know it all...but that's not always the case.

Hang in there because there are allot of wonderful folks in the Drugstore Forum. If you are looking to save some money, you gotta just jump on in there and learn to ignore nasty comments. The nice and helpful folks will point you in the right direction, if you are posting in the wrong thread.
this is correct, nice post.
Quote from NOTnEXTcpner :
The truth must hurt they moved the thread to the lounge.
it does not belong in a deals discussion forum.
Quote from Piccaboo :
When I first came to The Lounge - it seemed quite intimidating - but Slick Chic took me under her wings via PM and offered to help me if I needed advice - and I was thankful for that - and I learned one thing here - read, read, read - before I began posting anything. I also learned one does need a thick skin no matter where you are posting, as yes there are folks that will tear you a new one, that's a given.

2008, I agree that if you have been here that long - by now you should have read all the FAQ's in the Coupon Threads and other Threads that would have been helpful to you. By responding to other people's posts - you develop a repoir with people - and with that - you gain tutelage if you need it by said person(s).

You just can't complain without action on your own, imho. Please give it another try, you only learn by trying, otherwise, you will remain in the darkness here - and as a newbie Smilie
in the op's defense, this was moved from drugstore forum where rules are slightly different because couponing. but you are correct and your advice works for sitewide.


op, we do not tolerate any users bashing/attacking on someone new to the b&m couponing community. this has been a problem in the past and we're aware of it. there used to be a rule stickied at the top of the ds forum that talks about how newbies are being treated when they venture into that forum. since the recent overhaul of that forum, it must have been inadvertently removed/left out.

in the meantime, please mod alert such posts that contain snarky-ness or attitude towards someone who is trying to help and/or contribute.

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07-30-2011 at 08:51 AM.
07-30-2011 at 08:51 AM.
Whee Glad this thread made it over here.... Thought it was deleted while i was looking for the bitch & whine thread but got distracted by the marines & hookers.....

Now OP .......... Who the hell cares.......... this isnt real life.......... and really if you want to get into the DS deals........... you Definitely need to get used to being treated like shit everyday....... not from the forum but from Real Life Employees..........

Now if "everyone" got treated so horribly in the DS forum........... NO ONE would post there.... sigh ~~~ this is silly
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07-30-2011 at 08:56 AM.
07-30-2011 at 08:56 AM.
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^^ Serra with the mod-cap on. laugh out loud
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07-30-2011 at 09:05 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:05 AM.
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^^ Serra with the mod-cap on. laugh out loud
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07-30-2011 at 09:11 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:11 AM.
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07-30-2011 at 09:26 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:26 AM.
Quote from BadMoonRising :
Whee Glad this thread made it over here.... Thought it was deleted while i was looking for the bitch & whine thread but got distracted by the marines & hookers.....

Now OP .......... Who the hell cares.......... this isnt real life.......... and really if you want to get into the DS deals........... you Definitely need to get used to being treated like shit everyday....... not from the forum but from Real Life Employees..........

Now if "everyone" got treated so horribly in the DS forum........... NO ONE would post there.... sigh ~~~ this is silly
I refuse to be be treated like you get treated everyday but I hope you enjoy it and I know you live in a perfect world with nothing to complain about but no need to curse about it when someone else does complain
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07-30-2011 at 09:39 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:39 AM.
Quote from NOTnEXTcpner :
I refuse to be be treated like you get treated everyday but I hope you enjoy it and I know you live in a perfect world with nothing to complain about but no need to curse about it when someone else does complain
I thought the whole point in coming to the lounge was so I could swear and ramble about nekkid marines & midget porn? Confused

............ Blanket statements are never helpful .... if the OP would have said Hey BMR why are you always so damn mean to me? ... then this would have been a valid complaint... still boring and useless but valid... also a completely accurate statement if they were the kind of person who always comes in clogging up the threads without reading wikis or ad scans because they just want someone to do the damn deals for them. Can't just go around saying everyone is so horrid to one another and cry about it..... especially when you may have been around for years but never contribute to the discussion ~~ Well of course you CAN .... again.... it's just silly~!

Anyone who needs help in the DS forums can always go into the Chat threads..... A LOT of us help out the nooblets... as long as they follow the ~Basic Rules~
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07-30-2011 at 09:41 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:41 AM.
Quote from BadMoonRising :
Whee Glad this thread made it over here.... Thought it was deleted while i was looking for the bitch & whine thread but got distracted by the marines & hookers.....

Now OP .......... Who the hell cares.......... this isnt real life.......... and really if you want to get into the DS deals........... you Definitely need to get used to being treated like shit everyday....... not from the forum but from Real Life Employees..........

Now if "everyone" got treated so horribly in the DS forum........... NO ONE would post there.... sigh ~~~ this is silly
OP doesn't deserve to be treated badly in any Deal Section - as Serra/Mod said OP needs to MA those posts where this happens - that will calm this down for OP - and folks that do this - will think more carefully about how they treat others Wink

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07-30-2011 at 09:45 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:45 AM.
Quote from BadMoonRising :
I thought the whole point in coming to the lounge was so I could swear and ramble about nekkid marines & midget porn? Confused

............ Blanket statements are never helpful .... if the OP would have said Hey BMR why are you always so damn mean to me? ... then this would have been a valid complaint... still boring and useless but valid... also a completely accurate statement if they were the kind of person who always comes in clogging up the threads without reading wikis or ad scans because they just want someone to do the damn deals for them. Can't just go around saying everyone is so horrid to one another and cry about it..... especially when you may have been around for years but never contribute to the discussion ~~ Well of course you CAN .... again.... it's just silly~!

Anyone who needs help in the DS forums can always go into the Chat threads..... A LOT of us help out the nooblets... as long as they follow the ~Basic Rules~
sorry 1st time in lounge did not know it was a cursing place, i guess I should have read the wiki, disregard my last post it was a newbie mistake
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07-30-2011 at 09:47 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:47 AM.
Quote from serra :
in the meantime, please mod alert such posts that contain snarky-ness or attitude towards someone who is trying to help and/or contribute.
If this applies in the Lounge is it possible to get it set up so that every post is automatically mod-alerted as it gets posted? It would be far easier to turn off this feature for the few non-snarky posts than to mod alert every one.
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07-30-2011 at 09:49 AM.
07-30-2011 at 09:49 AM.
Quote from Piccaboo :
Dark Red doesn't become you, btw - try black Smilie
Crying

~~ of all the things people have said to me on SD .... That is by FAR the most insulting thing ever

Crying

............ but yeah

Think I'lll just get over it
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07-30-2011 at 10:02 AM.
07-30-2011 at 10:02 AM.
Quote from BlueLightSpcial :
Well, judging at your post here, I'm guessing you don't try very hard to follow the basic rules. Wink
Quote from BlueLightSpcial :
Well you need to be a bit less sensitive. If my previous post was a "zinger", I strongly suggest you go back into lurk mode until you can take comments less personal.

People who contribute very little haven't earned the right to complain about getting deals. You aren't being singled out, everyone is subjected to the same posts.. There are idiots everywhere in life, and you are the only person that can control how it impacts you.

My problem with you just from my initial exposure to you in this thread: Don't post stupid messages in improper forums.. This is not a deal, nor is it a Drugstore / Grocery B&M deal / discussion.

Are you that afraid of addressing the issue you had in the proper thread?
Quote from BadMoonRising :
Whee Glad this thread made it over here.... Thought it was deleted while i was looking for the bitch & whine thread but got distracted by the marines & hookers.....

Now OP .......... Who the hell cares.......... this isnt real life.......... and really if you want to get into the DS deals........... you Definitely need to get used to being treated like shit everyday....... not from the forum but from Real Life Employees..........

Now if "everyone" got treated so horribly in the DS forum........... NO ONE would post there.... sigh ~~~ this is silly
Quote from BadMoonRising :
I thought the whole point in coming to the lounge was so I could swear and ramble about nekkid marines & midget porn? Confused

............ Blanket statements are never helpful .... if the OP would have said Hey BMR why are you always so damn mean to me? ... then this would have been a valid complaint... still boring and useless but valid... also a completely accurate statement if they were the kind of person who always comes in clogging up the threads without reading wikis or ad scans because they just want someone to do the damn deals for them. Can't just go around saying everyone is so horrid to one another and cry about it..... especially when you may have been around for years but never contribute to the discussion ~~ Well of course you CAN .... again.... it's just silly~!

Anyone who needs help in the DS forums can always go into the Chat threads..... A LOT of us help out the nooblets... as long as they follow the ~Basic R
ules~

Don't have any power or control in real life, huh? Lousy job or lousy marriage, maybe being told what to do all the time and how to do it? So...you get on the net and try to get some control of your own over strangers who can't stop you. They can't fire you and they can't divorce you.

I see a couple people just like you all the time over in surveys, coming down hard on anyone who asks a simple question, harsh treatment and bullying of new folks or anyone who makes a tiny error in posting. Snide, pompous, arrogant, smug, obnoxious, full of yourself...........vomit

Hopefully the OP will realize that people like you are pathetic and just try to ignore the nastiness, or least give back some nasty in return.

hug for the OP.
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07-30-2011 at 10:22 AM.
07-30-2011 at 10:22 AM.
Quote from JSinger :
I see a couple people just like you all the time over in surveys, coming down hard on anyone who asks a simple question, harsh treatment and bullying of new folks or anyone who makes a tiny error in posting. Snide, pompous, arrogant, smug, obnoxious, full of yourself...........vomit
Seriously don't know about the survey forum....

But there are How To Threads for RA, Wags & CVS.... there are Chat Threads for RA Wags, Target & Walmart, there is even a Couponing 101 thread....

All the op or ANYONE has to do is the basic research and then ask questions in whatever thread that it relates to.... Like I said before A LOT of people take the time to answer questions ~~~ As long as the person shows some initiative to help themselves
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07-30-2011 at 10:42 AM.
07-30-2011 at 10:42 AM.
Quote from JSinger :
Don't have any power or control in real life, huh? Lousy job or lousy marriage, maybe being told what to do all the time and how to do it? So...you get on the net and try to get some control of your own over strangers who can't stop you. They can't fire you and they can't divorce you.

I see a couple people just like you all the time over in surveys, coming down hard on anyone who asks a simple question, harsh treatment and bullying of new folks or anyone who makes a tiny error in posting. Snide, pompous, arrogant, smug, obnoxious, full of yourself...........vomit

Hopefully the OP will realize that people like you are pathetic and just try to ignore the nastiness, or least give back some nasty in return.

hug for the OP.
Oh no, it's a mean person that the OP spoke about, I'm going back underground cowering! LMAO
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